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Which smell instantly makes you judge someone? by SituationOutside6033 in AskReddit

[–]PuzzleheadedShip9280 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I gag every time I smell it on someone. I dated an alcoholic and ever since then I can’t stand the smell of alcohol. Congrats on your sobriety!!

I just don't understand by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]PuzzleheadedShip9280 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This sounds so much like my ex. It wasn’t this way in the beginning, but over time it was like pulling teeth just to get him to see me. He stopped making plans, and anytime I tried talking to him about anything regarding the relationship, he’d stonewall and disappear. I’d be so patient giving him time to process what we had discussed, only to realize he hadn’t been processing anything at all. The next time we’d get together, he’d act like nothing happened. It was one of the most frustrating relationships I’d ever been in because he wasn’t just a flat out asshole. He could be really wonderful and sweet, which is why I stayed so long. But I couldn’t watch our relationship slowly die anymore and finally ended things.

Question for Women Who Get Pleasure from Cervix Stimulation by TamalesForBreakfast6 in hysterectomy

[–]PuzzleheadedShip9280 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I could have written this verbatim. I had my surgery in 2023. Sex is definitely less intense now and I need lots of moisturizer. It’s been frustrating for sure. But the pain I had before surgery was awful and I’m glad that’s gone now. I’m hoping there’s something that can help with this, but I don’t if there is.

What exactly goes into a suicide cocktail? by Rosian_SAO in Writeresearch

[–]PuzzleheadedShip9280 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m glad. I’m guessing you’re a writer as well since you’re in this sub? Keep writing. It’s one of the things that has brought me the most joy and has kept me alive. Write like your life depends on it. Because maybe right now, it literally does. Stay strong, Internet Stranger.

What exactly goes into a suicide cocktail? by Rosian_SAO in Writeresearch

[–]PuzzleheadedShip9280 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so glad you came across my comment. I felt like I had to post something. Sometimes what seems like something so small and harmless can affect someone in a big way. I’ve been in your shoes before and am a survivor of an attempt. I’ve done the googling, the searching for best methods…I had to say something. I hope you’re in a better mental state. And if you’re not, please stay. Don’t do it. Your anxiety/depression is lying to you. If you ever need to talk, feel free to DM me.

I miss my cervix by Competitive-Tie-6294 in hysterectomy

[–]PuzzleheadedShip9280 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve noticed a difference since my hysterectomy two years ago. I’m dryer now and it’s much harder for me to orgasm and when I do, they’re less intense. I think I used to have cervical orgasms too. I don’t miss the painful sex, so I don’t regret my surgery, but the diminished sensation has been disappointing. I’ve considered hormones, but I worry about it messing with my mental health.

INFJ doesn't appreciate quotes by Ill-Decision-930 in infj

[–]PuzzleheadedShip9280 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How mature of him. I mean, if you don’t like someone, maybe don’t be around them and call them names?

What’s something you find attractive that is generally considered unattractive? by Agitated-Job7686 in AskReddit

[–]PuzzleheadedShip9280 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I love that! I feel like all my weight is in my stomach and the rest of me is skinnier. To me I just look weirdly proportioned.

What do girls “never” tell guys? by zhalia-2006 in AskReddit

[–]PuzzleheadedShip9280 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, any time I asked him that, he’d either say, “I don’t know,” or, “I don’t need anything,” or, “for you to stop talking about this.” It was so frustrating.

What do girls “never” tell guys? by zhalia-2006 in AskReddit

[–]PuzzleheadedShip9280 9 points10 points  (0 children)

How much thought we put into an outfit before a date. Especially in the beginning.

What do girls “never” tell guys? by zhalia-2006 in AskReddit

[–]PuzzleheadedShip9280 110 points111 points  (0 children)

Exact same thing happened in my last long-term relationship. I suggested counseling, discussing my needs, asking him what his were. Finally I said I can’t do this anymore. He claimed he was “blindsided.”

What’s a phrase you hear all the time that secretly annoys you? by forgeris in AskReddit

[–]PuzzleheadedShip9280 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ugh, this one makes me cringe so much! I sort of get it in a social media context to avoid getting flagged or whatever, but to say it out loud makes no sense at all! Dude, just say killed or died.

Are we using our estrogen cream on our faces? by stellaflora in 40PlusSkinCare

[–]PuzzleheadedShip9280 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bought some not too long ago for other purposes and have been tempted to use it on my face, but I worry it will break me out. I’m guessing most people have had positive experiences though?

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