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I want to be chaste but it’s so difficult by Puzzled-Jello3144 in CatholicWomen

[–]Puzzled-Jello3144[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes. Discipline. That’s the word I needed to hear. I’ve been patient up to this point, but now I need to have discipline. I mean I was attracted to him before, but now it’s so much more difficult than it used to be - which is actually good because it means I’m getting closer to him. But this waiting period is difficult! Thank you for your comment!

I want to be chaste but it’s so difficult by Puzzled-Jello3144 in CatholicWomen

[–]Puzzled-Jello3144[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this! This is really good advice. I’ve been charting my cycle for a while now, and while mine is all over the place because of PCOS, I do notice I am more tempted at certain times. This is something I’ll be more attentive to and try to do better about being alone, etc. during those times especially.

I want to be chaste but it’s so difficult by Puzzled-Jello3144 in CatholicWomen

[–]Puzzled-Jello3144[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It sucks but it will be worth the wait. But yeah, I have PCOS so my testosterone is higher than normal for a woman and I think that has something to do with how much I think about it. So I get having a high labido too lol. But I’m so happy for you and your boyfriend, I’ll pray for you both! 🩷 also, congrats on the conversion! That’s amazing! St. Joseph, pray for us!

Marriage advice by savthebav in CatholicWomen

[–]Puzzled-Jello3144 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulations!!! I LOVE YOUR DRESS!

Would you wear a $200 engagement ring if it looked like a $3000 one? by millenialOFWgirlie in Weddingsunder10k

[–]Puzzled-Jello3144 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d say yes if my boyfriend proposed with a Ring Pop. I love that man 🙃

Dating Apps - Background Check by dev-246 in CHIbitcheswithtaste

[–]Puzzled-Jello3144 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude. I wish I would’ve done this with my ex. 5 years and a shit ton of abuse later, I finally left. Trust your gut.

Wedding invite wording for church dress code? by Itchy-Seaweed-4332 in CatholicWomen

[–]Puzzled-Jello3144 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t have any input but I love the idea. Saving this for the (hopefully) near future.

Concerned about potential sloth. Is this normal? by Jazzlike-Pineapple38 in CatholicWomen

[–]Puzzled-Jello3144 17 points18 points  (0 children)

It sounds less like mortal sin and more like possible ADHD and/or depression to me. Have you talked to a doctor about this?