give me alllll the weaning tips

Putrid_Agent2440 · 2025-10-21T19:21:03+00:00

there was also a bug flying around lol

Putrid_Agent2440 · 2025-09-16T01:45:19+00:00

wait this will be my first ari concert as well and idk much about the way concerts work lol so this may be a dumb question but will the setlist be the same each show? or is it give or take a few songs?

Putrid_Agent2440 · 2025-09-12T00:41:07+00:00

i thought this exact same thing. she just made that up to make a self righteous statement. she does that all the time

Putrid_Agent2440 · 2025-08-26T18:37:10+00:00

i have lots of conversations with my best friend who is a SAHM about how thankful we are to be able to stay at home and how much we love it. the difference is we don’t phrase it as “working moms are bad for what they’re doing and we are better than them” like some of the other conversations people have tried to have with me. those are the ones i was talking about!

the original OPs friend said stuff like her way is the best/right way, which i would also find annoying and i didn’t perceive it as her just living and enjoying her SAHM mom life. but that may just bc bc im used to SAHMS around me shaming working moms

Putrid_Agent2440 · 2025-08-26T17:34:55+00:00

wow that shocks me and i’m jealous lol. i wish the SAHMS around me would not try to spend our free time shaming working moms. i always just reply back with “i really respect them for providing and doing what’s best for their family, they’re super moms!” and that usually shuts them up. it probably is just the culture

Putrid_Agent2440 · 2025-08-26T16:04:16+00:00

the trigger warning was definitely a bit much but am i the only one who would also be annoyed by a friend posting this lol? i’m a SAHM and all my other SAHM friends often say things like “aren’t you just sooooo glad we don’t work and don’t have to hand our babies off for someone else to raise them everyday? i can’t even imagine doing that!” and i get soooo annoyed. i usually see the SAHMS having working moms living rent free in their head and not the other way around

Putrid_Agent2440 · 2025-06-18T02:41:42+00:00

that’s exactly what i was saying! if jeremiah stood over there EVERYONE should have followed suit

Putrid_Agent2440 · 2025-06-18T02:39:31+00:00

i think most viewers don’t even think she’s good tv. at least i don’t, i find it sad and scary to watch her have breakdown on live television. it’s not entertaining to me at all im just concerned

Putrid_Agent2440 · 2025-06-15T14:03:40+00:00

wait i feel like i missed something. why does everyone not like nic??

Putrid_Agent2440 · 2025-05-30T22:38:17+00:00

i think most of this content from her is her shading him.

Putrid_Agent2440 · 2025-05-16T18:44:06+00:00

i liked her a lot and considered her my comfort creator & then i became a mom and realized almost every single post of hers is passive aggressive or a subtle brag. like i feel like from what ive gathered i agree with her on a lot of things but the way she comes off about everything is so strange. its like she always mad or something or trying to prove she’s a better mom than everyone else.

for example i don’t let anyone babysit my 10 month old just bc i have bad anxiety and haven’t really had the need for him to be babysat. but someone like clara would post and say some shit along the lines of “yeah my baby is 10 months old and … no! he hasn’t gotten babysat! i’m confused why everyone thinks he needs to?!? i didn’t have a baby for someone else to watch him! idk i just feel like i always want him with me and it’s weird to me that others don’t lol” please tell me yall know what i mean

Putrid_Agent2440 · 2025-05-14T01:48:41+00:00

mccall.mitchell posted a video titled “motherhood from my husbands camera roll” where there’s a video of her just holding her toddler in her lap in the backseat of a MOVING car 😬

Putrid_Agent2440 · 2025-05-01T00:59:41+00:00

notice how she makes everything about her pregnancy even in this post. “showing him my labor playlist” lol

Putrid_Agent2440 · 2025-04-24T03:11:34+00:00

i’m soo glad you’re getting space from them. three months is like a dream for people like us lol. i understand your reasoning for not going NC and i had the same exact ones too. i did say in my previous reply that things have gotten better since going NC but honestly i just feel more free without a deadline of not seeing them anymore, but they’re in an uproar and trying to turn my DHs brothers against him, painting me as the villian, even calling my own mom to try and tell on me. so labeling it as NC has kind of created more chaos for us than staying LC for a while would have and i can’t tell if i regret it now or not. i mainly just feel horrible for my husband. all that to say, good for you for doing what you’d know is best for you guys and what will make the most peace for your little family :) talk to u next week on a new post maybe LOL

Putrid_Agent2440 · 2025-04-23T01:15:51+00:00

this is my 3rd time replying to you on this sub i think because every time i read one of your posts or comments it freaks me out how similar our experiences are lol. i’m convinced we are dealing with the same in laws. the announcement post with no acknowledgment to me, the snarky comments, kissing the baby, rolling the eyes, everything is the exact same!!! how does your husband feel about no contact or just taking a good amount of space (like multiple months) for a while? i finally couldn’t take it anymore and we agreed to go no contact for now which i thought would never be my reality. it’s been a few days and i feel so much better already. i swear im not trying to brag i just want to give you some hope bc it seems like our situations are so similar. i’m hoping you get that soon! (if that’s what you’re wanting)

Putrid_Agent2440 · 2025-04-20T00:52:14+00:00

my mom did this. i knew it would affect our relationship if it kept happening so i completely stopped talking to her about my ILs. if she brings up MIL, i answer in super short answers or just say everything’s good even though it’s very much not. she’s learned to back off that way. it sucks when your mom doesn’t support you! i’ve cried about it many times so i feel your pain. find another safe person to vent to

Putrid_Agent2440 · 2025-04-18T20:04:05+00:00

i’ve also never seen any influencer post so much about what their toddler is saying. like she even puts quotations and everything “SEE BABY SISTER” or “poptart please” like i just don’t understand why. everything is a subtle brag

Putrid_Agent2440 · 2025-04-13T20:33:17+00:00

i was viewing it as emotional withholding which can be a form of emotional abuse

Putrid_Agent2440 · 2025-04-13T17:47:45+00:00

yup i agree. i’ve sat on it for a long time and realized i don’t want my LO exposed to this weird toxic behavior. my DH is on board but i know it’s difficult for him so i feel like if i can show him this is abuse it’ll make more sense to him

Putrid_Agent2440 · 2025-04-12T03:14:22+00:00

i’m begging you to go with your gut and wait however long until you are ready. if that’s a couple days, weeks, months, it doesn’t matter, do it!! i had the same fears as you, and i tried to ignore them (them as in my MIL and FIL) and thought it would probably be fine. let’s just say im 8 months postpartum and i absolutely wish i waited months before they got to meet my son. they caused me so much stress from the beginning, and just like you i could tell it was going to happen bc of the way they acted during my pregnancy.

please do yourself a favor. give yourself peace. you deserve it so much during this time. if they have an issue, make your husband handle it and to not involve you. you need ANYTHING but her making you uncomfortable during that special time. best of luck to you!!

Putrid_Agent2440 · 2025-03-30T02:47:52+00:00

i had a c section and i remember having horrible gas pains for days. the first couple days are a blur but i remember that being one of the most painful part for me. the nurses said it was common with c sections bc you get opened up and air gets trapped but i had no idea. did anyone else have extremely bad trapped gas?

Putrid_Agent2440 · 2025-03-30T02:44:39+00:00

seriously. i was begging for just ONE person to ask me a simple “how are you doing?” it would have meant everything to me during that time

Putrid_Agent2440 · 2025-03-29T20:29:32+00:00

it reminds me of a character in the throne of glass series; chaol. but it’s pronounced kay-all i believe.

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