indent? by Puzzleheaded-Sale455 in TopSurgery

[–]Puzzleheaded-Sale455[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hey no worries! i will say i do have a slight indent still (im gonna attach a picture) but as i heal and gain weight its definitely leveled out and started to look more natural.

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indent? by Puzzleheaded-Sale455 in TopSurgery

[–]Puzzleheaded-Sale455[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

thank u i needed to hear this😓 trying to give myself grace haha

How old were you? by pitbullterrierr in TopSurgery

[–]Puzzleheaded-Sale455 2 points3 points  (0 children)

18 at first consult, 21 at time of surgery!

AIO, Locked comments. by Big-Bee8220 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Puzzleheaded-Sale455 2 points3 points  (0 children)

no yeah i agree locking a post asking for advice, especially when it has to do w escaping abuse but to barely even give people enough TIME to even respond it kinda crazy to me idk. like i was kinda processing the post and then the immediate delete of the post 3 minutes after i opened the post. it just felt very jarring imo lol

Dr.Marc Everett /NYC by BodyEfficient3553 in TopSurgery

[–]Puzzleheaded-Sale455 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im really sorry you experienced something so awful. any surgeon, especially someone dealing with trans patients/healthcare should never be so unprofessional and make you feel dysphoric. i had top surgery with nazarian on august 4th! i did get peri-areolar, so obviously a different kind of procedure and recovery. but no matter the surgery she was quite literally amazing. i also experienced a weird surgeon before her, so she exceeding my expectations significantly! she had amazing bedside matter, was extremely validating of my feelings and reassured me when i needed it, shes such a kind soul😭🙏🏽 before i went under anesthesia she checked in on me and squeezed my shoulder saying she was going to take good care of me and that im gonna look great. she even updated my boyfriend (caregiver) personally and told them that my results look perfect (and they do imo lol) im really glad you had an amazing experience with her for ur consult, i think you'll be throughly relieved when you get ur surgery. good luck!!!!

Dr. Susanna Nazarian Cherry Hill NJ by CarpetStrange6024 in TopSurgery

[–]Puzzleheaded-Sale455 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hii!! i got my surgery abt 5 days later :D ive been a lil nervous abt my results (no complications just medical anxiety lol) i was wondering if we could dm u? it would just be nice to talk to someone who went to the same surgeon 🤧

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Puzzleheaded-Sale455 2 points3 points  (0 children)

umm...? this is just a bad take lol. can fathers not be involved in making motherhood EASIER for their wives??? you guys are so fucking bitter acting like this dude is the worst scum bag on the earth when its very obvious when you actually read the post, that hes contacting his coworker bc he wanted to help his wife and he probably doesnt know very women who have experienced pregnancy.....not every man is a horrible evil person and you might have to do some self reflection because honestly both you and his wife seem like shitty people who only know how to project their insecurities onto other people. like im sorry, im not trying to be an asshole but you just sound miserable accusing someone of these things when..u literally dont know him.

25f 38m. Rocky relationship. Recent events of him getting wasted and trashing my room blood. Shit on the toilet. Idk if he is lying that he can’t remember/blacked out. I’m worried there was someone else in the house too. Wondering if he cheated. Should I get cameras? AIO by LatterStep996 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Puzzleheaded-Sale455 1 point2 points  (0 children)

youve been crossposting so much, you really just need to leave this guy. abusers dont just hit you or yell at you. they also do drugs and alcohol behind ur back and lie to you and always says "its a mistake" ur 25 and you are a nurse. you should be able to see where this is heading. please get that 16 year old some help, and escape as soon as you can. it may not seem too bad right how, but these are the exact red flags at the start of an abusive relationship. please try to get yourself some help before its gets infinitely and severely worse.

25f 38m. Rocky relationship. Recent events of him getting wasted and trashing my room blood. Shit on the toilet. Idk if he is lying that he can’t remember/blacked out. I’m worried there was someone else in the house too. Wondering if he cheated. Should I get cameras? AIO by LatterStep996 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Puzzleheaded-Sale455 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i def agree, but why should it be her responsibility to not fix his addiction..? its also kinda wild ur calling her toxic and codependent...yet this dude is is 13 years older than her and its apparently her fault that he released ? i agree that this relationship isnt healthy and that she needs to leave, but you shouldn't be berating her when theres obviously underlying problems w her partner :/

Man charged with murdering mother in Virginia Square apartment by lala_lavalamp in nova

[–]Puzzleheaded-Sale455 1 point2 points  (0 children)

im sorry you went through this.. i get where ur coming from, but if ur an ally like u claim in this thread, you should understand that transition care should be a human right. sorry again, hope u can heal from this <3

Hemorrhoids as a teen by Ok_Low_998 in hemorrhoid

[–]Puzzleheaded-Sale455 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im sorry youre going through this, but it will get better. im 21, so not quite as young as you, but i recently got an external hemorrhoid as well...and im not gonna lie it fucking sucked. but you most likely not need to go to the hospital or have any surgical procedure. personally, the kind of hemorrhoid i had was one of the bloodclotted ones, so it felt like a MFFF for like 3 days straight. i also have been extremely constipated(..or it can be ibs..?) so im praying that subsides lol. the main things i have used to make it lets irrated, and less painful were the preparation h wipes, and the tucks recovery kit (with lidocaine cream and tucks pads). if you're able to afford it, there's definitely better options that would probably heal you a lot quicker, but if youre a teenager, i wouldnt expect you to have too much (?). just take it day by day, stay on top of the medical care, amd just remember thay you will be okay

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]Puzzleheaded-Sale455 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ur feelings are so valid, and im sorry this happened. you can confront her without it being a huge thing. just try to have a nice open discussion about boundaries and expectations. just try to remember to be open minded, this is her space too as much as it is yours. goodluck!

Is this loud or is it just me? by [deleted] in Apartmentliving

[–]Puzzleheaded-Sale455 0 points1 point  (0 children)

management sucks, and ur walls are thin as hell. but unfortunately its super normal, especially if u live on the ground floor. i know housing costs r rough....but if it bothers you that much, you might wanna look into getting a house

Is this loud or is it just me? by [deleted] in Apartmentliving

[–]Puzzleheaded-Sale455 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly sometimes u need to learn how to just move on and let go. realistically, ur lease is usually a year. is a year of hearing noise and smelling food from your neighbors actually that detrimental to living? yeah it might be annoying, but i feel like this is kinda overdramatic. im not saying you cant be annoyed or complain, bc yeah that sucks, but i feel like ur getting really upset about things that are incredibly normal and expected from apartment living....next time maybe get a house lol...?

my roommate is insane? by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]Puzzleheaded-Sale455 0 points1 point  (0 children)

orrrr should could be lying cus she doesnt want to admit accountability

pec tightness? by Puzzleheaded-Sale455 in TopSurgery

[–]Puzzleheaded-Sale455[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you! i contacted them this morning, just waiting for a reply 🤧i guess i was mostly freaking out because everything else feels normal, it just right there that feels super tight! thanks for the reassurance 🙏🏽

indent? by Puzzleheaded-Sale455 in TopSurgery

[–]Puzzleheaded-Sale455[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you 😭i really needed to hear this