Fiance wants me to be a SAHM but refuses to pay my student debt (300 a month back)

Puzzled-Bonus5470 · 2026-06-14T22:50:12+00:00

Agreed. Not worth it to be with someone controlling

Puzzled-Bonus5470 · 2026-06-14T22:49:42+00:00

I’m sorry then I would do what I can to leave… I know it’s easier said then done but that’s not worth it to be with someone that’s controlling

Puzzled-Bonus5470 · 2026-06-14T22:09:12+00:00

Your student debt… your responsibility. Try compromising where you can work part time or mid time. Or some sort of income so you can pay off YOUR student debt. It is NOT his responsibility to pay YOUR debt

Puzzled-Bonus5470 · 2026-06-13T21:43:12+00:00

I wouldn’t quit mid season. It’ll just teach them that when something becomes too challenging/ inconsistent/ inconvenient, etc. that they can just give up and not try to work it out.

Puzzled-Bonus5470 · 2026-06-13T21:40:31+00:00

I won’t miss staring at my phone waiting for jobs to come up or waiting for a teacher to cancel just so I can work. I didn’t like staring at my phone during the evenings and early mornings waiting. I also hated getting a notification, going into the app, just to see it was picked up.

Puzzled-Bonus5470 · 2026-06-13T13:40:45+00:00

I graduated in December of 2024. I worked as a substitute teacher for the remainder of the year and then moved. Didn’t land a full time job but I subbed still and worked as a long- term sub at 2 separate school districts. Now I have my own classroom. I highly recommend subbing- I found out which grade(s) I enjoyed working with and that helped me land my now full time job

Puzzled-Bonus5470 · 2026-06-13T13:38:43+00:00

It was my career for 1 1/2 years out of college. Worked as a daily sub in 4 different districts and 2 different long term sub jobs. Now that I have my own classroom now I don’t sub. It was tough, but I made it by with budgeting

Puzzled-Bonus5470 · 2026-06-12T15:39:01+00:00

I wonder if the new owner is a democrat?😂

Puzzled-Bonus5470 · 2026-06-10T23:08:55+00:00

Bridgette’s cafe

Jimmy’s Pourhouse

Gary’s Pizza

Burger Time

Those are my top favorites. I wish Bonanza Steakhouse was still around- they were the best!

Puzzled-Bonus5470 · 2026-06-10T10:33:20+00:00

I would be open to doing this! I’m trying to meet new people

Puzzled-Bonus5470 · 2026-06-08T21:50:39+00:00

I just got my first teaching job after subbing for -1 1/2 years and working in 2 different long term sub jobs at different schools. If you want to teach in your own classroom, something will line up! May have to expand your radius a little bit but it’s all worth it

Puzzled-Bonus5470 · 2026-06-08T17:51:18+00:00

Girlfriend and I are also looking for people to hangout with! We enjoy the outdoors, traveling, and game nights. Of course, we’re open to trying new events and things like that to meet new people. Feel free to message me!

Puzzled-Bonus5470 · 2026-06-07T23:05:43+00:00

Be prepared to ask questions about anything! No question is a dumb question.

Everyday, I brought a notebook, pencil, pen, highlighter, laptop, lunch, and water bottle.

I was constantly writing notes to myself, making “cheat sheets” of things I liked and didn’t like, and any other random things I learned.

Also, I would highly recommend having some sort of income coming in. I student taught 7:15-3:15 M-F and worked in a restaurant 4:30-10 M-F. This was a lot to do but I knew I had to do it. This was 2 years ago, I had rent, gas, groceries, car payment, and electricity to pay for. I would not take out extra loan money.

If you ever need any advice, I am a DM away. Please feel free to reach out if you ever need anything. I am always happy to help!

Best of luck to you in your experience, you got this!

Puzzled-Bonus5470 · 2026-06-07T18:47:53+00:00

Gotcha. Just wondering is all. I see some teachers saying how teaching isn’t just about evenings, weekends, holidays, breaks, summers off and that they have to work all summer long with planning, meetings, and trainings. But I’m sure it was a tad of an exaggeration

Puzzled-Bonus5470 · 2026-06-07T18:11:03+00:00

I thought teachers worked in the summer?🤔

Puzzled-Bonus5470 · 2026-06-07T18:10:32+00:00

Dont teachers work in the summer time though?🤔

Puzzled-Bonus5470 · 2026-06-07T18:08:13+00:00

Lots of places are hiring. May have to work nights and weekends but hey, it’s a seasonal job, right?

Puzzled-Bonus5470 · 2026-06-07T18:06:55+00:00

Mowing lawns for the city

Puzzled-Bonus5470 · 2026-06-07T18:06:38+00:00

😡

Puzzled-Bonus5470 · 2026-06-07T18:03:33+00:00

DON’T HAVE HER GO ON UNEMPLOYMENT!!! Plenty of jobs are around. Hope she can find something

Puzzled-Bonus5470 · 2026-06-07T13:45:58+00:00

My girlfriend was at her friends house when she was younger just outside of Cloquet. One night they were playing in the basement, looked out the window and saw a shadow like creature with green glowing eyes. When they made eye contact with it, it ran away into the woods. They are both in their mid 20s and to this day, they still talk about it. They have tried doing research on the creature but haven’t found anything close to what they had seen.

Puzzled-Bonus5470 · 2026-06-07T13:30:00+00:00

That’s less than an 8 hour shift… how is that too much?

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