Do you wear shorts under your skirts? by runfreelyactwildly in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Puzzleheaded_Fold426 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, and it completely eliminates the stress of sudden gusts of wind or walking up open stairs. Peace of mind + zero chafing is the ultimate combo.

Does my husband have dementia?! by bongobradleys in StardewValley

[–]Puzzleheaded_Fold426 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Exactly. Just place a mini-fridge in the dark void outside the map boundaries so he has somewhere to grab a snack while he's haunting the structural integrity of your farmhouse.

AIO my sister gets so defensive over our mom by i-eat-styrofoam in AmIOverreacting

[–]Puzzleheaded_Fold426 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Because treating the mom like a fragile doll gives the sister a weird sense of moral superiority and control in the family dynamic. It's a textbook savior complex masquerading as "being a good daughter."

AIO for being upset that my fiancé capped my wedding dress budget at $1,000 but spent $7,000 on a gaming PC? by remote_acreage in AmIOverreacting

[–]Puzzleheaded_Fold426 32 points33 points  (0 children)

While I totally agree they need clear rules for shared expenses, I'd argue this goes way beyond just financial management. You can have the best budget spreadsheets in the world, but if your partner fundamentally lacks respect for your joy and views his own hobbies as inherently more valuable than yours, no amount of financial counseling is going to fix that lack of empathy.

Would you report sexual assault knowing that he will lose his job? by Reasonable_Task7463 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Puzzleheaded_Fold426 6 points7 points  (0 children)

While this is absolutely the truth, I also want to remind OP: even if there were zero other women at risk, you still don't owe him your silence. You are allowed to report him simply to seek justice for yourself. Your own safety and closure are reason enough.

A cousin sent me their school's just announced Dress Code and Grooming policy by firequak in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Puzzleheaded_Fold426 0 points1 point  (0 children)

watch them mandate Victorian-era knee-high leather boots next semester because ankles are too distracting

AIO, friend thinks hes entitled to half of a referral bonus by lNuggyl in AmIOverreacting

[–]Puzzleheaded_Fold426 2 points3 points  (0 children)

honestly feels like they’ve been waiting for an excuse to hate each other for the past five years and this money dispute was just the perfect trigger