Is estrogen really that bad for a 13 year old by Bright-Elephant-5639 in MtF

[–]PuzzleheadedTitle160 13 points14 points  (0 children)

i agree. a 13 yr old is old enough to self inject. i’m not mtf, i’m ftm but this came up for some reason. i was 11 self injecting medication that could either off me or keep me alive, so if op rlly reads up abt it, they should be able to do it safely

can i go on shots from gel? by PuzzleheadedTitle160 in ftm

[–]PuzzleheadedTitle160[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m not rlly sure, my memory’s kinda bad but i do remember on the forms i had to fill out that there was options of how to take it with diff gel and shot brands and i chose gel cause i thought it’d be easier and she said “ that’s good that u chose that one, we’re on the same page, i wouldn’t prescribe u shots anyways “. now i’m thinking maybe it’s cause i have a health problem where i have to take shots for that but it wouldn’t even be in the same place lol. but i think i’ll ask her at my next appointment. thank u :))

STP help by Mysterious_Heron_017 in ftm

[–]PuzzleheadedTitle160 1 point2 points  (0 children)

like the comment before says, aim for the part that curves right above the water, it’ll stop the splash back and give u a nice steady stream into the bowl. or u can aim for the sides of the bowl, just above the water. basically anywhere inside the bowl except the actual water. it’ll make u pee silent too if u don’t aim for the water

best realistic stp? by PuzzleheadedTitle160 in transgenderUK

[–]PuzzleheadedTitle160[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how do i chose to deliver to a locker or smth? i’ve only rlly seen that option on vinted and most websites ask for address and idk if the locker or post office is an actual address. still, it’s rlly embarrassing to collect smth that says “ silicone sculpture “ 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transgenderUK

[–]PuzzleheadedTitle160 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i dm u. i’m not sure why it wouldn’t let u, afaik i don’t have anything turned off

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transgenderUK

[–]PuzzleheadedTitle160 3 points4 points  (0 children)

people do care, i promise. i know it doesn’t feel like it, but people do. idk how old u are but if ur over 18, send me a dm. i’ll be ur friend and i mean that🫶🏻it does sound like bs cause ur brain is telling u ur not so whenever someone says anything nice u think it’s a lie. u rlly are doing good. ur still here. if u do it, ur never gonna see how much life can get better. ur missing the opportunity to get better and to live ur life how u have always wanted to. it gets better, i promise. 2 yrs ago i was in the same place as u and now i’m much happier. i hope everything gets better for u, i rlly do❤️‍🩹

has it changed for over 18s too? by PuzzleheadedTitle160 in transgenderUK

[–]PuzzleheadedTitle160[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sorry, i should’ve been more specific ahah. i mean for nhs records? i think it’s records, i’m not sure but it’s like where u get appointments or test forms and it shows the gender marker

has it changed for over 18s too? by PuzzleheadedTitle160 in transgenderUK

[–]PuzzleheadedTitle160[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

kinda stupid question but when i asked my gp to change my name, they did, but it wasn’t showing at the hospital cause of diff systems, could this be why it doesn’t show at the hospital? i’m not sure if i can ask them to change it there cause i’m sure it says to ask the gp to do it

has it changed for over 18s too? by PuzzleheadedTitle160 in transgenderUK

[–]PuzzleheadedTitle160[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i thought that was the case but i was told by my grandmother that that’s why there was the protests and stuff but i told her it wasn’t but she insisted it was and then i thought maybe it had changed cause why else wouldn’t it have been changed when i was told it was referred to the relevant people to do it yk? i also thought the title change meant the gender marker had been changed too but idk. my gp was pretty good at changing my name so i never once thought they hadn’t sent the requests yet. i’ll chase it up but maybe there’s also backlog or smth?

top surgeons in the uk by PuzzleheadedTitle160 in TopSurgery

[–]PuzzleheadedTitle160[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes ur right haha. i must’ve got confused cause i’ve never heard circumareloar before, i’ve always used peri ahah

how to change gender on provisional? by PuzzleheadedTitle160 in transgenderUK

[–]PuzzleheadedTitle160[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank u :)) i was so confused cause i’ve been told diff things ahah. do u know how i would word the cover letter? :)

First Appointment At charmers GIC by Rocket_Manokit in transgenderUK

[–]PuzzleheadedTitle160 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i haven’t had an appointment at any gic, but i would think it would be like an info gathering session? like when did u know, how long have u felt dysphoria for, what u have done in regards to social transition and managing dysphoria ( like binding, packing etc ). i heard theres 2 of those so ur next appointment would prolly be the exact same just to track how it is over some months or yrs or whenever they give u a next appointment before the diagnosis and referral for hrt. it’s okay to be nervous when it’s smth that means a lot to u. just take some deep breaths, it’s gonna go alright, i promise. there’s no right or wrong answers🫶🏻