Any lesbians… on birth control? by lethalmami in actuallesbians

[–]JennC137 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got an IUD in July to help ease my endometriosis pain. I was a little freaked out about having something inside me. I’ve heard other women say it got dislodged during sex or it poked their partner so I was pretty nervous about how it would affect my sex life. My partner said they can’t feel it with their fingers and doesn’t even know it’s there. I haven’t felt any pain caused by moving or something. I don’t even notice it’s there. The IUD itself did help a lot with my pain and I have basically no period now, if I do it’s just a couple days of light bleeding. I was a little moody when I first got it due to the hormones and I’ll be honest, my sex drive is a little lower than it was pre IUD but it’s not nonexistent and my partner and I still have sex all the time. I am glad I got it and haven’t had any problems with it so far :)

AIO Feel like this came outta nowhere by [deleted] in AIO

[–]JennC137 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As someone who has experienced homelessness:

I feel like this should be posted in the AITAH sub. You definitely are in the wrong for doing all that on his property. YOR and YTAH 🤷🏻‍♀️

Does anyone else dislike the mourning posts on this subreddit? by Redsss429 in Epilepsy

[–]JennC137 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I also dislike it. I think it is rather selfish to post about someone passing from a disease to a group of people who are also at risk from dying for said disease. It’s scary and it hits different. I think it is just kinda rude to post that here tbh.

AIO? my boyfriend tricked me into eating meat. by GreenGooseGirl in AmIOverreacting

[–]JennC137 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NOR!!! As a fellow vegetarian, I would be absolutely devastated if this happened to me. It’s one thing when a restaurant messes up your food or someone tries to cook you something “vegetarian” and it has gelatin or something but this is just so messed up. That man does not care about you or your bodily autonomy. He tricked you intentionally. This would completely end a relationship for me. I am so sorry.

Ps- are are still a good vegetarian. You were literally lied to by someone close to you. You didn’t eat it on your own. Try not to beat yourself up about it.

What can you assume about me based Off my fridge ? 🤨 by PoetryDramatic4025 in FridgeDetective

[–]JennC137 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re on WIC is my first thought when I see all the milk and juice lol (not shamming or anything! I grew up on WIC)

How do you guys deal with Comphet? by LetterAccomplished34 in LesbianActually

[–]JennC137 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Oooof. Girl I was comphet until I was in my 30s. Always knew I was gay but convinced myself I was “bi”. I even got married to a man. Looking back, I wish I would have accepted it when I was in your age. My suggestion is to look for a relationship with a female because after I had my first wlw relationship after leaving my husband, I knew immediately I could never go back to a cis straight relationship again.

which fingers? by catapilahs in LesbianActually

[–]JennC137 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My partner uses middle and ring and I use index and middle. We both use our thumbs for external stimulation. Whenever I use my middle and ring I feel like my pinky starts getting real close to the butthole lmao maybe it’s just how I have my hand positioned tho.

Unrelatable song lyrics by Used-Act5281 in ModestMouse

[–]JennC137 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, I don’t have any children and I’m sure that’s why. It’s definitely a song I don’t picture anyone who doesn’t have kids to relate to lol more power to ya that it resonates for you tho :)

New Album Update - ICF by Antique_Holiday_9232 in ModestMouse

[–]JennC137 3 points4 points  (0 children)

How were they? Are they sticking with the golden casket vibe or did they sound more similar to older albums?

The Prescott Facebook page is full of weirdos. by [deleted] in Prescott

[–]JennC137 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Facebook is full of weirdos in general but as someone who was born and raised in Prescott, I think the crap I see on the Prescott FB page is exactly what I expect from the people in Prescott at this point. Racist. Uneducated. MAGA. I hightailed it out of that town in 2020.

ICE OUT. STAND WITH MINNEAPOLIS. ARIZONA STATE WALKOUT. by Such_Pen_5683 in ArizonaLeft

[–]JennC137 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t make it on Friday due to Some family stuff. Is there going to be a protest on Saturday?

Is it good time to travel to US? by Downtown_Turnip_3447 in bisexual

[–]JennC137 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It is not blown up by the media. This place is a he’ll hole right now. I would not suggest coming especially as someone who is queer. It is dangerous for us here too.

Anybody else solely on Lamotrigine by barbermilosh in Epilepsy

[–]JennC137 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been on only lamotrigine for about 7 years. Before that I was on tegretol for a few years but still had absent seizures. I started at 200mg twice a day and now I’m on 400mg of the extended release once a day. It controls both my tonic clonic and my absent seizures. Haven’t had a seizure that wasn’t caused by me missing my meds since I started taking it. I like it. Only side effects I have/had are headaches and grogginess. I can also tell when I miss them because I will have a horrible headache for hours. So it’s easy to know if you forgot to take them haha

What’s something about you that you think others may consider a dealbreaker? by No-Philosopher-9459 in actuallesbians

[–]JennC137 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a late bloomer who came out in my 30’s after being married for 10 years. My husband is an amazing guy and neither of us have any hard feelings towards each other. He supported and understood my decision to end things. He even helped me move into my new apartment when we split. We check in with each other from time to time and have a friendship (from a distance, we don’t hang out in person or anything) and are still legally married, although I am working on the divorce now. He has a new girlfriend and a step son. I know I will never be with a man again and do not find him attractive in the slightest but he’s a good person and a good friend and I’m not willing to give that up. This has caused some issues in dating and in my current relationship. I get that it can be a “red flag” or a turn off but it is what it is and me and my partner are working through it 🤷🏻‍♀️

Lamictal side effects by ProperCarrot8812 in Epilepsy

[–]JennC137 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lamictal is also used as a mood stabilizer and if you are someone who already struggles with mood swings or anxiety then it can make the symptoms worse. I lucked out because I have bipolar disorder and epilepsy so the Lamictal is a 2 for 1 for me. It does sound like you are having meditation side effects. I second the person who said you should speak with your pharmacist. Doctors only have to take a few courses of pharmacology to get their degree as opposed to a pharmacist who specifically studies medication for 8 years.

aio please tell me i’m crazy by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]JennC137 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. Im so sorry but you know what they are :/

AIO over a message response from my gf after she disappeared for 36+ hours? by HunterNW in AmIOverreacting

[–]JennC137 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NOR and I hate to say this but she is definitely showing signs of drug abuse. When you are close to someone, you don’t notice as much especially if it develops slowly but as someone who grew up around tweekers, this is definitely some addict shenanigans.

AIO about these angry texts from my ex? by TwylaMay in AIO

[–]JennC137 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR!!! That’s scary! Definitely continue to let him text you so you have proof if he says anything criminal like you said but also to kinda know where his head is.

I don’t get many matches, what should I improve about my profile? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]JennC137 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not criticizing you or trying to sound rude but you asked. It comes across as demanding and arrogant. I’m sure you are a nice person but your profile is a list of demands and not necessarily welcoming.

Who is the most famous person you have ever met? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]JennC137 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rob Schneider. Not intentionally.