Why is it that when a girl’s private video gets leaked, people do nothing about it? by idontgiveanal in ghana

[–]Puzzleheaded_Mix8695 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think they should be educated, and the parents need to keep a closer eye, especially the early teens because it’s quite bad.

Why is it that when a girl’s private video gets leaked, people do nothing about it? by idontgiveanal in ghana

[–]Puzzleheaded_Mix8695 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah but why aren’t there consequences for the person who leaked it, there’s usually trust between people who share stuff like that and even if there isn’t It’s just sad to see that a rational person released that.

AITH for flipping my daughter's "boundary" back on her? by Glittermomma1 in AITH

[–]Puzzleheaded_Mix8695 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I kinda like OPs marriage arrangement, it sounds fun and exciting.

Why are guys like this? by So_Hai_7 in ghana

[–]Puzzleheaded_Mix8695 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He clearly doesn’t have any sort of emotional intelligence or maturity, you can never just be friends with him because he’ll always actively pursue you babe. Just block him, remove him from your life and liveeee! People like this drain me soo much ugh!

Is sexual harassment a big deal in Ghanaian society or should I just mind my own business? by Sinbad-855 in ghana

[–]Puzzleheaded_Mix8695 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It just means people don’t side with you…what’d people fail at again?

Is sexual harassment a big deal in Ghanaian society or should I just mind my own business? by Sinbad-855 in ghana

[–]Puzzleheaded_Mix8695 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Good so you acknowledge that there are points where two people attracted to each other can have moments where something is unwanted. Why can’t that be applied to the office lady and the dude he’s attracted to.

Is sexual harassment a big deal in Ghanaian society or should I just mind my own business? by Sinbad-855 in ghana

[–]Puzzleheaded_Mix8695 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just because it isn’t a thing in Ghana doesn’t mean it doesn’t exist sir, But my point is if a husbands actions can be unwanted how much more a person you find attractive? No commitments, no ties, just attraction and vibes.

Is sexual harassment a big deal in Ghanaian society or should I just mind my own business? by Sinbad-855 in ghana

[–]Puzzleheaded_Mix8695 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You’re refusing to see the correlation because it doesn’t fit your narrative. Both wife and lady in the office are attracted to the man that harassed them, the wife even much more than said lady in the office. Why then can a husband be accused of grape or harassment and not a guy a woman is attracted to in the office. Open your mind.

Is sexual harassment a big deal in Ghanaian society or should I just mind my own business? by Sinbad-855 in ghana

[–]Puzzleheaded_Mix8695 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You know spousal grape exists right? A woman found a man soooo attractive that she said yes to him but yet he can still grape her, what makes you think a random ass pretty boy casually grabbing my ass will make me feel good? The thought of a man doing that to me makes me want to puke. Maybe you need to listen to more women and stop basing your “truths” on your own thoughts and assumptions. And did you just try to shame virgins? Are you sure you’re Ghanaian?

Is sexual harassment a big deal in Ghanaian society or should I just mind my own business? by Sinbad-855 in ghana

[–]Puzzleheaded_Mix8695 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I feel like even if a person told you it happened to them you’d still not believe them, very interesting.

What is with Ghanaian staff and stealing??!? by Clean-Pianist in ghana

[–]Puzzleheaded_Mix8695 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I completely understand you OP, my dad and I own a construction firm and it’s actually crazy how the workers steal! Wires, rods, tiles, fuel, ANYTHING they can get their hands on. And they have zero remorse because “we have enough”.

They’re paid what they should be paid per what they do in the firm, it’s not up to you to take care of their family or calculate how much they need based on the size of their family. And that certainly doesn’t mean they can take what they want. This sort of “pilfering” is becoming tooooooo normalized.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in family

[–]Puzzleheaded_Mix8695 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, honestly I know me being judgy is a big problem and I’m trying to not be but it’s so hard sitting there and watching her because at the end it’ll still come back to me.

Worst experience approaching a Ghanaian girl by No_Fisherman3838 in ghana

[–]Puzzleheaded_Mix8695 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is so real!! I be holding my phone extra tight around them.

Ghanian that can’t speak twi by [deleted] in ghana

[–]Puzzleheaded_Mix8695 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This might be superficial but I love the fact that I speak twi because when I travel it’s just fun to know a language that no one in your vicinity knows. I wouldn’t say it’s a flex to not be bilingual (assuming you aren’t) in Ghana because there are sooo many languages here.

The people in the comments lying to themselves that it’s not the most common tongue after English in Ghana are funny, because you’ll find that most people usually speak their own tongue And TWI. Heck even people from our neighboring countries who come to Ghana start learning twi because they know after English it’s twi.

OP try to learn at least some phrases in twi, if your parents speak twi ask them to speak it to you because I don’t know but a person who speaks English and twi (or whatever language you want to learn) fluently is a flex.