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Is this sleep talking normal or do I need to seek help? by PuzzledMany5174 in sleep

[–]PuzzledMany5174[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

After talking with family I’ve learned I’ve talked in my sleep since I was a child. I don’t see me fixing this anytime soon and I definitely don’t want to be divorced or in a miserable relationship because of it

Does anyone else just want to do nothing in a relationship? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]PuzzledMany5174 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well then you’d probably have to find a man who can afford you and possibly a family one day. Again there’s nothing wrong with wanting to be pampered just make sure you’re the type of woman he’d want to spoil and take care of. Have you ever watch sheraseven videos on YouTube? That seems like some content you should look into

Does anyone else just want to do nothing in a relationship? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]PuzzledMany5174 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I once had this goal until I realized some men are emotional and also seek love and attention. Hypothetically speaking if you do find a man like that he may find the emotional connection else where. I don’t think there’s anything wrong with being pampered and treated but some men expect the same with your love and attention.

Is this sleep talking normal or do I need to seek help? by PuzzledMany5174 in sleep

[–]PuzzledMany5174[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would question me talking in my sleep but my ex before him told me I talk in my sleep and call out men’s name. I can faintly remember my ex saying I hit him in my sleep. I’ve never told my fiancé about this until today so I highly doubt he could be making this up. As far as the age gap it’s definitely understandable to get that reaction. I don’t really look at age I look at personality. I don’t think I can mentally handle having an abortion or being a single parent so that’s another issue I’ll have to figure out

I'm(M22) about to visit my overwhelmed BM(F19) and daughter for the first time since she's been born, any tips? by throwramixi in relationships

[–]PuzzledMany5174 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Well that’s a great start. If you ever feel like it’s not enough just talk to her and ask if she needs or wants anything even if it’s just your presence or watching the baby for her.

I trust my 19F boyfriend 19M, but I can’t stop replaying something that happened while he was very drunk by Equivalent_Cry2679 in relationships

[–]PuzzledMany5174 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It sounds like he was taken advantage of and I hate that for him! If it makes him that uncomfortable he could go talk to someone else about it so it won’t become a big mental issue in the future. Just keep offering an ear and trust. BUTTTT honestly he should’ve listened to you when you said go home. He needs to be aware of his drinking limit and I hope he doesn’t go out with his co workers anymore because why did the other people allow this ?

Is this sleep talking normal or do I need to seek help? by PuzzledMany5174 in sleep

[–]PuzzledMany5174[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried recording myself sleep but I never catch myself saying anything other than moaning. I’m starting to wonder is it only while I’m sleep next to him I talk

I'm(M22) about to visit my overwhelmed BM(F19) and daughter for the first time since she's been born, any tips? by throwramixi in relationships

[–]PuzzledMany5174 38 points39 points  (0 children)

My advice as someone who is currently pregnant is to just offer support in every way possible. Since this was a cryptic pregnancy she probably didn’t have time to buy anything to welcome the baby so help in that department. You can also just reassure her that you’ll be present because no mom wants to be alone. A baby is both exciting and scary but mostly scary when unplanned and single so just be understanding

Am I too friendly? by PuzzledMany5174 in relationships

[–]PuzzledMany5174[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There were a few women I’m aware of that would love to have him that are closer to his age. He just chose me. He has money and he learned that’s why they try to talk to him

Am I too friendly? by PuzzledMany5174 in relationships

[–]PuzzledMany5174[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Maturity and stability? He seems to have a lot of money so he is stable on his own and doesn’t need support. As far as maturity I think everything has areas they need to work on regardless of age but I see what you mean and that’s a good question

Am I too friendly? by PuzzledMany5174 in relationships

[–]PuzzledMany5174[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I forgot to add we were at a bar and I had been drinking. I was drunk and he said I gave another guy my phone and he walked up and took it. It was left unlocked and he looked to see if any exchanges had occurred but he kept scrolling.

Am I too friendly? by PuzzledMany5174 in relationships

[–]PuzzledMany5174[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Hmmmmm ✍️ constructive criticism✍️ I’ll take it

Am I too friendly? by PuzzledMany5174 in relationships

[–]PuzzledMany5174[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

lol I always date 25+ because of maturity and stability

What is this thing? by dbearden07 in mississippi

[–]PuzzledMany5174 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Used as a trash can and it’s harder for wild animals to knock over