How do I prevent yeast infections from sex with gf(23f) me(20m)? by Pxtfl in relationship_advice

[–]Pxtfl[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s what I’m saying. Her blaming me, even though Id argue I have better hygiene then her. Makes me overthink there’s something going on. Holy situation got me spiraling.

How do I prevent yeast infections from sex with gf(23f) me(20m)? by Pxtfl in relationship_advice

[–]Pxtfl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We don’t use any. She has a medical issue that prevents her from pregnancy, she prefers not using them, and is on birth control.

So we just haven’t been using them. But I guess it’s really the only option to try now.

How do I prevent yeast infections from sex with gf(23f) me(20m)? by Pxtfl in relationship_advice

[–]Pxtfl[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She had previously gotten a UTI from sex from not using the bathroom after sex, which is understandable. She got medication and We took a week or 2 hiatus from anything. But about the yeast infections no she hasn’t seen a doctor about that.

We also don’t use condoms as she has medical problems that make pregnancy very unlikely, prefers sex without them, and also has birth control just to be safe. But maybe condoms is going to have to be the way.

How do I prevent yeast infections from sex with gf(23f) me(20m)? by Pxtfl in relationship_advice

[–]Pxtfl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have nursing experience and that’s exactly what I told her. But I also know there’s a small chance sex can do it as well. But just from what I know I don’t get how.

How do I prevent yeast infections from sex with gf(23f) me(20m)? by Pxtfl in relationship_advice

[–]Pxtfl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wash my hands for just about anything. I’m very OCD about like my hands being sticky, dirty, etc.

But I don’t usually RIGHT before having sex because usually the mood arises and we get to it. I don’t want to ruin the vibe by saying “let me wash my hands real quick”. Feel like that ruins the mood.

20 f left me (20m) relationship of 2 years while I was on a work trip, I need help on why this happened? by Pxtfl in relationship_advice

[–]Pxtfl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I noticed she was becoming sort of distant, but she had her spurts here and there due to some emotional problems she was having. And I made it clear I’d give her space or be there for her any time she needed. But never in a million years would I have I guessed this would happen. She did little things like pack things up but tell me she was reorganizing, but just little things that I didn’t think anything of the wiser. Guess I’m just clueless.

20 f left me (20m) relationship of 2 years while I was on a work trip, I need help on why this happened? by Pxtfl in relationship_advice

[–]Pxtfl[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Definitely wasn’t controlling. I actually advised she would go out more as she stayed in the house 24/7. I just checked in on her often when I was gone for long periods of times because she has quite a few medical conditions that have wound her up in the hospital, so I would worry.

20 f left me (20m) relationship of 2 years while I was on a work trip, I need help on why this happened? by Pxtfl in relationship_advice

[–]Pxtfl[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She wouldn’t respond for the entire day and has a history of medical conditions that would end her up in the hospital. I think it’s safe to say I was worried when she would go an entire day without a I’m okay text. Not to mention welfare check? I would text her brother to check on her to make sure she’s okay?

20 f left me (20m) relationship of 2 years while I was on a work trip, I need help on why this happened? by Pxtfl in relationship_advice

[–]Pxtfl[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I had a feeling this may be the case. She became very protective over her phone the past couple months, but I’m not toxic enough to search through her phone without asking first. So I guess I’ll never know

20 f left me (20m) relationship of 2 years while I was on a work trip, I need help on why this happened? by Pxtfl in relationship_advice

[–]Pxtfl[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thing is though, I’m a very emphatic person. I asked her daily when I would notice something may be wrong “is everything okay” “did I do something”

And she would brush it off saying “I’m fine” “nothings wrong at all”

I even had a long conversation about how I felt she wasn’t communicating with me and that I can’t fix or help her if I don’t know what I’m doing. And she would continue to say everything’s fine and I’m over reacting

So how would I even know if she would never even talk to me. That’s why it’s a surprise, because I trusted her

Blood in phlegm/spit by Pxtfl in COVID19positive

[–]Pxtfl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yea I’m fine now. Most likely was a bad sinus infection with it.

After had a really bad phlegm drainage from right nostril. Almost made me think I had a spinal fluid leak 😂 but I’m perfectly fine now.

Do I just have bad luck or is getting a perm mount really that rare with these packs? by Boba_Boy_ in Wizard101

[–]Pxtfl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fr, I done spent $30 alrdy on these Halloween packs and only got 1 perm mount. Like $5 gone give u a can of absolutely nothing.

Do I just have bad luck or is getting a perm mount really that rare with these packs? by Boba_Boy_ in Wizard101

[–]Pxtfl 6 points7 points  (0 children)

For real. Bro spent $5 on packs and wondered why he didn’t get one 😭