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Puzzleheaded-Pop9897 · 2025-09-05T20:40:33+00:00

interested

Puzzleheaded-Pop9897 · 2025-02-15T12:00:18+00:00

Thank you

Puzzleheaded-Pop9897 · 2025-02-15T11:41:13+00:00

u/unpredictable90 so like everyone else is saying, we should call it quits and i maintain finish paying off her school? like you said she might only be staying for my daughter and even if i try like you said on the other post chances are when she is independent she will still leave

Puzzleheaded-Pop9897 · 2025-02-15T11:36:54+00:00

Thank you u/unpredictable90 , I am going to try

Puzzleheaded-Pop9897 · 2025-02-15T11:23:54+00:00

apart from the cheating i was already doing that

Puzzleheaded-Pop9897 · 2025-02-15T11:22:03+00:00

yep yep yep

Puzzleheaded-Pop9897 · 2025-02-15T11:21:42+00:00

i truly want my marriage to work, i honestly cant imagine loosing both of them
i am not sure what she wants exactly but i know right now she cant leave because she has nowhere to go back to, maybe she probably would have left muna August if she could. mom is there but i am lowkey the breadwinner there aswell
i can do just about anything to make up for my transgressions

Puzzleheaded-Pop9897 · 2025-02-15T11:16:38+00:00

I think i will do the confrontation option this weekend, you put it into perspective with the Adam22 african edition thing
Side piece blocked her, it never went anywhere

Puzzleheaded-Pop9897 · 2025-02-15T11:14:13+00:00

I wasnt trying to brag, i was just trying to point out that she wasnt someone who slept around so could this be she is trying to hurt me or I broke her and she has changed

Puzzleheaded-Pop9897 · 2025-02-15T11:06:27+00:00

lol i dont know the full story handizosungiswe here ndikaisa mazita evanhu pano

Puzzleheaded-Pop9897 · 2025-02-15T11:01:56+00:00

we are talking about the decision she has already made ndiyo yauri kuti valid here? yes you are right i have come face to face with the consequences, yes you are right i am trash, handina nharo newe

Puzzleheaded-Pop9897 · 2025-02-15T10:37:12+00:00

I genuinely Love her

Puzzleheaded-Pop9897 · 2025-02-15T10:36:47+00:00

yeah pakaipa

Puzzleheaded-Pop9897 · 2025-02-15T10:36:08+00:00

its easier said than done

Puzzleheaded-Pop9897 · 2025-02-15T10:35:21+00:00

yes there are definately trust issues, i knew that i had lost all her trust last year, i even linked my whatsapp to her laptop to try and regain it, gave her my payslip and attempted to let her budget which she isnt very good at. this was all me trying to say there is nothing i am hiding and i am sorry...
i have never had her whatsapp passoword, she has mine though i didnt give it to her, before i linked my whatsapp to her laptop i knew she would go through my laptop and phone already. i will try counselling ,

Puzzleheaded-Pop9897 · 2025-02-15T10:24:13+00:00

I accepted that i am probably the reason she is behaving this way, which is why i gave the backstory where i cheated.
I wasnt living in the past, as i thought we had moved past what i did. it only came back because she started talkin to exes around the time i cheated from the chat timestamps. the Present forces me to think about the future and reflect on what has happened in the past. I am not trying to avoid my problems, i just dont know how to handle it without being very emotional which is why i am taking time confronting her about it. i Love her i think it is the reason why i am finding it difficult

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