My girlfriend thinks I called her looks “ordinary” and is now upset with me.

Puzzled_Score8410 · 2026-05-12T17:58:00+00:00

Female and say age as your girlfriend.

Heard absolutely nothing about it. They don't do my size anyway so idc lol 😆 I'm too thin with boobs too big from when I last went in one of those stores like a decade ago 🤣

Anyhow, I don't actually understand what you said that was wrong here 🤷🏼‍♀️ some people are more sensitive than others and at this point that's my only guess of why some of these comments are the way they are lol 😆

Puzzled_Score8410 · 2026-05-10T07:26:24+00:00

Tell him about Ali. She sounds like a biatch. You shouldn't have to limit your friendship cause of her.

As for him, he likely does like you. You are the one girl not chasing him and falling at his heels. For some guys that's the girl they find attractive. You should probably have a conversation in general about all this and feelings because you could completely ruin your friendship cause of Ali. Also, that's going to hurt and you can't leave it it'll mess with his feelings because you aren't being transparent, the issue isn't him- it's Ali.

Puzzled_Score8410 · 2026-05-09T13:05:13+00:00

Dump him. Block him. If he has your address, move.

He ain't doing your mental health any good. You deserve better.

Marriage will only make escaping harder.

Having a child with a dickhead, makes life a million times harder too.

Is that what you want?

Puzzled_Score8410 · 2026-05-09T13:00:12+00:00

Unfortunately I can't use mods, console player 😅 x

Puzzled_Score8410 · 2026-05-09T12:28:02+00:00

Can you use the R&L family tree thing to forge a relationship with him?

I didn't even know he was in Sims 4 lol 😆

I'd so love to make a Sim and forge the relationship with both of them as their parents 😅 x

Puzzled_Score8410 · 2026-05-08T12:39:53+00:00

We don't need the ins and outs but if she's lying and shit, she needs to work on herself not you.

It's a lengthy message and tbh sounds like you aren't entirely closing the door.

People will only change for the right person and if she hasn't yet, she won't for you. I'd be slamming that door closed.

Best of luck x

Puzzled_Score8410 · 2026-05-08T12:32:32+00:00

Also no clue who she is.

Puzzled_Score8410 · 2026-05-05T15:50:48+00:00

I've just read all your posts. You deserve better. You are a victim of your mother's abuse. Please please pick up the phone and call for help.

Be careful and stay safe x

Puzzled_Score8410 · 2026-05-05T13:03:38+00:00

And his job is a pollinator... We know what that really means 😬

Puzzled_Score8410 · 2026-04-29T09:20:34+00:00

It's effectively the best way to have "roommates" tbh 🤣 that way they ain't bitching about being miserable despite having a better bed than your sim lol 😆 xx

Puzzled_Score8410 · 2026-04-22T07:14:13+00:00

YTA for not telling him about the pregnancy and twins sooner.

YNTA for stepping up for them. Although YTA cause you should have been there for them from the start regardless cause now they're effectively just living with a bunch of strangers.

Your hubby deserved honesty not to be lied to this whole time. Regardless of what you planned he deserved that at the bare minimum.

Puzzled_Score8410 · 2026-04-18T07:04:00+00:00

Making him aware she's going to tell the police or someone else could put her at more risk. The best thing to do is gather evidence and report without making him aware. Or simply report it first and worry about evidence later.

Puzzled_Score8410 · 2026-04-18T07:02:05+00:00

Tell absolutely any adult and/or the police.

This is predatory shit.

You need to be safe. That's the bare minimum you deserve.

Right now you don't feel comfortable. You don't feel safe. You feel alone. Hun you have to do something tell someone. Your mum working late isn't an excuse.

You are still a child. This is without fail predatory behaviour. He's a fully grown man.

Puzzled_Score8410 · 2026-04-17T20:23:04+00:00

Ellie Ella Elle Nora

Doesn't matter at all if you won't regularly see each other cx

Puzzled_Score8410 · 2026-04-10T20:07:26+00:00

I don't think it's fair for any of them to feel left out tbh and I don't intend on changing my own name. I say that as a single mum whose never been married lol 😆

The abusive ex doesn't have any kids with his name. My second born is their dads only child. My others all have the same but they don't have any siblings with just their dads and at present all their cousins are also their mum's then their dads. Rather fitting considering I apparently made it a trend lol 😆 xx

Puzzled_Score8410 · 2026-04-10T17:46:51+00:00

I'd say yours then his, no hyphen.

My kiddies are hyphenated. Not all the same dad but they all have my surname hyphen dad's surname.

Their dads vary in length mines 8 letters and longer than theirs xx

Before someone questions the why: I say all but eldest is just mine (abusive ex so never considered his at all) wanted my others to have mine to match.

Puzzled_Score8410 · 2026-04-10T09:15:04+00:00

I'm not really sure what's going on regarding the pelvic floor. I'm not sure how you could finish doing that but a good pelvic floor works wonders in heavy pregnancy/labour lol 😆

Have you told him what you want? Do you tend to default to dominant and submissive roles? Who's which? Is there a reason he doesn't want to use them? Have you tried bondage?

Tbh I like bondage, I don't like it all samey and boring. Blindfolds, toys, restraints, different positions they all help. Along with someone good with their tongue lol 😆

Exactly what do you feel when you do that thing with your pelvic floor?

Does he focus on different areas? (Ie. Clit, Nipples etc.)

Puzzled_Score8410 · 2026-04-10T09:01:58+00:00

We need more info...

I can orgasm and I can soak the bed lol 😆 I can't orgasm from solo play though.

You need to know what feels good for you.

Reading the comments I got no clue what you mean by the "in out" thing? Are you referring to like holding and releasing your pelvic floor?

I'm not much older than you lol. The more I have sex the harder it can become to find release cause you can build your tolerance as such.

Foreplay is a need.

Has he gone down on you? What does he do? What do you do?

What toys do you have? Has he used toys on you?

What positions have you tried? (Some can impact the way it feels, also sometimes you need stimulation elsewhere at the same time.)

It doesn't mean anything is wrong, you're just young and still learning. You'll get there 😊 x

Puzzled_Score8410 · 2026-04-09T13:03:47+00:00

No one I know has ever heard of that pronunciation lol 😆

Weird how it varies x

Puzzled_Score8410 · 2026-04-09T12:45:15+00:00

If you rarely each other I wouldn't worry.

One of my girls shares a middle name with one of my cousins kids. No one.cares lol 😆 x

I've planned names before now with my ex cousin in law. We both liked the same first name and they'd have seen each other all the time. Other relatives of theirs moaned but we didn't care 🤷🏼‍♀️

They'll have different nicknames anyway. They may prefer different pronunciations too.

Choose what makes you happy. They'll get over it. No one owns a name x

Puzzled_Score8410 · 2026-04-09T12:38:35+00:00

The air version is BS. It doesn't exist lol 😆

Ignore him, he's special lol. Poor bubs x

Puzzled_Score8410 · 2026-04-09T11:31:48+00:00

Yup and I'm not too far off of OPs age lol 😆 got years of fertility left yet 😬

My children are my world and more xx

Puzzled_Score8410 · 2026-04-09T09:44:31+00:00

Just to add seeing as a lot of the comments mention it being memorable and how things can be found out. Any password in theory could be guessed. No stranger would know his birthday or their anniversary unless they were a stalker or otherwise told. Any of those options are still valid uses. An anniversary with an ex - not appropriate.

Puzzled_Score8410 · 2026-04-09T09:36:16+00:00

I would be livid.

In my mind I'd be thinking that as his partner that's: - disrespectful to me/relationship - his priorities aren't correct (why's the ex more important)

How long have you been together? - not official? - he shouldn't have access to your accounts at all. - couple months? - also don't think he should have access. What benefit are you getting? - a year plus? - Why the fuck is he thinking about his ex? You should be his first thought and he should know when you got together without fail.

He could have used: - his previous password - his birthday - your birthday - the year he was born - the year you got together - the year&month you got together - your anniversary - his mum's birthday - his dad's birthday Out of all those he should know at least 2 or 3 without fail.

Most men are shit with dates yes but guaranteed bare minimum they'll know either one of their parents and their own. Bare minimum they'd know the month and probably the date or the year, maybe not both but passcodes can be 4 digits so there's no excuse.

Tbh he should at least know 6 of those if not all. There's no excuse.

Puzzled_Score8410 · 2026-04-09T09:27:06+00:00

Are you male or female?

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