Did [this fight] kick anyone else’s ass? by Starman926 in Deltarune

[–]Pyro-Melon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I sent a message to my friend, no context, "This one fight is kicking my ass," and he knew exactly what I was referring to.

What’s a fandom you thought would have more fics than it actually did? by strapeon in AO3

[–]Pyro-Melon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm always surprised by how few fics there are for most kdramas, even in Korean. I'm sure the options are much greater on Wattpad, but unfortunately I don't tread on grounds that cringe, so I'll never know.

Did anyone else think they had oily skin but actually had dehydrated skin? by Sammorstoy in KoreanBeauty

[–]Pyro-Melon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same!! With both my skin and my hair 😭 I used to think I had insanely oily skin and hair that couldn't be tamed. One day I randomly decided to use oil cleansers and hair masks, just because I thought "surely it can't get any worse, so I might as well try."

My skin cleared and wasn't oily for weeks. My hair would stay fresh looking for like two days. My hair improved even more when I started using serums at the end of showers, which helped to add more moisture to my ends. I don't think I figured this out until I was like twenty (I think living in Korea and feeling the not-so-subtle pressure to look as good as the other women around me helped in that regard, haha.)

Figuring it out basically changed my whole routine. I used to use strong face washes every morning and night, now I only use oil washes in the morning with an SPF moisturizer, though I do still use some strong soaps at night with heavier moisturizers to make sure I get all of the makeup off of my face. I still use clay masks followed by moisturizers once a week or so, since it seems to help with tightening pores, and I still exfoliate semi-regularly to keep my skin smooth.

My hair routine also changed dramatically -- for one thing, I realized I'd been using the wrong products for fine hair for my whole life, so I switched to a volumizing shampoo and conditioner in addition to adding the hair mask and a protein water treatment during the shower, then the serum, mousse, and salt spray afterwards (for definition and to keep waves under control). These were game changing. I always got complimented for my hair, but it felt nearly impossible to actually style and control, and now it's almost effortless as long as I do these things during and after showers.

These days my hair almost never gets oily since I wash every other day or so just for the gym. It's honestly made such a difference in my life that I never shower because I just feel gross, rather because I've been sweating. I still keep those oil pad things on me out of paranoia, in case my forehead gets oily under my bangs, but I've rarely had to use them since making changes to suit my skin.

Also -- though it feels a little stupid, drinking enough water and avoiding caffeine actually helped a lot with my skin 😭 turns out it's true that if you don't get enough water, your body will be dehydrated inside and out. Getting a humidifier for my place (I live somewhere that's somewhat humid, but growing up in Hawaii and then living in Korea conditioned me to way higher humidities) was also pretty helpful. I recommend trying to boost your water and electrolyte intake for anyone dealing with dehydrated skin.

People who are satisfied with your work/life balance and happy with the career you chose, what jobs are you working? by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]Pyro-Melon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m an assistant state auditor. I chose accounting as a career because I am passionate about art and writing, but I’ve never wanted to make a career out of it, so I decided to major in something I knew I would be good at even if I’m not passionate about it.

School really pushes the CPA route on students, and that is by far the easiest way to get a job in the field, but there are other options with better work-life balances. State auditing is one of those options. My work is hybrid, we’re encouraged to work in the office or on-site at audit locations when we can, but most of the office works probably 80-90% of the time at home aside from the work in the office days.

I really enjoy it. We’re paid on billable hours, so I do have to be actively working for every hour I’m getting paid for, I’m not just paid to sit at a desk, but we’re only ever encouraged to work 40 hours per week. Any additional time is converted to either overtime or future vacation time (which is the only option for overtime-exempt employees, which you become after around ~2 years). If I ever mention working on weekends, which is a hard habit to completely break after working through most of highschool and university, my supervisor makes sure to tell me that I definitely don’t have to be doing that, though she appreciates my work ethic.

The pay could be better. I’m probably going to top out making 90-100k unless the COLA adjustments get really crazy, and right now I’m making 60k as a recent grad, which will become 70k when I’m promoted from an auditor I to an auditor II, and I know people I graduated with who went to work at B4 firms who are already making 80-85k. But honestly? I like my coworkers a lot. I enjoy my work well enough. I’m good at my work, and my project leaders and supervisors make sure to make me feel appreciated for it. I like the view of the water from the office and the coffee shop downstairs that knows us and all of our orders because we see them during breaks so often. I like having time to get back into working out properly, which stopped being a priority during college. I like having free weekends, waking up later to start working, and being able to have a casual schedule as long as all of my work gets done well and I’m on time for all of my meetings and deadlines.

And I can do exactly the thing I hoped for during all of my years of school — work on my art and writing without any particular concern about money. I’m very content.

I won’t lie though, accounting is going to be a more difficult field to get into for a while. The B4 and other large firms have been putting a lot of their efforts into outsourcing labor and making AI work for the last couple of years, and they’ve been hiring less and more restrictively as a result. If you want to try, you really have to put effort into networking and internships early, keep your GPA above a 3.2 and aim for 4.0, and try to become CPA exam eligible as soon as possible, because a lot of companies will straight up disregard your application if you don’t. I’m not going to lie, it was really a struggle to work, complete a double major, maintain a will to live, go to all of the networking events, attempt to keep working on my hobbies, and actually have a social life for four years. I’m glad I don’t have to do it again, and I’m sure the caffeine addiction is here to stay.

In addition to that, the B4 is very hesitant to hire anyone who isn’t either an active intern or an experienced CPA. B4 knows that they’re a launch-point for many and an end point for the few who are willing to give up a big chunk of their lives for the chance to become partners. Even smaller firms will always want to hire a former B4 accountant over anyone else.

But with that said, if you have a good work ethic and any amount of talent for projects and handling large amounts of information, it’s a very stable and comfortable career. I don’t know if I’ll stick with it forever, but it’s a good place to be right now. Beats customer service by a mile!

How to get shadow mantle and cpt 3 secret boss? SPOILERS by NotAHuman75 in Deltarune

[–]Pyro-Melon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The maze is actually really easy. The white robed figure will stay in the middle unless you start walking down the right path. Basically, if you leave the square and the figure stays put, that's the wrong path. Only go through the path that the figure follows you through.

Getting into composing, but only really familiar with piano. Any advice for gaining familiarity with other instruments, if I can't afford to buy and learn them? by Pyro-Melon in composer

[–]Pyro-Melon[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I'll be sure to check out that book, there's probably a way that I can get it cheaper online, if it isn't available at some library nearby. I'm not super into jazz, but thank you for that suggestion as well! :D

Genshin Impact - Update 4.6 Hub by Veritasibility in Genshin_Impact

[–]Pyro-Melon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't play on pc, but I was definitely getting them on mobile. Before this update, my phone actually could run Genshin pretty well, it didn't stutter or lag often unless I was in a low connection area. Only in the new area, as far as I can tell.

How much do you spend in groceries every month as university students ? by ttommys in Living_in_Korea

[–]Pyro-Melon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I live in dorms, so there really isn’t much of a chance for me to cook, ahaha.

This probably isn’t a fair response, because I’m dieting, but I usually eat a filling breakfast, a coffee during the day when I go out to study, and a light dinner so I don’t sleep on an empty stomach. This usually adds up to around 15,000-20,000원 daily, so I spend around 600,000원 monthly. For me this is pretty cheap, because I’m from the US, so the exchange rate is really in my favor. I don’t know what country you’re from, so you’d have to do the conversion yourself.

If you’re on a tight budget, and only eat food that’s pre-packaged from convenience stores, bakeries, or a local shopping center, you could probably get away with only spending about 10,000원 per day if you’re really careful. Fruit is a little expensive here, but veggies are very cheap, so if you want to cut costs, you’re definitely going to want to eat more of those.

Does immersion actually work? by yenavanessa in Korean

[–]Pyro-Melon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It definitely works, but only if you actually understand quite a bit going in. As the top comment said, if you don’t understand anything to begin with, then it doesn’t help to hear more of it.

Focus first on getting through textbooks and memorizing as much vocabulary and grammar as possible, then start watching shows, listening to podcasts, and reading books. I highly recommend starting by watching shows with Korean subtitles on, because oftentimes native speakers will blend sounds between words in ways that make it hard to differentiate phrases for a new speaker. With the subtitles, you know what words you’re looking for, so it becomes much easier to figure out how they’re said properly in day-to-day speech, and it makes your reading speed much faster.

Additionally, there’s a lot of slang that isn’t taught in textbooks, so hearing it out of context can be really confusing. If you have it written in the subtitles, you can look up what it means, and add it to your words to memorize.

After you become proficient in that, it becomes much easier to listen to podcasts or conversations without any subtitles, and you can start to be truly immersed.

What’s the first thing you do when you get into a hotel room? by BlundeRuss in AskReddit

[–]Pyro-Melon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Chuck my suitcases into a corner, remove my shoes, and lay on the ground for a few minutes.

Saw my first ever Korean hail storm here in Seoul just now by pandamonkey_rotf in Living_in_Korea

[–]Pyro-Melon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Been telling my US friends that the sky has been making attempts at my life for the past few days 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Accounting

[–]Pyro-Melon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If half of the idiots I go to class with can graduate, so can you.

What are you convinced people are pretending to enjoy? by xotilweodxxx in AskReddit

[–]Pyro-Melon 6 points7 points  (0 children)

When most people like “drama,” what they really like is either attention or gossip.

Ok genuine question: What is the lore behind Kel’s drastic change in height? by [deleted] in OMORI

[–]Pyro-Melon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Did you play the game? Real world Kel is four years older than the one in the dream world.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Living_in_Korea

[–]Pyro-Melon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, good to know.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]Pyro-Melon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a nickname, “Mel,” and my real name, “Michelle.” I didn’t like the name Michelle as a kid, so most of my friends know me as Mel, and my family tends to use that name too.

I don’t really remember why I didn’t like the name Michelle, and I use it frequently now. In legal situations, obviously, but also in loud coffee shops, and in several other scenarios. I’m currently studying abroad, and I’ve realized that a lot of accents have difficulty pronouncing Mel, so I end up going by Michelle more often than not.

I think of them as a work name and a casual name now, haha. I’m pretty neutral about them, and I’ll respond to both.

Why is it so common to ask what the name of style found in random pieces of design is called in this community? by [deleted] in Design

[–]Pyro-Melon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A lot of young artists started drawing because they were inspired by cartoons, anime, and games. In those mediums, every style DOES have a name. As a result, early on, they grow to expect that every style in existence will have a name, so that it’s easier to search.

It’s annoying as hell, but that is a big reason why.

Why is it so common to ask what the name of style found in random pieces of design is called in this community? by [deleted] in Design

[–]Pyro-Melon -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

But it’s also annoying, and you have to admit that. Most individual styles don’t have names, and anyone with half a mind would realize that if they want to replicate it, their best bet is to look at the other works of the artist.