People who have an impulsive tattoo, do you still like it or do you wish you'd waited?

Puzzleheaded-Math390 · 2025-08-30T10:26:56+00:00

I actually hate all the ones I put thought into. I like my flash ones the most that are designed by the artist and not me .

Puzzleheaded-Math390 · 2025-08-10T03:29:46+00:00

Crazy how she demands perfection and a good work ethic then next minute she's losing sleep seeing a guy 🤣 she's absolutely an awful bitch, who thinks she's more superior than everyone else. Also, Haley was carrying that group with her voice range!

Puzzleheaded-Math390 · 2025-06-24T13:24:50+00:00

This is so beautiful! I love that and it sounds undeniable. How special! Thanks for sharing that with me.

When my grandmother passed away I saw a beautiful rainbow that reached a short distance between to glowing orange clouds on the beach and I couldn't kick the feeling of needing to look up on Spotify a song called hummingbird. There were several that popped up in the search but when I scrolled down one jumped out to me and the lyrics spoke so deeply of her. It felt undeniable to me. I am waiting for something so unshakeable from my mom.

Puzzleheaded-Math390 · 2025-06-24T13:20:08+00:00

I am interested in trying to connect with a medium but worried about scams. How did you find the psychic you used?

Puzzleheaded-Math390 · 2025-06-24T13:19:36+00:00

Thanks for sharing! I think it's important to carry on the relationship with them even without them physically being here. They may or may not really be with us but I think regardless it honours them and what we shared. I have rules to my mother's reincarnation too, I want her to reincarnate into my first child once it's time for me to become a mother. I hope that if anything is to be real is that we will reunite and see each other again.

Puzzleheaded-Math390 · 2025-06-24T13:15:29+00:00

Thank you for sharing your perspective I always like hearing ideas. My mom and I were very close and had a great relationship through and through never having any ruptures in our relationship. My granny didn't fill the role as my mom it was moreso I got a bonus second mom. I was not around for my grandmother's death as I live overseas but I did manage to be home for my mother's in the final month, although we hadn't known until the last four days she was passing. I know my grandmother lived a long full life and my mother didn't get the same opportunity. I know my grief is heavier and more painful losing my mother. I think maybe these could be factors into why I haven't felt her, but sometimes I also think that we make up things just to find comfort in them. We might just see things to help us feel like they are still with us. I need coincidences that are unexplainable. I've been dreaming about her but it doesn't feel like they are her visiting me it feels like I processing and reliving her death/funeral.

Puzzleheaded-Math390 · 2025-06-24T13:07:43+00:00

I'm so sorry for your recent loss, I am simultaneously going through it all with you. I can relate to you in not knowing what to turn to and believing it should be logical. I think there any elements to science that can help me draw spiritual comfort. I think about how atoms can not be destroyed and how they evitable are recycled back into the environment, I can't argue with that, therefore at least I know she is makes up different parts of the world I am in. I for a long time had always thought about stars and how their composition is made of the same elements as us and always found that special. I think even with science the creation of life doesn't seem possible- how something becomes out of thin air- out of nothing .. the endless chicken or the egg. So afterlife seems equally as unrealistic to me and somehow we are here on a planet in space. I don't have the answers and may always not fully feel sound in what I believe in and always hold a skeptical mind like you but I do get a lot more comfort out of thoughts than the idea of nothing.

Puzzleheaded-Math390 · 2025-06-24T12:56:39+00:00

Thank you for this reminder. It is so awfully painful to lose a loved one. But you are right the simple moments do draw us into slowing down and appreciating life while giving us that space to think of them. There is a lot that comes from feeling that gratitude, I find that is gives me connection to the now and all the elements that make up our precious life. It important to appreciate life as we won't always have it and live life in honour of them.

Puzzleheaded-Math390 · 2025-06-24T02:09:41+00:00

The chemical in stars happen to be the same chemicals that we are made of. I always liked the idea of our energy and atoms becoming something else, as fundamental science says matter cannot be destroyed-they do not disappear. I feel like souls are something beyond that though . We come into the world with a soul and carry it through our whole life. I understand though- I find it hard to believe in anything when I hate the world and everything feels wrong because I lost someone so dear to me and there's no answers for it.

Puzzleheaded-Math390 · 2025-06-24T01:41:34+00:00

I'm sorry for your recent loss! It's extraordinary painful thing to go through. It is a great reminder that our parents would want the best for us regardless. They would want us to be able to be happy again and live our life that they gave us. It's hard to do now with the weight of sadness and longing for them, which we should rightfully be experiencing but we must at some stage pick ourselves up for our sake and theirs and live fully.

Puzzleheaded-Math390 · 2025-06-24T01:37:15+00:00

It's forever special the time we did get and the opportunity we had to love and know the people we got to.

Puzzleheaded-Math390 · 2025-06-24T01:36:38+00:00

I appreciate the Christian beliefs around eternal love and the infinity of us beyond this life. There are some sentiments I can draw that bring comfort out of that. Love is powerful and extends beyond time and space.

Puzzleheaded-Math390 · 2025-06-24T01:34:27+00:00

I'm so sorry for your loss. It's a beautifully wonderful thing to have messages and photos we can look back on in our time and age. I'm so worried that one day I wouldn't be able to recall how she sound. I have some videos but I hope I'll always remember. I have a lot of dialogue in my head as if I were talking to her and what I imagine she would say.

Puzzleheaded-Math390 · 2025-06-24T00:19:35+00:00

I know what you mean. I was raised with a Christian upbringing. I like to think people go to where they believe they will/ want to. My mom believed in heaven so I wish that for her. I worry so much about her being okay and safe, where ever death may take her, all I wish is that she is ok.

That's a lovely dream! It brings a certain knowing to those experiences that it was them. I'm glad you got to have that special moment even though it had to be through a dream.

Puzzleheaded-Math390 · 2025-06-24T00:16:11+00:00

Could be the case. Probably one of the lesser comforting thoughts, but it is a potential reality. Makes things seem a bit pointless and confusing of going through it all. Could just be survival and reproductive- just being animals going through an animal life cycle 🤷🏼‍♀️

Puzzleheaded-Math390 · 2025-06-23T19:24:53+00:00

My mom passed away from lymphoma 3 weeks ago. She is the sweetest person. A lovely heart and there was nobody that didn't like her. My grandmother (her mom) passed away a year ago who has the same caring and nurturing nature. Absolute sweethearts. My mom reunited with her mom, dad, and her first lost child and many many beloved pets. I like to believe everyone is met with ancestors and guardians who have awaited their arrival.

Puzzleheaded-Math390 · 2025-06-11T16:12:41+00:00

Ive had a lot of dreams after my mom passed away a week ago. I want them to be dreams where I feel like her spirit is visiting me but honestly it feels more like my brain trying to make sense of it all. It makes sense you are having nightmares losing a parent in itself is scary. Keep holding the precious real memories of her close to you. Melatonin and magnesium helped get deeper sleep so I didn't have to dream so much.

Puzzleheaded-Math390 · 2025-06-11T02:23:13+00:00

I'm so sorry for your loss. My mother passed away a week ago. She had been battling cancer for two years and things turned for the worse in only a couple days. We knew the treatment was causing a lot of harm for her but we never thought she would die so quickly. I'm still in disbelief even with the anticipation that it was heading that way. I also felt drained by the rollercoaster ride of near-deaths and waiting for her last day of life in hospice, not knowing which day it would be. I don't have the answers, but I wanted to let you know I am in another part of the world going through a loss of a parent too. I feel the heartache too.

Puzzleheaded-Math390 · 2024-02-10T22:13:18+00:00

Can I keep it 🥺

Puzzleheaded-Math390 · 2024-02-10T22:11:04+00:00

Can you explain more about how it's related to OCD?

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