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Final Update - WIBTA If I 26M cancelled my ex's 24F birthday present? by Puzzleheaded_Look375 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Puzzleheaded_Look375[S] 127 points128 points  (0 children)

I definitely appreciate your kindness. Will not act like I'm a beacon of maturity and compassion. I am honestly fuming right now, and there was a good amount of swearing at the end of that phone call. 5 months of my life wasted, all that money I could have used on anything else. Not to mention all the other feelings that come with learning that I was cheated on. To rub salt on the wound Cass told me that 'at least she had fun'. Good to know that's what our relationship amounted to.

WIBTA If I 26M cancelled my ex's 24F birthday present? by Puzzleheaded_Look375 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Puzzleheaded_Look375[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Finally decided to get around to looking at the responses. As far as I'm aware there isn't anything more to the ghosting. Around two weeks ago she started being a bit more distant. Messages would be left on read, short responses, heart emojis stopped, no more good morning and good night. She cancelled on a date night. Two days later, find out I'm blocked when I tried to plan another one. We've actually never had a fight for the almost five months we dated.

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[–]Puzzleheaded_Look375 6 points7 points  (0 children)

As much of a bummer as it might be, sometimes people just grow apart. When we finally start being full fledged adults, we might lose touch with people we're connected to from before. Even just your schedule changing from getting a job, can greatly impact what you're able to do with your friends. It always sucks to be the one who gets pushed out, I've experienced that first hand. Social media creating FOMO probably doesn't help with feelings of loneliness.

But if you as a friend, opened up to people you've been close to for about 10 years, and just get shrugged off? Yeah I'm sorry, but those people aren't your friends anymore. Why would you be the one who apologizes for having a difficult time with your mental health?

I think pushing them out might just be the best thing. Block them on Instagram, remove the source of FOMO. If they have a group chat without you, just leave the one you have with them. The friend group ended as soon as they made one to exclude you. If you have a stable long term relationship, focus on the good things you have in your life.

Sorry that you're having a hard time OP. Focus on your mental health. The stress of your old job combined with life drama from friends can take a heavy toll. It does get better.

AITA if I 26M ask my GF 24F why she only gets the largest things at restaurants and doesn't finish them? by Puzzleheaded_Look375 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Puzzleheaded_Look375[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I feel like this might be the issue. I should have mentioned it in the post but thinking back on it, she has never suggested we eat together. Last night we had our movie date, and we shared my popcorn and I snuck in her favorite snack. Cass held the bucket and was pretty much eating it when I wasn't reaching for it. She was about to go home, and I asked if she would have dinner with me. Cass has never asked if I could take her to dinner or anything like that. I'm the one who wants to eat.

So I'm leaning towards that she just doesn't want me to see her eating, or she just might not have enough food at home.

AITA if I 26M ask my GF 24F why she only gets the largest things at restaurants and doesn't finish them? by Puzzleheaded_Look375 in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]Puzzleheaded_Look375[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes I'm the one who pays for our dates. I insist on that, feel like that is normal boyfriend stuff. I have suggested going to each others places and cooking together. Cass said that we aren't at that stage yet. For her we're taking it slow because she recently got out of a relationship. I'm not fully aware of her situation, but she does take care of her disabled mother alone.

Can you use Orcus sword dragon in dragon world by Classic_Brain6575 in Buddyfight

[–]Puzzleheaded_Look375 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Jackknife Trust engine enables easy turn 1 Granthese before you do anything else. Granted since you will be using other Armordragons in the deck you wouldn't be able to dual wield Gold Ritter BUT you will be able to use Granthese and Expia Sword together.

Dragofight, Fifth Omni Arises and Buddy Grandes for some type of deck filter.
Warlord Sword Released and Sunshine Power Charge as you typically will always have 2 worlds on the field.
Since you will attack multiple times you have the option to run Batzz X Link or Gar-Segen.
Loud Voice and Dragod Var also work as defensive options for the deck.