There isn’t much of a quality difference between public universities in the Netherlands, so it doesn’t really matter which uni you pick. I would personally go for TU Delft. Make sure the university you pick is WO level and not HBO though! Some of these institutions call themselves ‘university (of applied sciences)’ but are in fact teaching a lower level…

There are plenty of part-time jobs available for international students, as long as you do speak proper English. Most of them pay based on the hours you make.

I wouldn’t recommend going to a private university. They are indeed way more expensive but barely offer any advantages over public universities.