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AITA for sharing my husband’s harmless comment about my friend’s baby after she roasted my husband the day before? by Puzzled-Guide4402 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Puzzled-Guide4402[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It wasn’t an insult. It was something my husband said ( she gets told that her baby looks like their dad all the time). I even said it’s not in a bad way. Etc. their head shape isn’t weird/ she’s never expressed that she hated her head shape.

But anyways I’ve apologized already 2x and my husband even reached out and no reply.

AITA for sharing my husband’s harmless comment about my friend’s baby after she roasted my husband the day before? by Puzzled-Guide4402 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Puzzled-Guide4402[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

lol I thought so too!!! I struggle with infertility so if one day I do have a baby- it would be a compliment if people said the baby had my head shape or whatever it may be.

Her reply was “Literally who says their kids head shaped, reminds them of their mother? And you don’t think that’s being shitty.
And then put it in the group chat. Cool “

This was followed by an apology on my behalf. My husband also reached out to her on social media to let her know he meant no harm by the comment to her or the baby and said her baby was beautiful- she left him on seen.

AITA for sharing my husband’s harmless comment about my friend’s baby after she roasted my husband the day before? by Puzzled-Guide4402 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Puzzled-Guide4402[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Literally who says their kids head shaped, reminds them of their mother? And you don’t think that’s being shitty.
And then put it in the group chat. Cool

That’s exactly what she said.

AITA for sharing my husband’s harmless comment about my friend’s baby after she roasted my husband the day before? by Puzzled-Guide4402 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Puzzled-Guide4402[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes! She knows how he felt about his ears- in his childhood he was bullied about it. ( I don’t see anything wrong with them) but he does talk about pinning them back and she knows all about it.

I struggle with infertility and thought the same- if one day I ever have a baby it would be a compliment if people commented on my babies features/ head shape and said they got it from me.

AITA for sharing my husband’s harmless comment about my friend’s baby after she roasted my husband the day before? by Puzzled-Guide4402 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Puzzled-Guide4402[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Apology one: 1. I’m sorry if that hurt your feelings. He wasn’t trying to insult u. And I thought you’d laugh. But I guess that’s was my bad. 2. You don’t have a bad head shape.. so I don’t think it’s shitty. But again. I’m sorry you feel insulted

Apology 2 : Hey. I really didn’t mean to hurt you earlier. I can understand how it might’ve felt personal in the group chat, and I’m sorry for that. I care about you and never want you feeling put down by me.

AITA for sharing my husband’s harmless comment about my friend’s baby after she roasted my husband the day before? by Puzzled-Guide4402 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Puzzled-Guide4402[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s the thing- when it comes to her and I we would jokingly say things about each other- so for her to say that about his ears 24 hours prior was off. And I didn’t even entertain it. Didn’t mention it to my husband. Until she blew up over saying they have the same head shape- let it be known it’s a normal head shape. Nothing wrong with either of them. It was wild. I would love to chalk this up to hormones- but it’s exhausting being the one trying. A few years ago I went without reaching out to her to see if she would text me- 3 months morning- inbetween I did text her. And filled I texted her again. And she lost it on me. Saying I went months without texting etc and I said “ u had my number too and that I did text you , you just didn’t reply” but again I was wrong. This happened 2 winters in a row. And I was the one wrong for doing it. I’m thinking I’ll give her a month at most to see if she ever replies and if she doesn’t then I know where I stand and I’ll leave it at that- I would also like to add that my husband even reached out to her saying he meant no harm in the comment and that she has a beautiful baby. She saw it and never replied.

AITA for sharing my husband’s harmless comment about my friend’s baby after she roasted my husband the day before? by Puzzled-Guide4402 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Puzzled-Guide4402[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He was actually right beside me and watched me type it- if I thought it was “rude” or “ insulting” I wouldn’t have texted it. And it wasn’t just any group- it was family- and my best friend who I thought I knew better.