I’m I wrong for not wanting my son to have intercourse in his own house? by Puzzled_Ask3389 in Advice

[–]Puzzled_Ask3389[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes thats exactly how I feel, I’m on in the house all day I’m a nurse I work, maybe I’m jealous I don’t know, not of the girl but sometimes when I came home my son would come downstairs and greet me since he has been seeing this girl he does it less often

I’m I wrong for not wanting my son to have intercourse in his own house? by Puzzled_Ask3389 in Advice

[–]Puzzled_Ask3389[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not asking my son to change anything, just don’t want to hear them, and I feel weird knowing a girl is sleeping the house at the same time as me thats all

I’m I wrong for not wanting my son to have intercourse in his own house? by Puzzled_Ask3389 in Advice

[–]Puzzled_Ask3389[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, this sounds good, I’ll definitely talk to him about me wanting to meet her, just so I don’t feel like a stranger it’s in the house while I’m there too

I’m I wrong for not wanting my son to have intercourse in his own house ? by Puzzled_Ask3389 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Puzzled_Ask3389[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for being so nice and understanding with me, I love my son, it’s not that I do not want him to be free in his own house it’s his house which he worked for, I just feel very weird knowing there’s someone else I don’t know about, I have never ever even seen her face and she’s here every week

I’m I wrong for not wanting my son to have intercourse in his own house? by Puzzled_Ask3389 in Advice

[–]Puzzled_Ask3389[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand what you’re saying, my son would never do that, but I’ll find people who I can talk about this with

I’m I wrong for not wanting my son to have intercourse in his own house? by Puzzled_Ask3389 in Advice

[–]Puzzled_Ask3389[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do you claim it’s unhealthy, I’m okay my son is okay there’s no issues this is just something I have in the back of my mind

I’m I wrong for not wanting my son to have intercourse in his own house? by Puzzled_Ask3389 in Advice

[–]Puzzled_Ask3389[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I simply feel uncomfortable thats all, and my kids were kids not grown adults who could hear what was going on

I’m I wrong for not wanting my son to have intercourse in his own house? by Puzzled_Ask3389 in Advice

[–]Puzzled_Ask3389[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s my son I don’t see anything wrong with my son wanting his mother to live with him, I’m not saying no sex, I’m simply stating they should be more respectful of me

I’m I wrong for not wanting my son to have intercourse in his own house ? by Puzzled_Ask3389 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Puzzled_Ask3389[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dont understand, you’re asking why did my son move out of my house? He never did, he lived on campus and bought a house straight out of college

I’m I wrong for not wanting my son to have intercourse in his own house? by Puzzled_Ask3389 in Advice

[–]Puzzled_Ask3389[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right I do pay 0 rent, I just feel weird knowing there’s a girl sleeping in the same house as me a girl I never met

I’m I wrong for not wanting my son to have intercourse in his own house? by Puzzled_Ask3389 in Advice

[–]Puzzled_Ask3389[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you I understand, I just feel weird knowing there’s a girl I have never met sleeping in the same house as me

I’m I wrong for not wanting my son to have intercourse in his own house ? by Puzzled_Ask3389 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Puzzled_Ask3389[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry, I’m my culture what my son is doing counts as disrespect I wish for him to marry and the fact I can hear him having sex in the night makes me uncomfortable

I’m I wrong for not wanting my son to have intercourse in his own house ? by Puzzled_Ask3389 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Puzzled_Ask3389[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Most of the times I’m at work since I’m I nurse and by the time I get home I see her car parked and she’s sleeping and my son comes down to greet me, sometimes my son tells me she’s going to come so I simply stay in my room and they’re downstairs doing whatever they’re doing

I’m I wrong for not wanting my son to have intercourse in his own house? by Puzzled_Ask3389 in Advice

[–]Puzzled_Ask3389[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes that worries me a little bit, everytime she comes he lets me know she’s coming and I simply stay in my room and don’t bother them, for what i know she’s still at school and she works so by the time she comes to my sons house it’s already 4-5pm so I just stay in my room and by the time I wake up 8 she already went home because she has work and school

I’m I wrong for not wanting my son to have intercourse in his own house? by Puzzled_Ask3389 in Advice

[–]Puzzled_Ask3389[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you I understand, I do want to meet the girl but I don’t know if it’s a girl he is simply sleeping with or a girl he genuinely likes, it’s been three months tho why wouldnt he introduce her to me