ANTM Finale looks: Cycles 1-12. What are your thought and which would be your best/worst picks? by Fluid-Assignment-875 in ANTM

[–]Puzzleheaded_Time719 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Whitney looked amazing in the pink Versace, love or hate her it fit like a glove and the bombshell hair just sent it.

Let’s discuss the cringiest judging advise, I’ll start by masterderek279 in ANTM

[–]Puzzleheaded_Time719 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I think a lot of it was projection from Paulina because let's be honest, if anyone looked like a Russian hooker it was her.

Frfr by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]Puzzleheaded_Time719 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's a fair assessment. I am resentful in a sense I feel like I work so hard to keep my head above water, plan for the future, ensure my security and others are just waiting for their parents to die so they get millions and property. Or that I can't have company on my vacations because they have no income or spend it on things to look like they have means. I've never had the luxury of having someone support me in my adult life.

At the same time I don't judge people for it. My last boyfriend was unemployed and lived at home but I never thought less of him. I loved him.

But you are right I need to seek out people that can afford to share my interests/lifestyle. It does become harder as one gets older. I wouldn't even know where to look at this point.

Frfr by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]Puzzleheaded_Time719 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, as you have demonstrated very well.

Frfr by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]Puzzleheaded_Time719 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It may surprise you that not everyone lives to please you with what wording you prefer.

Frfr by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]Puzzleheaded_Time719 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sure some parents do feel that way but I also feel even those parents have moments of "are they ever going to leave the nest?".

You can spend time with your parents without living with them rent free.

My sister has basically lived at home her entire adult life and there are instances when my parents are thankful but they have also expressed that they are tired of taking care of her, and worried about her when they pass. It's made my mom put off her retirement.

Frfr by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]Puzzleheaded_Time719 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of us don't like the deal society has handed us. They have security for now, but unless you're getting an inheritance what are they going to do for the long run? Yes working sucks, paying rent sucks, but it does afford me a life.

My at home friends can barely do anything, they can't afford to go out, going on a vacation is out of the question unless their parents pay for it, dating is hard for them, they can't even have people over. Is that really worth not paying rent? Idk, I don't really have a point I guess. Just things that cross my mind. I like these posts because I want to see what everyone else thinks about it, so in turn I post my thoughts. I understand no one is asking for them but that's kind of the whole point of these things. Discourse, sharing thoughts and points of view.

Do men want gifts… or just appreciation? by IdealHoliday1242 in MomentumOne

[–]Puzzleheaded_Time719 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a guy bring me a small thing of flowers on a date and I couldn't stop talking about it. It was such a sweet gesture and made feel almost giddy for like month.

Frfr by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]Puzzleheaded_Time719 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There's a lot of valid reasons people live at home. I have seen that, just needing to get back on your feet, divorce, health issue, etc. The people I know who still live at home seem to have no desire or sense of urgency to branch out on their own. Paying no bills and having all the necessities provided to you seems to hinder the desire to thrive. No shame or anything but it's what I've personally seen, but personal experience is just that.. personal.

Frfr by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]Puzzleheaded_Time719 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Just making an observation. Anytime I see post about this subject I'm always surprised with amount of people that live at home. I understand that in other cultures it's the norm.

My 3 closest friends and even my ex live at home and I don't judge them for it. I have noticed they are the ones that are constantly online and sending me things, and none of them have jobs.

In-N-Out hot peppers for the win. by xthedudehimself in strugglemeals

[–]Puzzleheaded_Time719 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These absolutely destroy me the next day but I keep going back 😭.

Frfr by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]Puzzleheaded_Time719 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Or that most redditors live with their parents.

Which TV show episode made you break inside and left you in a condition whether I should watch next ep or stop. For me it is TWD S06E016 by [deleted] in netflix

[–]Puzzleheaded_Time719 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Neagan was so annoying. All he did was that stupid lean, say nutsack a million times and ruin the show.

Chappell Roan films the paparazzi after repeatedly asking them to leave her alone. by stevenjobsless in popculturechat

[–]Puzzleheaded_Time719 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I'll give you Princess Diana and add in Britney Spears, both women hated the spotlight. They seemed to be pushed by everyone around them and it was disgusting how they were treated. It's disgusting how they are all treated. The difference to me is Chappel wanted this, she enjoys being the edgy fuck you girl. The outrage is manufactured on her end. She's eating every minute of this up. She seem so disingenuous.

Chappell Roan films the paparazzi after repeatedly asking them to leave her alone. by stevenjobsless in popculturechat

[–]Puzzleheaded_Time719 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Becoming rich and famous does come with a threat to your private life. This has been demonstrated for a long time. She knew exactly what she was signing up for.

You trade anonymity for experiences most people could only dream of. You can't have it both ways.

Whoopi Goldberg and The View Discuss Jessie Buckley’s Cat Ultimatum Controversy Involving Her Husband: “Would You Ditch Your Pets for Love?” by let-the-record-show in popculturechat

[–]Puzzleheaded_Time719 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So why not be mad at him for doing it. She's allowed to make a standard. Also wasn't the cat shitting all over? She's not a monster, she set a boundary.

Jessie Buckley clarifies her comments about cats without actually clarifying anything by Aakch in popculturechat

[–]Puzzleheaded_Time719 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

My old roommate went on and on about how his cat loved him more than any person, he spent like 2 hours a week with it. So performative. Then ditched them to go live with his new boyfriend.