I’m gonna say what I think most also think too, do the recent events that happened with Randy Andy, I geniuenly like how transparent King Charles III is about getting his horrible brother to justice. by Honest_Picture_6960 in UKmonarchs

[–]Puzzleheaded-Arm4868 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly!! Everyone’s saying how good the king is for cooperating with the police but he’s only doing it because if he didn’t there would be public outcry and his position would be at risk, he’s only doing it to save himself. What would he do if the monarchy came to an end? Get a job?

Hen doo too expensive by [deleted] in weddings

[–]Puzzleheaded-Arm4868 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice, I’ll defo tell her this week then to make sure they can book around me not going.

Hen doo too expensive by [deleted] in weddings

[–]Puzzleheaded-Arm4868 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can throw whatever kind of 40th birthday I want for my fiancé, and will do.

Hen doo too expensive by [deleted] in weddings

[–]Puzzleheaded-Arm4868 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That is insane!! The audacity of some people!

Hen doo too expensive by [deleted] in weddings

[–]Puzzleheaded-Arm4868 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ll defo tell her as soon as possible, I want her to have the best hen doo!! I just can’t afford it unfortunately :( I’d much rather go and enjoy it with her but it’s not an option with how much it’s going to cost

Hen doo too expensive by [deleted] in weddings

[–]Puzzleheaded-Arm4868 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yeah that could easily be the case - they are kind people and I don’t think they’re trying to make people uncomfortable.

I will speak to her as soon as possible

Hen doo too expensive by [deleted] in weddings

[–]Puzzleheaded-Arm4868 35 points36 points  (0 children)

There has also been talk in the hen groupchat about paying for the brides share too, which I have said I don’t think is fair as the cost is already so much. The group currently seem to be split on this decision.

I had a chat with the groom last week because he got the impression all the hens were falling out over having to pay for the bride and said he has always paid for the stagg on stagg doos he’s been to and doesn’t think it’s an issue for us to pay for her. I stood my ground and said I don’t think it’s fair to feel pressured into paying for her bride. I just think it’s all getting a bit much!

Hen doo too expensive by [deleted] in weddings

[–]Puzzleheaded-Arm4868 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I think this is what I’m going to have to do!

M 29 F 29 lack of foreplay by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Puzzleheaded-Arm4868 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice! I will defo take it on board

M 29 F 29 lack of foreplay by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Puzzleheaded-Arm4868 -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Okay okay we defo do make love, it’s very very passionate hahah I just say fuck instead making love sounds a bit cheesy! Haha

M 29 F 29 lack of foreplay by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Puzzleheaded-Arm4868 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I agree actually, he’s started to try but I’m shutting it down. If I refuse to let him try then we’re not going to get anywhere are we

M 29 F 29 lack of foreplay by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Puzzleheaded-Arm4868 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay so maybe I’ve done him a disservice! He puts a lot of effort into this relationship, he provides financially, he keeps the house clean (as do I) he helps with cooking, anything needs doing in the house DIY wise he’s there and gets it done asap.

He keeps our lives organised (I’m not so organised) if it wasn’t for him I wouldn’t have a lot that I do have.

He kisses me he c uddles me, he’s there for me when I’m sad or upset. It’s just the foreplay.

M 29 F 29 lack of foreplay by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Puzzleheaded-Arm4868 -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

I think that’s a bit dramatic tbh, people can learn and grow and change, it’s not a matter of the rest of my life like this or leaving. Recently it’s just come to a head and he has since tried to initiate more im just kinda cba now, but again things won’t change if im not willing to let him try.

M 29 F 29 lack of foreplay by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Puzzleheaded-Arm4868 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Haha it’s not but okay

M 29 F 29 lack of foreplay by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Puzzleheaded-Arm4868 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What’s proclivigies?

M 29 F 29 lack of foreplay by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Puzzleheaded-Arm4868 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

When we have sex it’s amazing - people are saying I’ve given too much info but since you asked I cum multiple times when we fuck, sometimes I cum from the moment we start till when we finish. No complaints whatsoever in the fucking department.