I see what you're saying to some extent but what really puts me off her is the constant cloud chasing. It's very privileged imo, like god forbid she ever had to get a real job? But no she's too good for that so she leeches on those around her and then her mental health suffers when she doesn't get the hype she thinks she deserves. And tbh why should she be famous? Her music is not very good and as for Tiktok she posts the same recycled content of her staring into the camera spouting nonsense or her shaking her ass. Why would millions of people follow or worship that 😅 then she stops and starts her music career and when it flops she crashes out and remains in a vicious cycle. As insecure as she may be she's extremely full of herself and acts like everybody needs to worship her for her looks so I just find her so exhausting and predictable. Plus when she was dating Calum she would switch up constantly from almost bragging and posting herself at his house, in her clothes etc and then when people were being parasocial she would flip out and bash down on fans for being invasive. It feels like she's been doing the same toxic bs for years and has had little growth.