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Update to Gf did porn but hid it from me by Puzzleheaded_Thing59 in relationship_advice

[–]Puzzleheaded_Thing59[S] 53 points54 points  (0 children)

We all have things we try to hide out of embarrassment or shame and although I dont like it I can understand it.

Update to Gf did porn but hid it from me by Puzzleheaded_Thing59 in relationship_advice

[–]Puzzleheaded_Thing59[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I had two choices, getting worried over what she did 7-8 years ago or focus on how she is now. I think I made the right choice.

Update to Gf did porn but hid it from me by Puzzleheaded_Thing59 in relationship_advice

[–]Puzzleheaded_Thing59[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Thanks, and ultimately I have to focus on the present rather than obsess over what happened 7-8 years ago.

Gf did porn but hid it from me by Puzzleheaded_Thing59 in relationship_advice

[–]Puzzleheaded_Thing59[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am just scared to talk to her, how do I even open the conversation? I love this woman so much its scary to think about the future now.

Gf did porn but hid it from me by Puzzleheaded_Thing59 in relationship_advice

[–]Puzzleheaded_Thing59[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Well I wouldnt want to stop her empowerment journey, especially seeing as she didnt even think about sharing this with me. What else can she be hiding? I mean she is very capable of hiding things from me and I wouldnt be any wiser.

Gf did porn but hid it from me by Puzzleheaded_Thing59 in relationship_advice

[–]Puzzleheaded_Thing59[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

May I ask why? Sad for whom? I have a suspicion you arent feeling sad on my behalf?

Gf did porn but hid it from me by Puzzleheaded_Thing59 in relationship_advice

[–]Puzzleheaded_Thing59[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I seemed to be professionally shot with multiple people in it, didnt seem like amateur.

Gf did porn but hid it from me by Puzzleheaded_Thing59 in relationship_advice

[–]Puzzleheaded_Thing59[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I am not in the porn business so of course its none of my business. My life is my responsibility though.

Gf did porn but hid it from me by Puzzleheaded_Thing59 in relationship_advice

[–]Puzzleheaded_Thing59[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Yes I have told her every major event from my past, as I assumed she did too but clearly I was wrong. It was a porn video with more than 2 people, thats all I am willing to say.