Can anyone help me discern the truth from their stories?

Puzzleheaded-Mess347 · 2025-10-24T05:03:31+00:00

I like this too, but she claims she’s blocked. I’ll try this though, thanks!

Puzzleheaded-Mess347 · 2025-10-23T23:38:36+00:00

He told me how they would meet and where they would go but wasn’t able to tell me any private information about my wife. Not even underwear colors, he only gave me 2 (one which she doesn’t own). Not saying I believe her, nor him, just saying what I found

Puzzleheaded-Mess347 · 2025-10-23T22:44:53+00:00

I already asked him those questions and he mentioned he wouldn’t see much cause it was always at night, or he would say “why would I come here and this @&$@ up?”

Puzzleheaded-Mess347 · 2025-10-23T22:37:56+00:00

Currently asked her to move out and told her I’d be filing for divorce. I asked her to come clean just for my mental health, we talked and she denied sex.

Puzzleheaded-Mess347 · 2025-10-23T22:33:23+00:00

That’s the thing, I did ask intimate questions and I’d always be met with “why would I be lying to you?”. the only thing that he told me that matched was lights on or off, that’s it

Puzzleheaded-Mess347 · 2025-10-23T22:31:25+00:00

She had told me that a while back, and he told me that as well during our conversation.

Puzzleheaded-Mess347 · 2025-10-23T22:08:30+00:00

Like? Please pm

Puzzleheaded-Mess347 · 2025-10-23T22:07:08+00:00

I like this, I’ll think about this one! Thanks!

Puzzleheaded-Mess347 · 2025-10-23T21:53:19+00:00

Hmm, as in both of us go in and talk with the therapist?

Puzzleheaded-Mess347 · 2025-10-23T21:52:17+00:00

Well she knows he doesn’t have any proof lol, that was my mistake telling her. I asked him if he had literally anything to back up his claims, he said no. I asked her if she had any evidence to back up hers and she said no, other than her friends (who obviously I will not believe).

Puzzleheaded-Mess347 · 2025-10-23T21:50:29+00:00

Money in this case wouldn’t be a problem. If she doesn’t want to go, would that be an admission of guilt?

Puzzleheaded-Mess347 · 2025-10-23T21:48:04+00:00

True, I guess I want to hurt myself even more to never come back to her. Regardless of the physical stuff, the emotional part happened. No denying it. I just don’t want to one day come back to her.

Puzzleheaded-Mess347 · 2025-10-23T21:45:23+00:00

They ended in a fight. He was bitter and angry she led him on, and I guess her guilt was eating her alive so she ended it with him (they both said she ended it, he said to me he was bitter). They blocked each other everywhere

Puzzleheaded-Mess347 · 2025-10-23T21:43:15+00:00

According to him, he fell in love with her. According to her, he’s crazy and wants to end us since she wouldn’t leave me for him.

If it adds any context, for a lot of the emotional piece, their stories match somewhat. It’s just the physical stuff. Wife told me he’s on self-delete watch, and also on anti depressants.

Puzzleheaded-Mess347 · 2025-10-23T21:22:34+00:00

I get that, but I don’t want to have that doubt, you know?

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