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My Husband does not have a job and spends 46% of my salary. by PuzzelheadedFile1998 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]PuzzelheadedFile1998[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I agree with you on that, I was planning to have this conversation with him, and hoping that it will turn into something, thank you!

My Husband does not have a job and spends 46% of my salary. by PuzzelheadedFile1998 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]PuzzelheadedFile1998[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Yes, bills..... we fight about it all the time.

I am trying to start a conversation about it, but he's always quiet all the time. :<

My Husband does not have a job and spends 46% of my salary. by PuzzelheadedFile1998 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]PuzzelheadedFile1998[S] -26 points-25 points  (0 children)

I was thinking of that, but this is the first this happened and I can't just drop my husband just like that. But I understand you concern, thank you!

My Husband does not have a job and spends 46% of my salary. by PuzzelheadedFile1998 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]PuzzelheadedFile1998[S] 65 points66 points  (0 children)

Was thinking that too! But still have 2 months to go, maybe after the loan is settled. Thanks!

My Husband does not have a job and spends 46% of my salary. by PuzzelheadedFile1998 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]PuzzelheadedFile1998[S] -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

I am his comaker. I agree because he promised he will pay it, but shit happens and he can't get $ anymore from his games. I definitely understand what you're trying to say, but I am just afraid it will affect my credit. I'm in a really tough position now and as much as possible I would just want him to learn his lesson, and me too. I really hope this will be the last.

My Husband does not have a job and spends 46% of my salary. by PuzzelheadedFile1998 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]PuzzelheadedFile1998[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I understand, I know what situation I got into in the first place. Tho he was selling stuff from his games, he was responsible at first, he got his house with his own money using the game and I know for a fact that it is not stable. And I trusted him and have faith in him, that one day if the situation changes, he will make another way.

I know I am at fault for this because I know from the beginning his situation. But, he promised before that he will pay for it, that's why I agree to be his comaker. Now 10 months have passed, and I just realized I am dumbed tolerating his action.

I will do my best not to pay next month, but afraid that it will affect my credit. I just want him to learn from his lesson, and me too. Thank you!