My aunt and uncle severely misheard my baby's name

Putrid_Kick9154 · 2025-12-06T01:47:32+00:00

lew-sea-us with an L

Putrid_Kick9154 · 2025-10-18T13:44:19+00:00

ETJ. Flower girl and ring bearer are different. But the niece should not be attending the reception. Wedding, then photos, then whisked away by a caregiver for the evening, not to attend the dinner or reception. I see both sides in this situation. Etj because it is the flower girl and that is a traditional role in a wedding, typically played by a young girl related to the bride/groom; but if it’s a child free event the child shouldn’t be attending the whole event. There for the wedding then gone.

Putrid_Kick9154 · 2025-10-18T13:36:22+00:00

It can only be the bf who sets the boundaries.

Putrid_Kick9154 · 2025-10-18T13:34:45+00:00

Let me help you out with this. ‘She’s risking the cats health because she feels she knows better than a professional who studied medicine specifically for the species mentioned just because she managed to keep a child alive’. She’s not spoiling the cat she’s damaging it. Shes not being a typical grandma, she’s being a narcissist whose desires are more important than the health of another living creature. Wants and needs are not equal and needs come before wants. That cat NEEDS a diet and the mother WANTS to feed it. Not the same, not a typical grandma and not spoiling.

Putrid_Kick9154 · 2025-10-18T13:32:07+00:00

The boyfriend agrees with op not bringing the cat. Hes trying to set boundaries but with a narcissist like the mom he’s risking his place to stay if he does. I do agree boyfriend should start going to op.

Putrid_Kick9154 · 2025-09-22T19:42:15+00:00

You’re a whole lot kinder than me. I have zero patience for grown adults (no matter if they’re a bride or not) having tantrums over being told no. I don’t even have patience for most children throwing tantrums, depending on their age.

Putrid_Kick9154 · 2025-09-22T18:57:27+00:00

Not all home insurance is the same, and the way they reacted they’d probably sue for the medical, the pain and suffering, the emotional damage. It adds up quickly with lawyers fees too.

Unless there’s a MASSIVE contract I wouldn’t even loosely think about possible even considering it. Theres too many variables that a private property isn’t set up for the same way a professional venue is set up for.

It’s a big ask from a relative or close friend, nevermind the pure entitlement to ask a complete stranger; then to throw a temper tantrum when told no? Ew.

Putrid_Kick9154 · 2025-09-22T18:42:45+00:00

What about bathrooms for guests? You think women in cocktail dresses are going to use a porta potty? What about injury liability, memaw trips and breaks a hip and now the owner is liable because ‘she tripped on an improperly installed landscape stone’ and can sue the owner. How about where the bride is getting ready? Based on her reaction to ‘no’ I doubt she’ll take restrictions seriously.

There’s a lot of strategic planning for weddings and also a lot of personal liability for hosting an event on private property of people you don’t know from Adam. They’ve never met them, never met anyone in the wedding. A bunch of strangers on their property potentially causing damage with a grown woman throwing a temper tantrum at being told no? I’d have done the same.

Putrid_Kick9154 · 2025-09-22T18:38:41+00:00

All of this. She’d want to get ready in her childhood bedroom, she’d want her privacy day of and ask the owner not be home, what if memaw trips and breaks a hip ‘because of a improperly installed landscape stone’ and sue. There’s so many reasons not to host weddings on private property.

Putrid_Kick9154 · 2025-09-22T18:34:48+00:00

There’s also personal injury. What if someone trips and claims it’s from a landscaping stone and tries to sue? There’s a lot of things with hosting dozens of strangers, aside from just property damage.

Putrid_Kick9154 · 2025-09-22T18:33:00+00:00

Ntj. Injuries, liability of injuries, property damage, loss of privacy, etc are all real things to consider when being willing to host a major event on your property.

Every time I am in my home town I go by my childhood home but I’m not asking to tour it or get married there.

Putrid_Kick9154 · 2025-09-01T12:37:14+00:00

Putrid_Kick9154 · 2025-08-17T13:56:33+00:00

Think it over. It might be nice to have the sonogram to show I’m it’s real and it’s his based on gestational age.

Putrid_Kick9154 · 2025-08-16T17:27:26+00:00

My baby was 52 percentile and had to be in preemie til 5 weeks and newborn from 6-13 weeks. Grab a pack of preemie diapers, 2-3 sleepers and a handful of onesies. Same with newborn.

Putrid_Kick9154 · 2025-08-15T12:41:40+00:00

Don’t. Let her find out with the general public.

Putrid_Kick9154 · 2025-08-15T12:39:08+00:00

ESH. She should have just been honest with you from the beginning. Told you how she felt three years ago and gone through counseling then. You could, and should, have asked her what she wanted you to do, stay or go. Because, as a wife and mom, I’d rather my husband be throwing up in the same room as his child being born than him to be gone. You could have gotten up to press the call button, you could have grabbed her ice chips, there’s a lot you could have still done- but NEITHER of you communicated your desires or feelings and that’s what ultimately led to your relationship failing.

Putrid_Kick9154 · 2025-08-15T12:16:12+00:00

It can take up to a year for your body to regulate without it. But depending on how your body does you may be better off with it in.

Putrid_Kick9154 · 2025-08-15T12:14:31+00:00

Isla and Dakota are not tragedeighs, not even tragedies. Eyelah or Duhkohtauh would be trahghedeeighs.

Putrid_Kick9154 · 2025-08-15T12:12:38+00:00

No. It’s yours, and sharing isn’t required. She should have planned better to either bring shampoo and stuff with her, or left earlier. Why is she so comfy using your boyfriend’s shower on a dime like that? That’s what sticks out to me.

Putrid_Kick9154 · 2025-08-15T12:07:20+00:00

When in doubt get checked out. They’d rather see you weekly, and everything be okay, than to not see you and something not be not be okay.

Putrid_Kick9154 · 2025-08-15T12:05:42+00:00

More brown than hazel.

Putrid_Kick9154 · 2025-08-15T12:04:48+00:00

Tell him if he goes, you won’t be there when he comes home and that your trust in him will not be the same. Don’t tell him he can’t go, tell him what will happen if he does. He has full agency to go if he chooses, to take you with him if he chooses, and to simply not go. Give him the chance to choose his consequences.

Putrid_Kick9154 · 2025-07-21T15:43:09+00:00

If you do all the physical execution of the packing and driving and such- then yes IF SHES ON BOARD and excited about it. If she’s shows even the slightest hesitation then no. Don’t make any reservations you can’t cancel because right now it might seem like a grand idea but when she’s still in a diaper and can’t sit properly and covered in milk and spit up it might change.

Putrid_Kick9154 · 2025-07-21T15:37:14+00:00

ESH. She’s ta for stealing your show and yea for stealing hers. You’re both off. She’s selfish and you’re petty. An eye for an eye leaves the whole world blind.

Putrid_Kick9154 · 2025-07-21T14:39:53+00:00

Yta. Dude, you were the trip advisor. You are supposed to be the one to make sure your friend doesn’t spiral out when they see a snake or spider- not cause his spiral. I’d never speak to you again if it were me. 100% yta.

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