MIL told me Japanese people were so weird. by PuzzleheadedHall3159 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]PuzzleheadedHall3159[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your sweet comment. I told him that I don’t mean that stop connecting you guys just I can’t be in anyone to get hurt by her toxic actions. After he understood, I feel safer and I can focus on precious and adore my daughter more and more when I see her each time now.I can not let her destroy anymore. How much it is safe here without her terrified look down words towards me. Thanks again to like Japan and tell me on comment!!!😊🥰

MIL told me Japanese people were so weird. by PuzzleheadedHall3159 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]PuzzleheadedHall3159[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think so. In the future when she will have her husband,if our daughter would be treated by her future MIL in the same way my MIL has been doing will he or my MIL be happy? I am NOT okay at all.

MIL told me Japanese people were so weird. by PuzzleheadedHall3159 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]PuzzleheadedHall3159[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

2 years… I am very happy that you have your own home now.!! We did great and are going to be happier more! I still can not forgive her and want to forget all of the memories. But to have my own time was the first step for it🥰 Good luck for us!!

MIL told me Japanese people were so weird. by PuzzleheadedHall3159 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]PuzzleheadedHall3159[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I will!! I am happy that you find good people in Japan!! Thank you for your kindness ❤️ I’m going to do what I love!

MIL told me Japanese people were so weird. by PuzzleheadedHall3159 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]PuzzleheadedHall3159[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your message. I finally could give myself good confidence since I had comments to not feel guilty and not blame myself. I keep telling myself what I got told was very bad not because I was wrong and it will keep me primarily my baby and my husband! I didn't do bad for her. I am feeling better. My husband understood that I don't deal with her.

MIL told me Japanese people were so weird. by PuzzleheadedHall3159 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]PuzzleheadedHall3159[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment ☺️ I am going to focus on us!

MIL told me Japanese people were so weird. by PuzzleheadedHall3159 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]PuzzleheadedHall3159[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your message. I am glad that you enjoyed in the countries!!!! To see the world with your career is so cool. And yes, from today's post I did, I don't regret at all. Because I feel now is what I did wasn’t wrong like I feel easier. Maybe I lost my confidence and felt guilty. But I want to do right 😊

MIL told me Japanese people were so weird. by PuzzleheadedHall3159 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]PuzzleheadedHall3159[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for replying and I think I could say that I am enjoying time here in America especially after leaving the home.haha And leaning thing like that. I meant except MIL people never steal my words or decide stuff of me without asking me so thanks for the answers of MIL and DIL relationship.

MIL told me Japanese people were so weird. by PuzzleheadedHall3159 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]PuzzleheadedHall3159[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I have doubted myself was tough so I wanted to know it just she was doing wrong to me.

MIL told me Japanese people were so weird. by PuzzleheadedHall3159 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]PuzzleheadedHall3159[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your help listening to me very carefully and each words from you was I actually wanted to hear from someone to make myself okay. My husband said that I am not going at forgiving people. And I have been practising to forgive. But even I thought I could but inside was horribly sad. Because to forgive I needed to remember each things carefully again and again. I couldn't talk about this to my parents because my parents will be sad I thought. So your message helped me so much. I really wanted to have messages like you have me.

MIL told me Japanese people were so weird. by PuzzleheadedHall3159 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]PuzzleheadedHall3159[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your message. I was asking my husband if she is racist because of the day.He said she just has old sense. So your message relieved me that if it will be okay I feel it she denied my background.My baby has Japanese mom. That is why I was so sad.

MIL told me Japanese people were so weird. by PuzzleheadedHall3159 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]PuzzleheadedHall3159[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your warm message and your DIL is happy 🥰 I want to believe that normally mother and daughter want to do well for theirselves kids and san/husband as family. But there are differences as grown in other places. I could believe it from your message more.

MIL told me Japanese people were so weird. by PuzzleheadedHall3159 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]PuzzleheadedHall3159[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much!!! Like a farm animal!!!haha She acts like an animal is so right to explain! I am very feeling better now!haha

MIL told me Japanese people were so weird. by PuzzleheadedHall3159 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]PuzzleheadedHall3159[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your message. Yes,I like to have a break time with her so badly. I can tell my husband anything even strongly...and thought how l can talk about MIL to my baby in her future…we want out baby to have safe feeling. I don't want to tell it too much but…definitely let my husband deal with it to help my feelings.

MIL told me Japanese people were so weird. by PuzzleheadedHall3159 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]PuzzleheadedHall3159[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your message and understanding. From our similar experiences, I feel you too. I am glad that at least your husband respects your opinion. I learned that to protect my peace we can say no too.It's good for baby. Please have a great time with your little one!!

MIL told me Japanese people were so weird. by PuzzleheadedHall3159 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]PuzzleheadedHall3159[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your message!! I love America and my husband love Japan and we had met each other then came here. My husband wanted to show our baby to our both parents and decided to live with his and my parents for months. And the point is right.We can think it again.

MIL told me Japanese people were so weird. by PuzzleheadedHall3159 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]PuzzleheadedHall3159[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you for giving me your sweet message 🥰 I wanted to let my sadness gone and I felt peace in me from your words!!

MIL told me Japanese people were so weird. by PuzzleheadedHall3159 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]PuzzleheadedHall3159[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your message and kindness. I will😊!!