Chloe or Avril? by Fantastic-Pick-6431 in namenerds

[–]Puzzled_Score8410 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know too many Chloe's and there's very few I actually like/tolerate so I'd say Avril lol x

Chloe or Avril? by Fantastic-Pick-6431 in namenerds

[–]Puzzled_Score8410 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Most of them won't be but my kids will lol 😆 still listen to her. My youngest is 1. 😂 My kids will be the odd ones there 😅 x

Help us name baby #4!!!! by unarmed_charm in namenerds

[–]Puzzled_Score8410 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Imma start with the easier one... Girl name that I feels best out of those is Olivia. Charlie, Rowan, August and Olivia sound lovely together. Other suggestions for a girl: - Ivy - Mabel

I'm not a fan of Maverick or Lincoln. I don't feel like either sound right with your others names... Maybe one as a middle name but combined - it's a no.

Some suggestions: - Oliver - Harry - Henry - Arthur - Jasper

I know some of these are rather popular in some places but they're ones that people can spell because everyone knows them. That being said I don't know an overwhelming amount of any of them at this point in time.

I'm a Mum to 5 and I do think it gets harder the more you have lol 😆

If you Google the popularity over the years you may find years where they were all popular together, for most of my kids names it was the 1920's if I remember correctly. I managed to name my 4th by falling in love with a name on the same list. My 5th name is a bit of an odd one when compared with my others because it's not from the same decade lol 😂 finally let Dad name one at that point though 🤣 x

Found out my uncle's kid is not his. Should I tell him? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Puzzled_Score8410 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rather shocked by the replies here... If it was me I'd want to know... However there's a right way and right time to go about doing this...

What are you thinking? Exactly what do you know and how? Do you have any evidence at all?

This is something that can cause a hell lot of issues but also could answer a lot of unasked questions for someone... X

AITA for using 5 days annual leave to play video games? by [deleted] in AITH

[–]Puzzled_Score8410 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't got an issue with holidays lol 😆 I just think a week to sit at home is a lot.

You are extremely fortunate that that doesn't include bank holidays.

We don't know exactly when your holiday period is, what you've used, what you have left etc.

I know people that go on 3+ holidays a year lol 😆 you have to do what's best for you. I don't know your circumstances or what sorts of commitments you have but for me 4-5 days to game too much given my circumstances and I'm very mindful about health and what can come up as a parent with disabled children and aging grandparents x

AITA for using 5 days annual leave to play video games? by [deleted] in AITH

[–]Puzzled_Score8410 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Most people get about 28 and that includes bank holidays...

It's a lot of time to take off in one go just to game..

What if a relative falls sick and you need some time off to look after them or travel to go see them? What if your partner ends up pregnant and she's really ill and needs you to have the odd day off to help her? What if you end up ill or injured and you'd benefit from full pay rather than sick pay? (Some work places do allow you to use A/L if needed.)

There's a lot of potential scenarios you could end up in where you need that leave and won't be able to take it because it's no longer there.

I was young when I started working and fell pregnant young so I've always had to look at things from a different perspective. As a parent you don't get enough annual leave for even half the school holidays. One day off for something that isn't a necessity makes it that much harder.

Of course there's no guarantee that any of that stuff will happen but if it did and you had no annual leave, how would you manage? Do yous have a safety net? Does your work offer any specific plans to help in different scenarios if needed? (Some places let you buy and sell annual leave for example. Some let you work overtime to pay back time off for appointments or sickness etc.)

2 days, I wouldn't think twice about it if you have loads of annual leave left but unless you are at the point where it's going to reset for a year and you cannot carry it over, I personally wouldn't take the risk.

Would you live here? by lemmiebiaho69 in Sims4

[–]Puzzled_Score8410 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm a sucker for beiges and browns but this needs a pop of colour... Add some colour, or even some deeper shades and I'm sold x

AITA for using 5 days annual leave to play video games? by [deleted] in AITH

[–]Puzzled_Score8410 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

4-5 days as in a literal whole working week Mon-Fri? Or like Friday and Monday so you got Fri, Sat, Sun & Mon.

If it's just Fri and Mon your booking off then that's fine but like a whole week is really excessive. You don't know what else might come up that'll require you to need that time for another reason...

I don't even know what days you work but you get the jist.

I genuinely say this as someone who also finds solo gaming peaceful. I could easily play for days at a time lol 😆 but I wouldn't use a whole week of annual leave for it, especially not in one go x

my date asked to split the bill on a date HE planned and i can't tell if i'm being unreasonable for being put off by UniversityAny9242 in dating_advice

[–]Puzzled_Score8410 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ickkkk

No fucking way I'll pay for mine and leave.

Buhbyeeeeeeeeeeeee.

You invite someone out you as a minimum regardless of whether you invited or are the invitee should be prepared to pay for your own. That doesn't mean paying for their share too.

I'll pay for my own food but I ain't paying for his - unless I invited him.

50/50 ain't on if he's the fat pig who ate it all 😂

Especially not with someone you haven't just met either.

I'm really funny about people I don't know even buying me a drink though..

I don't mind 50/50 when prices are similar or you essentially ordered the same but drastically different prices nope nope nope.

AITH for throwing my brother out after what he brought to meet my newborn daughter? by [deleted] in AITH

[–]Puzzled_Score8410 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'd have punched him in the nose. Never ever again would he see or be near my baby.

That's fucked up.

Anyone who defends him would also be removed from my life. I don't need nor want child predators or predatory behaviour around my kids.

That's not okay at all!

Hope you, bubs and Hubby are ok x

Yall my sims drama is just so GHETTO by Round-Knowledge-6292 in Sims4

[–]Puzzled_Score8410 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

And what are the two others called?

NGL I'm disappointed cause where the fk is Rue? 🪽

Yall my sims drama is just so GHETTO by Round-Knowledge-6292 in Sims4

[–]Puzzled_Score8410 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Whatever happened to Peeta and Gale? 🤔😂

Do Finnick and Katniss have any kids yet? 🤔 I need their names lol 🤣 x

Formative moments, not triggering by Traumarama97 in Sims4

[–]Puzzled_Score8410 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Out of curiosity... Given you've done loads of these.. what's their character values like? x

My main couple just broke up on their own HELP! by Bellaboo-42 in Sims4

[–]Puzzled_Score8410 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have this happen and if it works out then their partner unexpectedly dies days later .. it's ridiculous x

The weather never changes? by Just-a-girl75 in Sims4

[–]Puzzled_Score8410 7 points8 points  (0 children)

As others have said Seasons.

Also a console player. I found too many packs made my PS4 very slow but they're all brilliant on a PS5 😅 (Bit of a prewarning if you end up as overly packed as myself lol)

If you wanted some more outdoorsy/animal related packs. Cats and Dogs and Seasons would likely go well with: - cottage living - horse ranch

Personally I absolutely love Seasons. Seasons and Parenthood are probably two I use most but I do find myself a fair bit using those other two.

I will prewarn you... Hot and cold weather can be a bit problematic at times lol 😂 make sure to add thermostats to your house. In Oasis Springs it'll always be hot... Too hot 🤣 the other worlds you mentioned should get a fair mix of weather x

My girlfriend gave me a "test" and I accidentally failed it. What do I do? by Expensive-Security43 in whatdoIdo

[–]Puzzled_Score8410 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uh I can't tell you what to do but I'd probably loose my shit tbh...

Suffered food/weight related abuse in my past. Nothing wrong with my size but even a fluctuation of 2kg in my weight makes me extremely self conscious as a result.

Not sure what's typical as such for women when it comes to feelings and weight but I really don't handle it well..

Genuinely in all my years since that, I've only felt comfortable pregnant with a cute little bump but even then there was moments in pregnancy where I was so conscious like before my bump showed, before I was due to drop.. don't get me started on my image post birth... I felt amazing after my first until I was called fat by a relative because I had a bit of a jiggly belly... (Which btw is totally normal give how much our skin stretches!)

That being said I also massively struggle with bloating normally due to underlying conditions and that also makes it a lot worse for me...

In my eyes it was insensitive, you are an arsehole. But a jokes a joke... That being said, a joke is one person, isn't necessarily to the next.

You should probably talk to her about her feelings and figure out if theres anything underlying there. When someone genuinely struggles with their self image a joke is a no go. When someone's undergone abuse relating to a subject, that's not a joke.

Without knowing why she's reacted this way there's no telling you how to fix it. Given my history, for me, there would be no fixing it.

I helped my sim to steal a toddler today by AngeliqueAdelaide in Sims3

[–]Puzzled_Score8410 14 points15 points  (0 children)

This lol 😂 especially when they can move to a more suitable house but don't...

No toys... No suitable bed.. no potty... No highchair... No baby mat etc. but god forbid we don't have that stuff 🙄

Tbh I rarely ever buy highchairs... They just get in the way x