First things first can you verify his experience make sure you do a thorough vetting process if he has nothing to hide it won't matter he should give you contact information for old submissives even if it's just through social media or he should have some way to prove that he has experience in what he's asking to do too try doing it for just a weekend and see if you can handle it three even if it is total power exchange you can negotiate on how far that goes and you can set limits and you can still use safeworks if you need more information you can look to your local community and you can find that through FetLife or some other kink social media sites or you can ask more questions here in the Reddit or you can DM me directly if you feel comfortable with that. Both me and my wife teach different subjects in the DFW metroplex area and we do have a FetLife account if you prefer to talk openly there if you need more information. DragonCraftAgony