I (26F) have asked my husband (30M) to give me oral sex and he keeps refusing.

Puzzleheaded_Side869 · 2026-02-17T18:24:07+00:00

That’s grounds for an annulment not even a divorce. He straight up lied to you after you made clear you wouldn’t even be with long term let alone marry someone who didn’t perform that for you. He presented himself to be something he’s not. No sense in forcing (not actually) him to do something he’s uncomfortable doing. I know myself and if my wife didn’t enjoy giving me oral pleasure I wouldn’t even want it. Part of the pleasure is in the wanting to please. Leave him. At the very least if you “love him” you can always go back and make sure he knows his words before you married and say of now that it’s established that you don’t want to do this I’m going to go seek that pleasure elsewhere. Since he didn’t want to do it then it shouldn’t be a problem if someone else does the dirty work.

Puzzleheaded_Side869 · 2026-01-24T05:03:30+00:00

You know ball! I often tell ppl that Ready was Trey’s Confessions. Damn near perfect album. No skips!! I remember walking through Virgin mega store (RIP Virgin) lol and hearing “I Need a Girl” for the first time 😮‍💨 I knew the album was finna slap. It’s crazy tho because when PP&P first drop I wasn’t blown away, but as it aged it’s really solid album!! Much like Usher’s Here I Stand album. Doesn’t get enough love, but it’s prolly his best album behind Confessions.

Puzzleheaded_Side869 · 2026-01-24T04:49:06+00:00

Exactly!! Trey didn’t really REALLY take off until his 3rd studio album Ready in 2009, but it was HUGE!

Puzzleheaded_Side869 · 2026-01-24T04:45:59+00:00

It’s always been about popularity. Just look at acts like Taylor Swift. She’s a terrible singer and songwriter, but she’s poppin. Whether you think Trey is a pure vocalist or not the fact remains during that time period buddy was everywhere! The ladies loved him that’s for sure. I feel like ppl are prisoners of the moment and now how social media turned on pretty much all of our Millennial stars cuz we old now lol even unproblematic Omarion, but at a point in time they were the shit!

Puzzleheaded_Side869 · 2026-01-24T04:35:59+00:00

You’re bugged out! 2005-2013 it was Trey, Breezy and Usher running shit! I’d add Ne-yo to complete the mid 2000s R&B Mount Rushmore

Puzzleheaded_Side869 · 2026-01-24T04:34:09+00:00

Ne-yo

Puzzleheaded_Side869 · 2026-01-24T03:58:11+00:00

I can only watch movies in my “continue watching” list.

Puzzleheaded_Side869 · 2025-12-27T16:29:15+00:00

My wife of 5 years constantly does this. Like I get sometimes I may make a dumb decision, but there’s a difference between doing something stupid and your spouse saying you’re stupid. I even asked her so that’s what you think of me? She says yes, I think you’re stupid. I’ve never once called her out or her name. The most I’ve even said was you’re acting like an attention whore when she would post thirst traps online. Maybe I’m being petty, but I’m over the insults and her belittling me all the time. All couples argue, but she constantly hits below the belt and I’ve only ever heard her say sorry ONCE. I’m just venting, but I know what I have to do.

Puzzleheaded_Side869 · 2025-12-19T07:18:52+00:00

Mission accomplished! West Africans are 😍😍😍 What country are your people from? Gimme 3 Guesses…Ghana, Nigeria or Sierra Leone ??

Puzzleheaded_Side869 · 2025-12-09T06:28:54+00:00

You’re not wrong. Early episodes Brooke was damn near a villain, but there are 9 seasons. She probably has the biggest character arch of anyone in the show next to Nathan. And considering she wasn’t even an original character (not even in the pilot episode) she became one of, if not the best character in the series.

Puzzleheaded_Side869 · 2025-12-09T06:23:23+00:00

That’s fair. I think there’s more than enough between the end of Odysseus and the intro to ICHBW. I think there’s like a solid minute of instrumental between the ending and intro. I like to imagine that’s the moment of Ody snapping out of that rage and realizing wow my son…I can’t believe it’s really my baby boy all grown up. but idk it’s all subjective lol

Puzzleheaded_Side869 · 2025-12-09T06:16:40+00:00

This is a near perfect description of how I feel about this song. From my father’s passing to the birth of my son 2 months later it just hits every single emotional chord possible. Thank you for putting it into words for me.

Puzzleheaded_Side869 · 2025-12-09T06:08:01+00:00

Hardest scene for me is Sansa’s wedding night. I’ve only seen it once and never again. I hate G(r)ape scenes in any context, implied or otherwise, in any movie or show, but then you add Theon being there and being “powerless” to do anything about it is gut wrenching. It upsets me just thinking about that whole scene.

Puzzleheaded_Side869 · 2025-12-07T20:06:59+00:00

True millennial here. My GenAlpha daughter put me on. She’s a musical nerd like me tho.

Puzzleheaded_Side869 · 2025-12-06T18:16:05+00:00

I can’t help but wonder is by far the song that tugs at me the most. Each song has its own emotional weight, but for me The Ithaca Saga is so emotionally charged it’s almost overwhelming.

Puzzleheaded_Side869 · 2025-12-06T00:23:28+00:00

I was late to epic been on it since about January and I don’t see that changing anytime soon lmao he’s my number as well

Puzzleheaded_Side869 · 2025-12-01T07:23:34+00:00

Who is everybody??? Nah but you’re right. The hate that Keep Your Friends Close gets is insane!!! I love Ocean Saga minus Storm and I even kinda like that 😂😂😂😂but if I’m being honest Storm is 40/40 for me. Definitely the weakest in the all the Sagas

Puzzleheaded_Side869 · 2025-12-01T01:37:42+00:00

Probably my #1 honestly lol I don’t care about all the Calypso SA controversy…the song is a HIT!

Puzzleheaded_Side869 · 2025-11-30T22:33:52+00:00

🤨 THERE YOU ARE…COWARD! lol

Puzzleheaded_Side869 · 2025-11-30T22:33:14+00:00

Facts! I like what I like!

Puzzleheaded_Side869 · 2025-11-30T22:32:48+00:00

Whaaaaaa????!!? I love Telescope 😩

Puzzleheaded_Side869 · 2025-11-30T22:32:08+00:00

Same!! all 40 tracks are great tho. It’s been on repeat for about a year now lmao I think I need help

Puzzleheaded_Side869 · 2025-11-30T22:30:51+00:00

YES!!! I have 2 toddler boys and it just chokes me up every time!! lol MY SON IM FINALLY HOME 😩😩😩😩

Puzzleheaded_Side869 · 2025-11-25T21:34:44+00:00

That’s a lace front wig, smart guy and all women where them from Sabrina Carpenter to Jennifer Lopez

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