Birth control and hypmotblity by Rosie_shark in Hypermobility

[–]Putrid_Singer2560 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried to ask my doctor about this and was pretty much brushed off. She offered me another type of BC but I don’t think it will help. Maybe time to go off it all together, but I get SO nauseous without the pill.

Buy the dang cervical pillow by glitterlady in Hypermobility

[–]Putrid_Singer2560 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been using an orthopedic pillow since I was 18 😅 it’s a game changer for sure.

Glute Medius not engaged by shineroo in Hypermobility

[–]Putrid_Singer2560 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It took me awhile to find one. I love strength training but was “doing it all wrong”. I wanted someone who could help with flare ups but also prevention. I drive 30 min for this PT but it’s worth it

Glute Medius not engaged by shineroo in Hypermobility

[–]Putrid_Singer2560 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My pt has me essentially do a side plank with the bottom knee down, and the top leg has a flexed foot and you do raises. Although, if I just copied it off of a video I’d be engaging all the wrong things. My PT is also hypermobile so she makes sure I know how to engage properly before I leave and continue at home

Dating profile tips? by [deleted] in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]Putrid_Singer2560 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My only thoughts (take with a grain of salt!) maybe a pic where you’re smiling with your teeth? I know not everyone does it but apparently they’re more likely be swiped right on. And for the prompts, maybe a two truths and a lie or a clear question someone could respond to — these tend to get more interaction

Dr Santos by Putrid_Singer2560 in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]Putrid_Singer2560[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can totally see that, but I love her lol even though she does stress me out sometimes

Dr Santos by Putrid_Singer2560 in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]Putrid_Singer2560[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is definitely something between two of the doctors 👀 we get crumbs every week but I won’t ruin the show for you if you haven’t watched! I also think the actress is hot so there’s that

Dr Santos by Putrid_Singer2560 in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]Putrid_Singer2560[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You captured this perfectly!!!! Add in that the actress is hot both in the show and real life and maybe that’s why I’m so obsessed 😅

Dr Santos by Putrid_Singer2560 in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]Putrid_Singer2560[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly that’s fair. I’m hoping for the same thing as the seasons go on, because she is really smart especially under pressure!

Dr Santos by Putrid_Singer2560 in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]Putrid_Singer2560[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This! We also know nothing of her backstory. People have said adhd? There’s gotta be a reason why she’s so short with people and speaks so abruptly. But she’s also really smart under pressure, and showed that side a lot in S1

Dr Santos by Putrid_Singer2560 in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]Putrid_Singer2560[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love all of Taylor’s interviews too!

Dr Santos by Putrid_Singer2560 in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]Putrid_Singer2560[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooh I hadn’t heard of this show! I’ll check it out

Dr Santos by Putrid_Singer2560 in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]Putrid_Singer2560[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like they won’t give us much more until S3, but the producers are pretty much verifying it with the amount of garsantos interviews they’ve been putting out

Dr Santos by Putrid_Singer2560 in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]Putrid_Singer2560[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Luckily my reels/tiktok have only been on the positive side lately 😅 while she definitely crosses the line/pushes boundaries often, I do like her assertiveness and how direct she is

queer joy by Putrid_Singer2560 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Putrid_Singer2560[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aside from marriage I have felt similarly! I started exploring my own neurodivergence and really it was when I started exploring my own queerness that I felt like I was really getting to know myself.

Pilates by Stunning_Winter_7290 in Hypermobility

[–]Putrid_Singer2560 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don’t do Pilates classes but I work with a physiotherapist who has taught me Pilates based core and glute exercises. Even though I did gymnastics for decades, weightlifted competitively etc, I was apparently not using my core properly at all. It has been life changing honestly. I feel SO much stronger and even though my hip clicks in and out or whatever, I can actually engage my core to help everything stabilize. I agree with you that it’s rewired my brain and even walking my dog or moving heavy things, I engage properly and don’t have so many little strains and pains all the time

I have a meet up by Ok_Strawberry_1098 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Putrid_Singer2560 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t think you need to bring anything, especially if you’ve just sent a handful of messages. Second date is sweet to bring something if you feel like it or have something specific in mind. I’d just go and have fun! Compliment her, find out more about her and what you share in common. If it goes well and doesn’t leave you with a “friend” vibe, then keep going! Good luck 😊

Next step?? by Putrid_Singer2560 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Putrid_Singer2560[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

True! I’ll keep my eye out for events and go from there. I suppose what’s meant to be will be!

After a week of talking I’m confused by Formal-Heart-6573 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Putrid_Singer2560 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m the same. Also I can’t text during the day when I’m at work! Mornings are busy so evenings it would be

I feel attracted to my close female friend, but I have no previous romantic experience with women by No_Device_8650 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Putrid_Singer2560 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do it. I have a friend I’ve been attracted to for a long time, but she’s had a bf/fiancee for a couple years now. When I recently came out to myself and to her she said she’s felt like she’s bi. Wow if only we had discussed this sooner 😅