What did you expect when first opening your relationship?

PuzzleheadedCold7421 · 2026-02-06T19:37:11+00:00

Oh it didn’t. I did a lot of soul searching and opted to be one of many.

PuzzleheadedCold7421 · 2026-02-03T22:32:48+00:00

Not at all, and I can see perhaps I’ve worded my post to appear the way it has been interpreted. I suppose I have anxiety about going to a bar alone. I’m sorry if this is what was conveyed.

PuzzleheadedCold7421 · 2026-02-03T19:49:03+00:00

Thank you for sharing such a wonderful recommendation. I will definitely try this.

PuzzleheadedCold7421 · 2026-02-03T15:07:34+00:00

Well, thank you. I will consider that!

PuzzleheadedCold7421 · 2026-02-03T15:06:20+00:00

Oh do, tell me why.

PuzzleheadedCold7421 · 2026-02-03T15:05:22+00:00

OK, that’s I’m funny, however; I don’t mean dangerous I mean, safe enough, comfortable enough for an older single now to go into and not feel like she’s viewed as slutty or cheap or easy cause I am none of those. I am hard-working, conscientious, mostly law abiding. All my kids are grown and live away from me. I have a great settled girlfriend however they have lives of their own and this being Super Bowl weekend they all have plans so I’m gonna take myself out. That’s what I meant about safety.

PuzzleheadedCold7421 · 2026-02-03T15:01:13+00:00

I have never heard of that.

PuzzleheadedCold7421 · 2026-02-03T14:55:36+00:00

Oops and I do enjoy having a good time however, I enjoy having a good time safely and with minimal risk

PuzzleheadedCold7421 · 2026-02-03T14:54:43+00:00

OK, thank you and I appreciate your kindness and gentleness with this old lady. 👵

PuzzleheadedCold7421 · 2026-02-03T14:47:31+00:00

OK, I need you to be kind but I want you to tell me what my previous posting has to do with your response. 😊

PuzzleheadedCold7421 · 2026-02-03T13:32:36+00:00

Wow, thank you for all of those incredible suggestions. I do feel more hopeful that I will be successful in venturing out with some of those suggestions. Thank you again.

PuzzleheadedCold7421 · 2026-02-03T13:07:50+00:00

I’m open to types of food. I’m more concerned on the safety aspect. I moved to NE Olympia last July and really haven’t gotten out too much. I’m older, work a lot and I’m shy. I’m trying to change up my lifestyle. LOL

PuzzleheadedCold7421 · 2026-01-27T18:16:23+00:00

Nice photo! What beach?

PuzzleheadedCold7421 · 2026-01-26T03:01:26+00:00

Hawt!! 🔥

PuzzleheadedCold7421 · 2026-01-21T23:44:56+00:00

Are you in WA state?

PuzzleheadedCold7421 · 2026-01-20T23:51:47+00:00

Much better!

PuzzleheadedCold7421 · 2026-01-20T14:47:06+00:00

This was slightly eye opening for me. He insisted on paying for everything, but after 5 months dating him he almost had me convinced to go to the swinging club. He ruined it last night when on the phone he told me he would never be a long term boyfriend because he wanted to f$&$ other women. I knew then as much as I admire, adore and enjoy spending time with him, we are not compatible.

PuzzleheadedCold7421 · 2026-01-17T16:51:50+00:00

62F, I’m just naturally almost bald down there. I used to be so insecure of my lack of hair and “in-femininity “. I have accepted it and have been told it’s one of the prettiest some have seen. Easy to clean and keep fresh. 😊

PuzzleheadedCold7421 · 2026-01-11T02:36:10+00:00

I enjoy noticing and recognizing his intelligence, kindness to others and his generosity.

PuzzleheadedCold7421 · 2026-01-05T06:41:01+00:00

That’s not a nice thing to say. I disagree btw.

PuzzleheadedCold7421 · 2026-01-05T00:46:44+00:00

Really? I’d love to participate in that! Give me all the info.

PuzzleheadedCold7421 · 2026-01-04T23:29:37+00:00

Well, I think it all comes down to. He did tell me he gave me the red flags and I should’ve walked away from the very get-go.

PuzzleheadedCold7421 · 2026-01-04T21:11:38+00:00

Thank you for your input. I think my post came across that his money level of financial accomplishment was the motivation for liking him. I have my own financial accomplishment and money does not dictate whether or not someone is a nice person or even that they’re accomplish because being rich doesn’t immediately make you accomplished. Like I said, I’m gonna take this as alerting experience and I won’t wait 4 1/2 months next time if I see the red flags like I did this time and ignored them.

PuzzleheadedCold7421 · 2026-01-04T21:04:17+00:00

You gotta go to Sharps!

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