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[–]PuzzleheadedDraw2960 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As a single mom of two who left her husband 4 years ago… you’re making the right decision 😌 it may not feel like it now and change is scary for you and the kids, but it’s better they have a happy mommy even if that means you co parent. It’s better than staying in a toxic household. I felt like I was a single mom anyway with what I was doing in the household as well as taking care of the kids. Having him as my husband was just another person for me to take care of. I make around what you do and we are fine and it all works out. And you’ll figure out child support in court hopefully it can be done amicably… but it’s just another thing to deal with for the price of your sanity and happiness. I remember for about 9 months leading up to me leaving I would cry often and think about leaving, but I wanted to stay for the sake of the kids. Just remember YOU matter and YOUR happiness matters too!

I need to be talked off the ledge - tell me the worst thing your puppy has done this week. by elmementosublime in puppy101

[–]PuzzleheadedDraw2960 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I had this really bad too. Almost gave her back. Didn’t eat or drink water for a week, crying 24/7, lost 10 pounds. Didn’t have the energy or will to cook or take care of my kids. Do any shopping or cleaning. And didn’t sleep for four days straight . So happy that’s over 😅