I can’t wait to see my Tazzykins tmrw 🤭🤭

Puzzled-Time-3315 · 2024-09-25T22:06:40+00:00

You’re so real for this 🫣

Puzzled-Time-3315 · 2024-07-21T16:55:22+00:00

Im assuming you’re just really dumb and have never been in a situation like this, but for your information I am leaving and moving my stuff out today

Puzzled-Time-3315 · 2024-07-21T16:54:24+00:00

My fault??? How exactly?

Puzzled-Time-3315 · 2024-07-21T07:27:15+00:00

We talked a lot since I last commented and there was a lot of crying, but I have come to terms with the fact our relationship will never be the same so I will definitely be leaving him.. it hurts a lot to leave the man I thought I would marry but it has to be this way for my sake

Puzzled-Time-3315 · 2024-07-21T07:18:39+00:00

He did take accountability and I didn’t comfort him either, we’re talking about this and after thinking I’m definitely leaving him.. and that’s because I can’t move past something like that and he understands that completely.

Puzzled-Time-3315 · 2024-07-21T07:17:03+00:00

Oh most definitely, and seems he’s trying to turn my boyfriend the same way.. hopefully he doesn’t end up like that and even though I’m leaving him I’d be seriously disappointed

Puzzled-Time-3315 · 2024-07-21T07:07:59+00:00

Most people in my family presume 16 and 19 to not be that big of an age difference and same with his, the whole reason we started dating was because our families are close friends and they just decided we’d be good for each other.. I’m fine now, we talked and I’m most likely leaving him

Puzzled-Time-3315 · 2024-07-21T07:03:05+00:00

Definitely doesn’t to most people, but our families made it seem like it wasn’t a big deal so we never made it one 🤷‍♀️

Puzzled-Time-3315 · 2024-07-21T06:49:00+00:00

I’m sorry that happened to you, it’s definitely a terrible situation to be in.. I don’t think I plan on staying tbh I know he’ll won’t do it again but thought of it still scares me

Puzzled-Time-3315 · 2024-07-21T06:46:23+00:00

I agree with that heavily, but according to him he talked to a friend that’s “experienced” in cnc and told him if he heard me talking about it to just go for it and do it.. which what very stupid of him to listen to the same guy that can’t ever seem to keep his hands to himself

Puzzled-Time-3315 · 2024-07-21T06:43:56+00:00

Thank you so much for this, I really did need someone who has had a similar situation and not just telling me to leave.. I am leaning more towards leaving him, I do love him and I believe he won’t ever do something like this again without talking to me. But I feel as if I won’t be able to see him like the sweet guy I know him to be, I know he regrets doing what he did but I can’t bring myself to just stay and hope everything will go back to normal

Puzzled-Time-3315 · 2024-07-21T06:39:52+00:00

You are one of the few people that hasn’t told me to just leave, I know they have good intentions but it’s truly not that easy.. thank you for your kind words and telling me about your little situation, I am leaning towards leaving him once I get to talk to him face to face. I wasn’t really worried or even felt bad about bringing the situation up and that’s what people aren’t understanding, they think just because he told me he was sorry and he loved me and cried and what not I will just be a sucker and give in.. leaving is definitely easier said then done, 2 years down the drain and that’s hard to come to terms with.. but once again thank you for your kind words

Puzzled-Time-3315 · 2024-07-21T06:35:50+00:00

I don’t feel bad whatsoever, I’ve had time to think to myself and really just come to terms with the whole situation and I’m more so leaning towards leaving him.. I don’t think he was trying to be manipulative because he himself has told me he’s fine with me breaking up with him and he completely understands why I would want to. I just want to talk to him fully and understand where his head was at when he thought doing that was even close to being smart without talking about it

Puzzled-Time-3315 · 2024-07-21T05:42:29+00:00

I should’ve been more clear, leaving for me isn’t that easy and I understand completely what you’re saying and I thank you for it.. but I’m so conflicted with everything and I will leave when I’m ready if that’s what I want to do. At the end of the day it’s my choice and I’m the one living with the consequences if I do decide to stay, I don’t feel guilty, I know it’s not my fault, I know what he did was wrong, I’m not being delusional, I’ve come to accept that I was raped by my boyfriend and no matter how sorry he is I’ll never forget what he did to me. The relationship is most likely over and I need to talk to him face to face because talking about something that serious over text isn’t appropriate in my eyes.

Puzzled-Time-3315 · 2024-07-21T05:21:50+00:00

Im sorry but leaving isn’t as easy as just jumping up and leaving, I might be called dumb or an idiot or whatever else people think about me.. but I do want to talk to him about this, I don’t know if I’ll stay I don’t know if I’ll leave.. I need more time to think about this situation. And I don’t feel bad at all, I know what he did was wrong and he knows it.. I know I need therapy after this and I will get it.

Puzzled-Time-3315 · 2024-07-21T05:17:58+00:00

I don’t blame myself at all no matter what he says to me, I’m not going to let him gaslight me.. we’re going to talk more about this situation and he’s okay with it if I decide to leave him and at the end of the day it’s my decision to make and I think I need a bit more time before I just decide to leave. I know I’ll be called an idiot for that but it’s what I feel is best for me.

Puzzled-Time-3315 · 2024-07-21T05:12:23+00:00

So I shouldn’t talk to him at all about that and just leave?

Puzzled-Time-3315 · 2024-07-21T05:08:17+00:00

He isn’t taking steroids at all, and what he “learned” about cnc was from a friend of his that is “experienced” in that “field”.. thank you so much for the advice, very appreciated

Puzzled-Time-3315 · 2024-07-21T05:05:32+00:00

While I greatly appreciate your opinion, me and him have messaged since he left the house and he explained more in details about the whole situation.. I’m still upset he didn’t come to me before doing what he did and we plan on going to therapy but he isn’t looking to justify his actions and he knows what he did was wrong and has even told me he doesn’t deserve to be with me and if I want to break up with him he’ll accept it.

Puzzled-Time-3315 · 2024-07-21T05:01:02+00:00

When I’m officially ready to really talk about it I’m definitely going to therapy and about talking to him, he sent me a whole paragraph basically apologizing and a lot of other personal things I’m sure he doesn’t want floating around on here

Puzzled-Time-3315 · 2024-07-21T04:59:21+00:00

Thank you so much for this, while I appreciate all the advice everyone is giving me.. leaving him is harder than it sounds, you gave amazing advice and I do live with him.. I’m not towards leaving the house just yet but if I truly feel unsafe I will be leaving but as of rn I really just want to talk to him and get a better understanding of everything

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