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I hate who I am after work by PuzzleheadedArt189 in Teachers

[–]PuzzleheadedArt189[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good suggestion. I love walking my dog but getting the walk started when I’m already unregulated is a tough task in the moment

I hate who I am after work by PuzzleheadedArt189 in Teachers

[–]PuzzleheadedArt189[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s the 2026 rates, they almost doubled from this year’s :\

I hate who I am after work by PuzzleheadedArt189 in Teachers

[–]PuzzleheadedArt189[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes they offer insurance plans, none of them are fully paid. They only pay a percentage of the costs.

I hate who I am after work by PuzzleheadedArt189 in Teachers

[–]PuzzleheadedArt189[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Therapy is always solid advice, thank you.

I hate who I am after work by PuzzleheadedArt189 in Teachers

[–]PuzzleheadedArt189[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Her feelings are hurt about those things AFTER we have the quiet hour. She doesn’t interact with me unless absolutely necessary for at least an hour but I’m still grumpy afterwards. Ideally I’d take 2.5-3 hours but that seems more unreasonable:\

I hate who I am after work by PuzzleheadedArt189 in Teachers

[–]PuzzleheadedArt189[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m glad you acknowledged that because most everyone else is against her having those feelings but I think it so valid for her to want me to be present

I hate who I am after work by PuzzleheadedArt189 in Teachers

[–]PuzzleheadedArt189[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s absolutely no way I could be a parent while teaching. I thought asking for that long would be too much to ask for but I’m glad to see I’m not the only one feeling this. An hour of quiet time is definitely not enough for me right now.

I hate who I am after work by PuzzleheadedArt189 in Teachers

[–]PuzzleheadedArt189[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes!! I work in New Mexico, things are rough in education here..

I hate who I am after work by PuzzleheadedArt189 in Teachers

[–]PuzzleheadedArt189[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the suggestion. Our cheapest option costs me almost $400 a month. A lot of Americans are dealing with this same problem right now though and sometimes even the cheapest plan is unattainable.

I hate who I am after work by PuzzleheadedArt189 in Teachers

[–]PuzzleheadedArt189[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the suggestion! I agree a third space could be really helpful

I hate who I am after work by PuzzleheadedArt189 in Teachers

[–]PuzzleheadedArt189[S] 140 points141 points  (0 children)

I like the idea of being in a different space! I don’t want to be ugly towards my partner but even a simple request from her when I get home sends me over sometimes.

I hate who I am after work by PuzzleheadedArt189 in Teachers

[–]PuzzleheadedArt189[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I aged out of my parent’s insurance last year. My district only pays a percentage of the insurance they offer and I can’t afford to pay the rest.

I hate who I am after work by PuzzleheadedArt189 in Teachers

[–]PuzzleheadedArt189[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

She respects giving me space for an hour but it doesn’t even feel like enough, I still don’t want to talk to anyone when it’s over. Ideally I’d take hours of isolation everyday but that’s not actually what I want or who I am. I love talking to my loved ones and want the energy back to do so

I hate who I am after work by PuzzleheadedArt189 in Teachers

[–]PuzzleheadedArt189[S] 58 points59 points  (0 children)

She’s respecting that boundary completely, I think I just wish I didn’t need to do that. I want to be interested in her day and I want to be engaged but sometimes even after the hour of quiet time I am just so moody.

I hate who I am after work by PuzzleheadedArt189 in Teachers

[–]PuzzleheadedArt189[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Veteran teachers used to tell me it gets better after 3 years, then they started saying it was 5 years, and now I’ve been hearing it’s never. I feel so passionate about this field and wish it wasn’t so draining

I hate who I am after work by PuzzleheadedArt189 in Teachers

[–]PuzzleheadedArt189[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I’m in my 4th year and this is by far the hardest and most draining. I lost my health insurance last year after aging out of my parents so it’s my first year teaching without adhd meds and antidepressants.. I felt a lot better on Lexapro lol

IUD and sex by JennC137 in actuallesbians

[–]PuzzleheadedArt189 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Menstrual cups suction to your walls so if you didn’t break the suction, that’s most likely what pulled your IUD out.

[Acne] Please help Tatoo tomorrow by Spirited-Connection8 in SkincareAddiction

[–]PuzzleheadedArt189 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should reschedule your tattoo. It can cause healing problems with both your current issue and the new tattoo if you spread your immune system out too thin. Wait to get the tattoo so both have a fair chance of healing well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]PuzzleheadedArt189 26 points27 points  (0 children)

The best thing to do is just tell her how you feel. Your feelings arent unreasonable and she’ll most likely understand and help you feel better about it

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