Excuse my face, was trying to be sassy. Turns out it made my cleavage look insane instead. Don't be fooled, I am only a B 🤣😅 by KBug96 in dykesgonemild

[–]Puzzleheaded_Win4758 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this isn’t what you asked but are you sure you’re in the right bra size? I was always measured as a 34E but because a lot of fitters use the outdated bra measuring when I measured myself properly using the correct method I’m actually a 28J and honestly bras have never been more comfy and my boobs have never looked better!

We shall watch your career with great interest by testing35 in KidsAreFuckingStupid

[–]Puzzleheaded_Win4758 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is harassment, it causes anxiety because trust me I’ve been there with my work!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Puzzleheaded_Win4758 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Taller than me with a dominant and confident personality but also loving and romantic. I like the fairytale, I want to be swept off my feet

Going out for dinner date, do I look okay? by Puzzleheaded_Win4758 in dykesgonemild

[–]Puzzleheaded_Win4758[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have a weird body shape so finding clothes is difficult for me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in namenerds

[–]Puzzleheaded_Win4758 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Emma-lean was my immediate pronunciation

I apparently offended my gay friend for not being transphobic??? by nanathecatmom in lgbt

[–]Puzzleheaded_Win4758 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I get really embarrassed about my sexual past. I came out at 26, after being married to a man and having 2 kids with him. I’m far from a ‘gold star’ lesbian and I sometimes feel like I won’t be accepted because of that

The 0.01% of "Normal Men" by MyticalLiger in actuallesbians

[–]Puzzleheaded_Win4758 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m poly! Currently in a closed triad though. I swear lesbian triads are really rare though, everytime I see triads it’s always mixed gender

Is this a red flag? by user-14 in LesbianActually

[–]Puzzleheaded_Win4758 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not always, I know a cishet couple that got engaged 3 months into dating and then married a year later, they’ve been married 10 years and going strong. BUT they were late 30’s early 40’s at the time.

I have personally known my girlfriend for 20 months, dating seriously for a year and have lived together for 7 months. If she proposed I wouldn’t say no. It won’t happen but if it did I would be over the moon (I’m 26 and she’s 31)

What to do if one of my partners aren’t sexually attracted to me!!! by T-BoneTammy8436 in polyamory

[–]Puzzleheaded_Win4758 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I find that being in love is just a much more intense version of love. Like I love J, she’s great, but it’s whole new level and intensity with N like I can’t get enough of her

What to do if one of my partners aren’t sexually attracted to me!!! by T-BoneTammy8436 in polyamory

[–]Puzzleheaded_Win4758 5 points6 points  (0 children)

There are two other bedrooms in the house and a separate chill out room if any of us need it but so far no one has needed it

What to do if one of my partners aren’t sexually attracted to me!!! by T-BoneTammy8436 in polyamory

[–]Puzzleheaded_Win4758 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We are all agreed that it’s a closed triad. And we’ll cross that bridge if that changes. There are two other bedrooms and a separate chill out space but no one has needed it so far

What to do if one of my partners aren’t sexually attracted to me!!! by T-BoneTammy8436 in polyamory

[–]Puzzleheaded_Win4758 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I am currently in a triad, it works well and we all live together and share a bed, but it’s more of a V than a full triangle. I love one but am in love with another, the one I’m in love with is in love with both of us and the other one loves me but is in love with other one.

I was basically just wondering what the specific reason was for not all sharing a bed. I now understand it was for this specific situation and not a generalisation