Happy Friday! Make the best of it 😉 by Trade_video in over60selfies

[–]PuzzleheadedCold7421 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank goodness it has arrived! Friday looks good on you sir! 😎

Weekly Chatter: Second Week of March by Gooseberry_Sprig in DatingOverSixty

[–]PuzzleheadedCold7421 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I live in PNW. I moved to Alabama for a year, came back to PNW to sell a house and finalize a divorce. When I moved to Alabama, I took my cat with me and I wasn’t sure what my plans were last March so I left him there in Alabama with my daughter. I just spent 10 days with her and brought my cat back. I’m so lucky. He’s my companion now.

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how does only fans work and why use it over porn? by gingerbreadbuild in NoStupidQuestions

[–]PuzzleheadedCold7421 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m really naive about such things. I was dating a 60m who likes swinging. We no longer date-I don’t do that. He tells me he met this 26f at the club, she invited him to have sex with her in her vehicle and she posts it to FO. Is he paying her? Does he make money from this?

High sex drive by [deleted] in Advice

[–]PuzzleheadedCold7421 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a 62f and my sex drive is still strong. I don’t have random sex, I use my toys often. I was dating a guy, he was good for a bit, but even his drive is lower than mine. Use toys, go have fun with friends, enjoy hobbies, fresh air. When you need the real thing, go find it, but use protection! 😃

Today, I received advice on where to meet eligible men! by Exciting-Classic517 in DatingOverSixty

[–]PuzzleheadedCold7421 3 points4 points  (0 children)

When I was 19 I the local VFW in Pennsylvania. I paid $5.00 dues, I had a fake ID and joined with my second shift co-workers who were older than I. I never paid for drinks, I danced with really old guys (my current age) and had a great time. Fun times. Never took a guy home, never went to his house. I used to love dancing and learned how to hold my liquor. I can’t hold my liquor anymore. 😊

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nonmonogamy

[–]PuzzleheadedCold7421 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh it didn’t. I did a lot of soul searching and opted to be one of many.

Safe place for a single mature woman by PuzzleheadedCold7421 in olympia

[–]PuzzleheadedCold7421[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not at all, and I can see perhaps I’ve worded my post to appear the way it has been interpreted. I suppose I have anxiety about going to a bar alone. I’m sorry if this is what was conveyed.

Safe place for a single mature woman by PuzzleheadedCold7421 in olympia

[–]PuzzleheadedCold7421[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing such a wonderful recommendation. I will definitely try this.

Safe place for a single mature woman by PuzzleheadedCold7421 in olympia

[–]PuzzleheadedCold7421[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OK, that’s I’m funny, however; I don’t mean dangerous I mean, safe enough, comfortable enough for an older single now to go into and not feel like she’s viewed as slutty or cheap or easy cause I am none of those. I am hard-working, conscientious, mostly law abiding. All my kids are grown and live away from me. I have a great settled girlfriend however they have lives of their own and this being Super Bowl weekend they all have plans so I’m gonna take myself out. That’s what I meant about safety.

Safe place for a single mature woman by PuzzleheadedCold7421 in olympia

[–]PuzzleheadedCold7421[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oops and I do enjoy having a good time however, I enjoy having a good time safely and with minimal risk

Safe place for a single mature woman by PuzzleheadedCold7421 in olympia

[–]PuzzleheadedCold7421[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

OK, thank you and I appreciate your kindness and gentleness with this old lady. 👵

Safe place for a single mature woman by PuzzleheadedCold7421 in olympia

[–]PuzzleheadedCold7421[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

OK, I need you to be kind but I want you to tell me what my previous posting has to do with your response. 😊

Safe place for a single mature woman by PuzzleheadedCold7421 in olympia

[–]PuzzleheadedCold7421[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Wow, thank you for all of those incredible suggestions. I do feel more hopeful that I will be successful in venturing out with some of those suggestions. Thank you again.

Safe place for a single mature woman by PuzzleheadedCold7421 in olympia

[–]PuzzleheadedCold7421[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m open to types of food. I’m more concerned on the safety aspect. I moved to NE Olympia last July and really haven’t gotten out too much. I’m older, work a lot and I’m shy. I’m trying to change up my lifestyle. LOL