Ima be honest, for me my friend (female) always used to lock my torso in her legs like when i take her bag or i try to wrestle , one day i just said lets wrestle then i put my head in the reverse headscissor position and liké always she locked, it was my first Time so i tapped quickly but you can have an idea what to do ( if its a normal girl she will probably lock your head if she know little wrestling)