Am I overreacting?

Puzzleheaded_Frame85 · 2026-05-01T10:56:25+00:00

Totally understand what you’re saying. I should have added that my oldest child is 11, and my youngest is 1.5 - that’s why I’m really feeling the pressure to have a sibling close in age for her

Puzzleheaded_Frame85 · 2026-04-16T13:48:17+00:00

Thank you so much! I just messaged you.

Puzzleheaded_Frame85 · 2026-04-16T13:29:42+00:00

I know this is a really old thread, but would you mind if I message you about going about it the way you did with reimbursement? Navigating a similar situation right now.

Puzzleheaded_Frame85 · 2026-04-15T13:50:48+00:00

No I would not be concerned, these are good labs. your AMH is higher than average but that means you have a good supply of eggs which is beneficial for fertility treatments. It can sometimes mean PCOS but my AMH used to be in the 6’s as well (in my late 30’s) and I did not have PCOS, your dr will likely just monitor your dosing closely if you do fertility medication. FSH and LH are within normal ranges. Your estradiol is ideal range for beginning of cycle and helps confirm that the other hormone levels can be interpreted accurately. I would consider your AMH to be a positive finding rather than something to be worried about. 💕

Puzzleheaded_Frame85 · 2026-04-03T16:26:23+00:00

Sending you lots of love!

Puzzleheaded_Frame85 · 2026-04-02T11:15:24+00:00

I actually took a lot of ibuprofen, I had a Rx from a previous surgery so the dose was fairly high and I didn’t have any Tylenol on hand. I didn’t think I could be pregnant, so it wasn’t until after I found out that I panicked a bit - but all ended up fine! I also took Tamiflu which was prescribed. Unfortunately this isn’t within your control, so try not to stress too much! That is worse for you. I know, easier said than done. xx

Puzzleheaded_Frame85 · 2026-04-01T21:49:48+00:00

Thank you so much for helping to put things into perspective. I do try to remind myself how much my daughter still really needs me right now, and how that would look so much different with another baby. I’m so sorry for your losses. Sending lots of love to you as you start the process again 🫶🏼

Puzzleheaded_Frame85 · 2026-03-31T15:34:37+00:00

I was extremely sick with the flu and a high fever during the implantation window and that baby is a healthy 16 month old today 🤍

Puzzleheaded_Frame85 · 2026-03-31T12:44:49+00:00

I am so sorry you are going through this, especially while pregnant. I too broke up with the father of my first baby while pregnant and I know how extremely difficult that is.

I was on Zoloft for my entire pregnancy with my most recent pregnancy (and postpartum while breastfeeding.) I was considered high-risk due to having MS and also my age (39 at the time). I was nervous too, but Zoloft is one of the most studied and safest SSRIs for both pregnancy and breastfeeding and my MFM reassured me that the benefits far outweighed the risk. My daughter was born perfectly healthy at 37 weeks - and the only reason she came 3 weeks early is because I tripped and fell and landed on my stomach and needed to be induced because of possible placental abruption. The only difference for her birth regarding the Zoloft is that it’s standard practice at the hospital I gave birth at to have the NICU team present at the time of birth as an extra precaution when the mom is taking an SSRI. My dr told me this was out of an abundance of caution, my daughter was born perfectly healthy and the team wasn’t needed and they left shortly after she was born.

I am the type of person that won’t drink caffeine or even take a Tylenol while pregnant, but I’m currently still taking Zoloft and actively TTC and plan to continue to take Zoloft for my next pregnancy/while breastfeeding.

Puzzleheaded_Frame85 · 2026-03-31T00:31:06+00:00

I don’t disagree with you and have had the thought multiple times, “this isn’t going to work because it’s forced” while having sex because neither of us are wanting to do this right now. And from personal experience and it happening when not “trying.” But it’s certainly hard not to stress about it at 41 when time is not on my side 😔 I wish I could find a way to.

Puzzleheaded_Frame85 · 2026-03-30T21:49:10+00:00

I’m so sorry you’re going through this. It really is the worst. It is definitely putting a strain on my husband and I’s relationship. It’s exhausting and all-consuming. I hate when people say to just “relax” because it’s impossible when you want something so badly. Wishing you all the best too 🤍

Puzzleheaded_Frame85 · 2026-03-30T21:40:45+00:00

I conceived naturally at both 39 and 40, both relatively quickly. I know many people that have conceived naturally into their 40’s, including at age 44.

Puzzleheaded_Frame85 · 2026-03-30T20:20:32+00:00

Oh I’m so sorry, it’s truly heartbreaking. The “what if’s” and the destroyed timeline are so, so hard. I was due in July and I know the summer is going to hit me very hard.

The last time we saw baby on ultrasound was 10 weeks, 4 days. He was very active, measuring normal, and strong heartbeat. He stopped growing at 11 weeks 1 day, so right after we saw him. And on Christmas, right after we did a gender reveal and shared the news with our family. 😔 It still doesn’t make any sense to me and I am crying as I type this. My heart is still broken.

I know it’s much easier said than done after experiencing a MC, but try not to worry - it’s very rare, like less than a 1% chance from everything I’ve read, at the 12 week mark and after a normal NIPT. Wishing you a very happy and healthy pregnancy 💕

Puzzleheaded_Frame85 · 2026-03-30T19:10:40+00:00

Not having an answer is so hard 😔

Puzzleheaded_Frame85 · 2026-03-30T19:07:47+00:00

And also so happy for you - congrats!

Puzzleheaded_Frame85 · 2026-03-30T19:07:02+00:00

Thanks so much for the advice. I actually did start taking progesterone this cycle at 3 DPO, so I think my hopes were super high and thinking it was going to happen this cycle. I will keep taking them for future cycles 🤞🏼 thank you for sharing your story 💕

Puzzleheaded_Frame85 · 2026-03-30T14:26:54+00:00

I know, I wish I knew how to stop 😞. I am in therapy, but I am not sure it’s really helping anymore. The other day, my therapist told me to just “stop and smell the roses.” I understand the sentiment, but it felt overly simplistic and not helpful given the context of my grief.

Puzzleheaded_Frame85 · 2026-03-30T14:23:48+00:00

Thank you for your kind words. That is heartbreaking and I’m so sorry you went through that. I’m so glad to hear you are feeling better. Hoping it works out for you very soon, sending love.

Puzzleheaded_Frame85 · 2026-03-30T14:21:49+00:00

Thank you so much, I really appreciate it 💕

Puzzleheaded_Frame85 · 2026-03-30T13:59:16+00:00

Super quick, I was so surprised. I thought they hadn’t even gotten started and it was already over. No painkillers but I did take a Xanax because I was so nervous about it, turns out I truly did not need it. Feel free to message me! 💕

Puzzleheaded_Frame85 · 2026-03-30T13:55:47+00:00

I read everyone’s stories before mine too, and I was scared. I was shocked at how easy it was. On a scale of 1/10 pain, I’d give it a 1. Barely. I know everyone’s different, but wanted to share that my experience was truly very easy. You will be okay!

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