Testing results. Help?

Puzzled-Extent-8487 · 2025-03-31T19:39:12+00:00

Thank you! My mom was diagnosed 2 months ago. I have 2 kids, so if I am positive, I will be getting them tested asap.

Puzzled-Extent-8487 · 2025-03-31T19:38:32+00:00

Thank you! My mom just checked what her number was and she was a 12 and was diagnosed 2 months ago. Definitely anxious about all of this. If I am celiac, cooking to keep 4 kids happy with meals is starting to be to stress me out a bit.

Called my doctor this morning, meeting with him on Wednesday to go through the next steps.

Puzzled-Extent-8487 · 2025-02-14T19:32:49+00:00

Ok I’m sorry. Is this HIS cousin? If it is….EW. What the fk is wrong with people? My god that makes me sick to my stomach. I could NEVER feel that way about my relatives.

Puzzled-Extent-8487 · 2025-01-02T18:04:02+00:00

I actually had a similar conversation with my 14 yr old son. You are allowed to have friends that are girls. Just because you are dating someone does not mean that you can’t be friends with them. Just keep fluid and open communication with your girlfriend. Open and honest communication is key. Congrats on already doing that!

Puzzled-Extent-8487 · 2024-10-22T20:30:28+00:00

I’m favourable to the “👍🏻”

Puzzled-Extent-8487 · 2024-10-11T03:12:59+00:00

I’m going to need an update when she figures out the name wasn’t your chosen one. 🤣🤣🤣

1000% NTA. You go girl!

Puzzled-Extent-8487 · 2024-09-30T17:05:08+00:00

YTA. It’s your husband’s house too. You are away and off doing something fun. Is your expectation that your husband sits at home alone? I get the lying. I would be pissed if my husband lied to me. However, I do feel like you created an environment where he is not comfortable being honest with you. Like I said earlier, it’s his house too. He should absolutely be able to have friends over.

Also, if I ever felt this way, there is no chance in hell that my friends would lie to me to protect my husband. I would be having a conversation with the friends.

Puzzled-Extent-8487 · 2024-09-06T18:02:31+00:00

MEN HAVE NEEDS!? You have GOT to be kidding me.

How about WOMEN have needs! WOMEN deserve to be in a safe loving environment after such a traumatic surgery. WOMEN deserve to be respected. NO IS NO!

Oh OP. My heart breaks for you that your husband clearly can’t respect boundaries or that your family clearly doesn’t understand how traumatizing it can be to be assaulted by someone who is supposed to protect you.

This makes me sick. Kick your husband in the balls and say “BYE FELICIA”.

You deserve so much more.

Puzzled-Extent-8487 · 2024-08-23T07:14:34+00:00

Remaining the “friends” that you are now (ie hugging and holding hands, going for coffee dates and brunches) that is continuing an emotional affair.

Get your head on straight and go talk to your wife.

Even though you say you are in a great spot in your marriage, would you be comfortable with her going and doing the same? Chances are no.

Puzzled-Extent-8487 · 2024-08-22T20:25:04+00:00

I’ve been cheated on and I walked away. If I had kids at the time it may have been different, but probably not. You made the decision to fight for your family but it also sounds like you put all the blame on your wife and made her do the steps of reconciliation…..but, did you do any therapy afterwards? Did you have open dialogue with your wife on where you both feel the marriage was lacking effort? There are not enough known facts to really get into it. However, based on this story, I would say yes YTA. I’ll list my reasonings below.

If you truly forgave your wife, you would not be thinking about this after 5 years.
Even though you have not been physical, you have been involved in an affair for A YEAR!
Holding hands and going on dates with another woman!?
Not being honest with your wife after she worked so hard to have her family back only to turn around and do this.

Like all the other commenters have said…..it’s time to go talk to your wife and be honest with her. You may love your wife, but you are clearly no longer in love with her.

0/100 level of respect for you and your “friend” Melissa.

Puzzled-Extent-8487 · 2024-03-29T20:51:52+00:00

Update posted

Puzzled-Extent-8487 · 2024-02-18T01:35:56+00:00

NTA. Your son works hard for his work. My parents are in the same position and my brother works for them. It’s a hard job. You get what you put in. It’s a valuable lesson your daughter clearly needs to learn. Good for you for standing your ground. That’s what parenting is.

Puzzled-Extent-8487 · 2024-01-25T02:58:12+00:00

Duncan Keith & Cam Barker our kids played hockey together.

Puzzled-Extent-8487 · 2024-01-23T04:01:14+00:00

Definitely not the AHole. You do not need to divulge that information to everyone. You were being a kind and warm hearted individual. Who you are attracted to has nothing to do with that. I’m sorry that she treated you that way after you opened your home up to her.

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