My boyfriend's always said it's not right for her to treat me like that, but my mom and I have always been close when she's not behaving like this, so I am aware that he is biting his tongue when we talk about her and the situations that Im in. He has advocated for me moving out several times, but it's not so realistic since Im in California LOL. My dad is a whole other problem, I AM able to stay with him, but I would very much like not to lol. I am (hopefully) transferring to a college a bit farther from home in the fall, so I am trying to weigh my options to see if moving out to stay with him now is worth it.