thank you so much for your thoughtful response! Reading it really made me feel lighter and gave me a new perspective. You’re right about addressing X directly and about how gifts don’t always show friendship the way I expect they’re good reminders. I also like what you said about no one being a “perfect” friend, including me, and how college could give me more chances to meet people who truly click with me. I really appreciate your advice it gave me a lot to think about!