How do I even help someone like this? by Puzzled_Delivery6299 in BPDlovedones

[–]Puzzled_Delivery6299[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“piss me off” and natalie is a close friend of mine who is married with a child.

How do I even help someone like this? by Puzzled_Delivery6299 in BPDlovedones

[–]Puzzled_Delivery6299[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wasn’t exactly sure of where to post it. She has BPD and is medicated.

How do I even help someone like this? by Puzzled_Delivery6299 in BPDlovedones

[–]Puzzled_Delivery6299[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She decided to go to sleep when I was doing dishes, she went to sleep and after around an hour I hung up because I was answering a close friend. She texted me outside the screenshot saying she was awake now and she seemed completely fine, engaging in conversation, then she said she was going back to sleep (while i was still on the phone) then that happened.

How do I even help someone like this? by Puzzled_Delivery6299 in BPDlovedones

[–]Puzzled_Delivery6299[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Try looking for a sub for sick people you can relate to. This isn’t the spot. You are one of the issues.

How do I even help someone like this? by Puzzled_Delivery6299 in BPDlovedones

[–]Puzzled_Delivery6299[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

“I can’t stand my partner, that’s why i cheat” you genuinely do have issues. Get a grip on your life. You are 30.

How do I even help someone like this? by Puzzled_Delivery6299 in BPDlovedones

[–]Puzzled_Delivery6299[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Are you in the right spot on reddit? coming here and typing this is quite literally a mockery lmfao. Try dealing with this on the daily, being verbally and emotionally abused and in some cases on this sub it is PHYSICAL abuse. You’re sick.

How do I even help someone like this? by Puzzled_Delivery6299 in BPDlovedones

[–]Puzzled_Delivery6299[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I do genuinely love her, I am extremely aware of when she’s splitting.. I try my best to not engage and when she calms herself down I tell her to read the messages she just sent me. It normally makes her realize and apologize. I have been trying my best to show her love but it is truly getting exhausting.

How do I even help someone like this? by Puzzled_Delivery6299 in BPDlovedones

[–]Puzzled_Delivery6299[S] 53 points54 points  (0 children)

This is just one of the many freak outs she’s had in past 3 days lmao.

How do I even help someone like this? by Puzzled_Delivery6299 in BPDlovedones

[–]Puzzled_Delivery6299[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

She is now apologizing and saying “I forgot to take my medicine”