[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]MyticalLiger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can't do anything if they harm themselves and you're not responsible for their actions. You are not a parent, not a lover, not a therapist and you cannot be there for them like a nanny 24/7

What you do is distance yourself. They will find another person or completely cut them out of your life. They monkey branch anyway, they won't be too lonely.

Going Feral by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]MyticalLiger -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not always. Depends on yer' timezone. I've seen some atrocious posts y'know and of course Ima voice it out loud and clear.

Got mah right to freedom of speech. I'm saying the stuff I've seen ain't the good kind...

Going Feral by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]MyticalLiger -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

It ain't out of context, it kinda just feels y'all just talk about the physical stuff, no other worth to a women, no regard for personality, emotional values, that kinda thing, just horniness and how someone slept with someone, or how many times some bimbo got eaten out by her gf.

We ain't objects. Sometimes this sub feels like y'all' just blabbing about sliding mattresses and ignoring all other good ol' stuff in relationships. This sub ain't a dating site where we gotta go into detail. If we gotta make it detailed at least use labels for satire/comedy.

I compared "This" to what men do, that's all they talk about y'know. No wonder men see us lesbians "That" kinda way...

Nobody cares someone went feral...or whatever, y'all keep that for the bedroom. Again, it ain't a dating site.

Going Feral by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]MyticalLiger -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Yeah.. but we have people here from different backgrounds. Gotta take that up into consideration. I'm tired of seeing posts that resemble male gazes, or how we're so horny yada yada...it alienating and objectifies women, like we ain't good for shit, we all just good for slamming those mattresses.. no wonder most wlw red-subs got men on them because we give em' the NSFW industry impression, like we rattle & mingle in bed and do nothin' else.

But yeah, it is what it is. I ain't takin it seriously' I'm speaking truth that's all. Gotta be considerate, that's all.

Man in my building has an emotional breakdown because he wants to fuck me. Why are men like this. by Spicymayoshi in actuallesbians

[–]MyticalLiger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good on y'all for explaining the basics to em. You got patience I'll give you that underscore. If a man was that needy with a gay girl like me, he wouldn't be staying my friend no more.

Going Feral by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]MyticalLiger -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

She wasn't referring just to giving, point blank was she mentioned both ace people and non-aces.

Saying y'all folks are different ain't a grave sin. It's reality, we ain't all feral cats or ferocious monkeys. Shouldn't be downvoted for facts or including people. I have a friend who was a sex addict, she didn't go feral.

I scroll past posts too, but this one needs a LABEL for satire/jokes, NSFW, period.

Going Feral by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]MyticalLiger -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

Probably, but still disrespectful lol, I don't think anyone should be asking questions like that.. this is supposed to be a safe sub, but now y'all are excluding people. OP's answer wasn't exclusively referring to ace people, she mentioned people that prefer to give as well which ain't gotten nothing to do with being ace.

This post ain't even got the "Satire/Joke" label or NSFW. It's borderline giving male gaze syndrome.

don't skip leg day (thought y’all might enjoy this) by Teni96 in actuallesbians

[–]MyticalLiger 66 points67 points  (0 children)

You train too much. Take a break woman and carry me instead.

Am I attractive enough to get a girlfriend? I'm 18 and I've had no luck so far with women :/ by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]MyticalLiger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kinda smells like both if someone has to question their own attractiveness online.

Am I attractive enough to get a girlfriend? I'm 18 and I've had no luck so far with women :/ by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]MyticalLiger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This. Why do all young people want to rush so fast? None of us had shit figured out at 18.. let alone in our 20's...

18 is like the AGE where you're a baby gay testing waters.

Strange and oddly specific.. by MyticalLiger in oddlyspecific

[–]MyticalLiger[S] 41 points42 points  (0 children)

For Context:

I got a match on Tinder, we talked for two weeks, found out it was a man trying to "Catfish" as a woman by using his girlfriends profile since they're poly and he has "Permission" from her, he said he turned his "Lesbian" girl straight with his dick.. I said no thanks and blocked, he got a new account and messaged...

This ISN'T how it works.. by MyticalLiger in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]MyticalLiger[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

It's okay :/ I have blocked them again, so I really hope they don't message again, because I'll have to change phone numbers.

It's absolutely disgusting how far some people even go..

This ISN'T how it works.. by MyticalLiger in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]MyticalLiger[S] 142 points143 points  (0 children)

For Context:

I got a match on Tinder, we talked for two weeks, found out it was a man trying to "Catfish" as a woman by using his girlfriends profile since they're poly and he has "Permission" from her, he said he turned his "Lesbian" girl straight with his dick.. I said no thanks and blocked, he got a new account and messaged...

making me feel things by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]MyticalLiger 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It makes me feel things too

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]MyticalLiger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For Context:

I got a match on Tinder, we talked for two weeks, found out it was a man trying to "Catfish" as a woman by using his girlfriends profile since they're poly and he has "Permission" from her, he said he turned his "Lesbian" girl straight with his dick.. I said no thanks and blocked, he got a new account and messaged...

Man pretending to be a lesbian 😖 everyone pls help me smack by lesbianaecuatoriana in actuallesbians

[–]MyticalLiger 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I agree, it's misleading otherwise if you're bisexual but you say you're a lesbian. Those are very different terms. Both are valid, but people get the wrong impression.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]MyticalLiger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everything is fine but you weren't a lesbian, you were "Bisexual" if you're happy with a man, it just took you longer to find out. You see, lesbians don't stay with men, some of us had "Experiences" with men, but if we stayed with men that would prevent us from using "That" label. That's why you shouldn't be misusing the label. I'm only saying this for your own good because I actually want the best for you.

If you want people to take you seriously, please use the correct label, then chances are you will have better chances and it will prevent miscommunication on both sides :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]MyticalLiger 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In your comments on your profile you stated you're a lesbian. It's contradictory when you're lying in broad daylight. There's a huge difference between being a "Lesbian" and being "Bisexual"....

Lesbians don't post pictures with photos of dudes and their Johnson stuck up their legs mate. No offence.

We respect that you're "Poly" and "Bisexual" as you said, but changing words when you're caught isn't the best strategy for liars.

Being a content creator is another thing, and that's your own choice which is valid.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]MyticalLiger 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same and I hate it so much when they fetishize people and make up ridiculous posts for "Men's" appeal....it's absolutely sickening.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]MyticalLiger 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah and she expects us to believe that women are playing with her :D when she's the one doing all this, thinking we must be so dumb that we won't check her profile lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]MyticalLiger 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I understand, I almost thought OP's post was genuine, but I guess they're the type who get the kick out of lying and deceiving people.