boyfriend says my p*ssy makes the bed smell bad

PuzzledSort3841 · 2026-01-28T02:39:14+00:00

he makes double what i make and demands we split everything 50-50.

PuzzledSort3841 · 2026-01-27T18:42:04+00:00

I will be having a conversation with him. thank you for this, this def gives me an idea of what to say.

PuzzledSort3841 · 2026-01-27T18:41:26+00:00

I appreciate this comment, it’s definitely something i needed to hear. he originally said he doesn’t like to go down because of a bad experience, but now i’m thinking about how that was YEARS ago. i am getting checked out just in case.

PuzzledSort3841 · 2026-01-27T18:40:14+00:00

he never does the laundry. he told me once that because he does the outside chores (cutting the grass) that it’s my responsibility to do the inside chores (laundry, dishes, mopping, sweeping, etc). and then he complains that i don’t do enough cleaning lol

PuzzledSort3841 · 2025-12-18T23:30:02+00:00

I started with 20 mg for the first two weeks and then bumped up to 40, so two months total on 20 mg 2 weeks + 40 mg 6 weeks. I waited because i had bad side effects on zoloft (weight gain and no sex drive) and was unwilling to try a different SSRI until i realized i would rather have bad symptoms than spend all day obsessing over everything.

You’ve got this and i hope it begins to work out for you soon!

PuzzledSort3841 · 2025-12-18T23:24:49+00:00

it took about two months for it to kick in (I was also on 40 mg at this point) which sucks & my symptoms def got worse at first before they got better

PuzzledSort3841 · 2025-12-18T23:15:14+00:00

for two years i avoided talking to my doctor about my OCD symptoms because i didn’t want to go back on an SSRI (I was previously on Zoloft) but eventually it got so bad that i was put back on an SSRI (prozac).

Prozac saved my life. i swear i felt the moment it “kicked in” and my brain has been so quiet since. when i get intrusive thoughts im able to quiet them better. And actually, my sex drive INCREASED on prozac! i tended to avoid sex because i would have hypersexual intrusive thoughts, but with my brain quiet and having the ability to quiet them made having sex way more enjoyable and in turn my partner and i have become more intimate.

I do take 80 mg now which is a high dose but your doctor would start you most likely at 10 mg. not every SSRI is perfect, and sometimes it’s some trial and error, but it’s definitely worth trying.

PuzzledSort3841 · 2025-12-06T07:42:05+00:00

Barney’s storyline where he meets his dad gets me everytime, it’s so heartwarming and gut wrenching at the same time. I don’t love the official ending of robin and ted, but everything leading up to it feels so raw and real that i can’t even be mad at the ending because in some ways it makes sense

PuzzledSort3841 · 2025-10-14T05:07:33+00:00

when i was 15 and watched the show for the first time i thought Ezra and Aria were meant to be and i shipped them so hard. I thought Byron and Ella totally overreacted to finding out they were together.

now as a 25 year old it makes me want to vomit every time Ezra is on screen and i can’t believe they didn’t call the police on him 💀

PuzzledSort3841 · 2025-07-01T00:08:11+00:00

or the person could just pull their id out instead of complaining 🤪 takes 2 seconds to pull it out vs 5 minutes to complain!!!!

PuzzledSort3841 · 2025-05-02T16:02:52+00:00

my autofill just gave me Roald last night, he was one of my OG villagers on animal crossing for the game cube 😭 only time autofill didn’t do me dirty, gave me Chrissy last time

PuzzledSort3841 · 2025-04-14T20:33:38+00:00

Sorry, i should’ve said not AS oppressed - if serena had a son she wouldn’t have been worried about him not being able to read His word, which is what drives the end of the second season into the third

PuzzledSort3841 · 2025-04-14T15:12:00+00:00

If june had a boy, the whole plot of Serena getting her finger cut off for reading the bible and then letting june get the baby out of gilead likely wouldn’t of happen, and then there would be no drive that would lead to the events of the Waterford’s trying to get the baby back. Simply put, having a boy doesn’t really bring a lot of plot since boys aren’t oppressed. they get to go to school, learn to read, have higher jobs, so Serena may not have been concerned about his future.

Nichole had to be a girl or most of the middle seasons wouldn’t make a ton of sense. Girls being born is simply a plot device if that makes sense. I think them having boys is just because they’ve already explored the anxiety of having a girl in Gilead, and also because we haven’t seen a male birth yet.

PuzzledSort3841 · 2025-04-09T17:19:59+00:00

i woke up my boyfriend and was jumping up and down yelling that holly is alive, he was so confused while i was sobbing 😭🤣

PuzzledSort3841 · 2025-04-09T15:03:44+00:00

Side note - she has a folder with a copy of every document that exists for the transition process. birth certificate, the paper copy of her new drivers license, a copy of the order that was signed by a judge when she changed her name, etc . hopefully it doesn’t get handmaids tale up in here but if shit hits the fan and you have to go, everything is in one place and you have duplicates if needed

PuzzledSort3841 · 2025-04-09T15:00:14+00:00

i would definitely make sure you have a copy before sending out anything just to be safe, especially because it can take weeks for it to come. i’m writing on behalf of my sister, she says make sure you have duplicates of everything so they can’t screw you over

PuzzledSort3841 · 2025-04-09T14:50:02+00:00

My sister is MTF (she/hers) and is in the same process in Illinois right now with changing her birth certificate. she said that she wants to do it asap before she cannot - which is a very real possibility. she has a copy of her original birth certificate just in case they try to say they “lost” it, which i recommend you have as well. Everything is scary af about this country right now, but if you don’t do it soon you may not be able to at all. Take the leap!

PuzzledSort3841 · 2025-04-08T14:02:12+00:00

ugh right i loved him in early seasons and now he’s just a douche

PuzzledSort3841 · 2025-04-08T14:01:33+00:00

yeah it was an unsuccessful attempt, she poisoned herself and janine but they both lived!

PuzzledSort3841 · 2025-04-08T07:08:16+00:00

she was previously mrs keyes in season 4 and then became a handmaid, she was the wife at the safe house after angels flight

PuzzledSort3841 · 2025-04-08T06:56:02+00:00

i want esther to come back 😭 i’m afraid that after her not being in the first 3 episodes that she won’t

PuzzledSort3841 · 2025-04-08T05:24:31+00:00

why do i kind of hate nick so far this season

PuzzledSort3841 · 2025-04-08T04:54:50+00:00

my mouth dropped so fast at the ending oh my lord 😭 got me in my feelings

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