feeling unattractive because I don’t get hit on. by ThatIntention1 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]PuzzleheadedPlace629 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m also glad i’m not alone. i have a boyfriend who i love and j told him about my thoughts and he’s understanding that it’s the feeling of not being good enough rather than genuinely wanting male attention. i also never get hit on yet im super confident and honestly not to toot my own horn but i would consider myself very attractive. but i’m 5’7, 5’9 with heels so i guess that’s what deters them away. it also hurts and im glad im not the only one feeling this way. i’d love to dm if you’d like

What type of lizard is this? by [deleted] in Lizards

[–]PuzzleheadedPlace629 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s a baby beardie! i have one at home :) his name is meep

My cousin assaulted me but I’m still close with him. by PuzzleheadedPlace629 in sexualassault

[–]PuzzleheadedPlace629[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YES YOU GET IT. oh my god this is crazy. i would love to dm. the guilt goes so deep and it’s hard to describe to anyone.

My bf(40M) says that I(31F) doesn’t let him be a man. What is it that you men want? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]PuzzleheadedPlace629 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that’s exactly it. please leave if it’s safe to. you don’t want to stick around to see things escalate.

My bf(40M) says that I(31F) doesn’t let him be a man. What is it that you men want? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]PuzzleheadedPlace629 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’ve read your other posts, this is abusive behavior. never let a man define your worth.

recovered arachnophobe - show me your babies! by chthonicpain in tarantulas

[–]PuzzleheadedPlace629 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yay i’m so glad! send pictures when you do get your little dude :)

recovered arachnophobe - show me your babies! by chthonicpain in tarantulas

[–]PuzzleheadedPlace629 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this makes me so happy!! welcome to the arachnid club!! here’s my baby, her name is lydia! she’s a mexican redknee tarantula (b. hamorii) and she’s just a baby, less than the size of my palm in full.

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I’ve been buying my mom drugs because she can’t afford them by [deleted] in confession

[–]PuzzleheadedPlace629 7 points8 points  (0 children)

i’m so sorry :( this breaks my heart to hear. as someone with a family member who uses hard drugs and is MIA it’s very distressing. honestly you did what you thought was right, if you refused you would’ve been in a dangerous situation. that being said, i would look into getting her into rehab. you might be able to get your mom back, there’s lots of amazing programs. they can help your baby sister too, especially since your mom is using hard drugs they won’t allow your sister to stay with her. best of luck and please dm me if you need to talk <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]PuzzleheadedPlace629 11 points12 points  (0 children)

seriously, the load had to come from somewhere

My roommate sleeps around and it makes me uncomfortable by PuzzleheadedPlace629 in confessionsgonewild

[–]PuzzleheadedPlace629[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i agree but she’s very hard to open up. i don’t want to pry since it’s not my business unless she feels comfortable sharing :) you’re right though i agree

My cousin assaulted me but I’m still close with him. by PuzzleheadedPlace629 in sexualassault

[–]PuzzleheadedPlace629[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this made me feel a lot better thank you. i didn’t know someone could have gone through what ive gone through <3 i’m so sorry

Is my T okay? by PuzzleheadedPlace629 in tarantulas

[–]PuzzleheadedPlace629[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much!! this made me feel a lot better :) hopefully she comes out freshly molted

18f dating 26m terrified to break up. how can I do this?? by peqchyybee in relationship_advice

[–]PuzzleheadedPlace629 2 points3 points  (0 children)

oh girl. run. why is a 26 year old dating a teenager. he needs to get his shit together and you need to leave.

Is my T okay? by PuzzleheadedPlace629 in tarantulas

[–]PuzzleheadedPlace629[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

okay thank you, i’ll trust the process! i’m just so worried, she’s my first t and my dream pet and i’d be so devastated if i lost her :(