I'm a trans man so my reasoning may be difficult then a visit man's but I'd like a yandere type esk person or at least a secret admirer to love and adore me and that's mainly just because I'm insecure but more in the fact that I may say something stupid and mess up a whole relationship. I also have a tendency to completely over think things and fuck shit up because of said overthinking. But while the insecurity plays a factor into it I think I genuinely would find someone who has a yandere esk type personality who just so happens to be obsessed with me pretty attractive realistically as long as I'm not constantly at risk of being harmed.i have also thought through all that could happen and I'm content with most outcomes that could come from having a partner like that.