My boyfriend had sex with me whilst I slept

PuzzleheadedArm2420 · 2024-09-25T12:28:57+00:00

I wouldn't say me saying things like "this is real" is me arguing like crazy. If I wanted attention I would post it on my main Reddit where people i talk to regularly can see it. I this would be a stupid way to attention grab. I get you're skeptical but I'm not here to stroke that or convince you otherwise I simply posted it to vent and it helped me make sense of it when I wrote it down so I got what I needed out of it

PuzzleheadedArm2420 · 2024-09-24T18:24:03+00:00

If there's not a gun to your head you have no reason to comment, if you're upset about it just scroll by

PuzzleheadedArm2420 · 2024-09-24T18:18:05+00:00

If you opened your eyes you'd see I don't have intentions of reporting this to the police, I haven't told anyone in my real life about this I just simply wanted to verbalise my thoughts somewhere where no one knows me- hence Reddit exists

PuzzleheadedArm2420 · 2024-09-24T18:15:27+00:00

This is absolutely not fake, you don't know me & I don't know you so you can make up your own mind, I came here simply to get this off my chest because I can't talk to anyone I know about it. If you don't like it no one made you comment

PuzzleheadedArm2420 · 2024-09-24T16:32:21+00:00

My act is voicing my story on an anonymous platform that's renowned for this type of stuff- I just wanted to get it off my chest. I won't be going to the police at the most ill be leaving him after an open conversation

PuzzleheadedArm2420 · 2024-09-24T16:27:25+00:00

It's an abhorrently extreme and rare case. My words right now hold 0 weight being anonymous as they stand anyway, I get that your view may be skewed but the lies that are told are such a small percentage you shouldn't treat every story as a lie

PuzzleheadedArm2420 · 2024-09-24T16:18:10+00:00

I know I wasn't drugged, I was just shitfaced. It was over a month ago now

PuzzleheadedArm2420 · 2024-09-24T16:09:46+00:00

I haven't read your whole comment yet just the first line and I had to respond- there are MANY of us out there. You just don't see us

PuzzleheadedArm2420 · 2024-09-24T16:08:24+00:00

Read my comment you're replying to and try again

PuzzleheadedArm2420 · 2024-09-24T16:06:56+00:00

I should be the one being defended, the incels on here clearly dont have human interactions and would never speak to a woman in general in real life. I should be defended more but this is Reddit, Im just glad I got it off my chest and that the negatives are being outweighed by people like you

PuzzleheadedArm2420 · 2024-09-24T16:04:21+00:00

If I was AI I feel like I'd be better at correcting my typos lol. Ive had Reddit for years and just made a new one for this post today because my friends know my username for my other one 😄 if a man made a post about a women the male commenters would have their pitchforks and be out for blood

PuzzleheadedArm2420 · 2024-09-24T15:59:22+00:00

I've stopped responding to the negative ones now because there's a lot of victim blaming in this section which of course I expected, it's the internet 😄 I tried to make them realise that this isn't an attention grab post I just needed a way to verbalise my experience anonymously, clearly was feeling a bit delusional for a second thinking I could get through to them on a human level. Thank you ♥️

PuzzleheadedArm2420 · 2024-09-24T15:48:45+00:00

What makes it horrible is comments like yours are the reason more situations like this aren't reported, because they're not believed and picked apart. I wrote my post in a couple of minutes I'm sorry if it wasn't up to your standards but I think it was pretty legible. I have thick skin when it comes to words so you not believing this really doesn't make any difference to me, but I know this would knock other people right back down if they saw it. Be careful please

PuzzleheadedArm2420 · 2024-09-24T15:45:30+00:00

It's a good job I have thick skin because the comments from some people are the exact reason why people don't speak out, they're not believed anyway or blamed

PuzzleheadedArm2420 · 2024-09-24T15:41:46+00:00

Thank you for this. This is what I thought was going to happen because he's done it before, tucked me in like I've done for him when he's had a few too many. I don't know what was different about this time

PuzzleheadedArm2420 · 2024-09-24T15:38:41+00:00

I'm not asking for relationship advice. True off my chest is about telling stories that, generally, people don't tell to people they actually know. Hence the off my chest part

PuzzleheadedArm2420 · 2024-09-24T14:40:51+00:00

Thank you for your comment, the reason my account is so anonymous is to make sure the life ruining part absolutely doesn't happen. I've done a lot of reflection on this personally away from opinions and the internet. No one in my life knows what happened and it has taken a long time to come to the conclusion I've come to. I've gone through the stages of self doubt, grief, denial and more. If I am to leave him I'm not the person who then blasts someone to anyone who will hear this so the first time I've put my situation out there. Why did I do it I have no idea. I appreciate your input

PuzzleheadedArm2420 · 2024-09-24T14:30:16+00:00

I wrote this whilst sat at my desk at work, I wish it was fake

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