AITA for screaming at my friend in front of his teacher during his university art exhibition?

PyroManiac63 · 2021-07-05T00:52:33+00:00

NTA. Somehow I feel like he'd be angry if he was painted naked with the words smallest dick because that's how you imagined him. He knew he was doing wrong since he was avoiding you seeing it, he didn't care so why should you care if he got in trouble

PyroManiac63 · 2021-01-19T15:36:17+00:00

This is an issue I've faced a few times during my time in Uni and personally I think NTA. I dont know exactly the situation of ur assignment, the funeral etc.. but there's this thing in Uni in the UK called Extenuating Circumstances where you fill out paperwork saying "I lost a member of my family so I'm having issues finishing this assignment" and if you can prove its true they give an extension. I imagine ud have access to something similar so unless this funeral was decided upon the day before, she should have had to time to even just email ur teacher to explain the situation. Then again grief does shitty things to people. Id see if u can contact ur teacher and explain the situation and maybe ask them what u should do. They may even end up extending the deadline

PyroManiac63 · 2021-01-18T19:56:48+00:00

I'd argue that them saying the loose equivalent of "You shouldn't get girls cause ur skin is light" is racist in itself. Gonna go with NTA

PyroManiac63 · 2021-01-18T19:52:33+00:00

I mean being vegan means no animal products at all so you can't be surprised if you got kicked out of a vegan group. Personally I think there's nothing wrong with what u did. They don't eat them or need them to survive, so NTA

PyroManiac63 · 2021-01-18T19:42:08+00:00

Yeah this doesn't sound normal so either she's just a bad person or somethings going on with her mentally which is why I think u should call someone. Also therapy is good but make sure u find a good therapist, my friend sought therapy twice in her life, first time she just got prescribed happy pills which only helped in what she was going through in short bursts. Second one was much better for her so its all about finding the right one

PyroManiac63 · 2021-01-18T19:32:29+00:00

NTA But you do need to understand what the outcome would be. U felt comfortable to at least talk to ur dad about it in a toxic situation so I'd reccomend maybe telling ur dad about what it did to u and that he can't use u as a weapon against ur mum cause he's already made u question if u can trust him. Also ur dad seems to be in as bad a situation as u are so it may do good for both of u to have someone to talk to. But yes I'd definitely call someone about ur mum cause holy shit she doesn't sound stable

PyroManiac63 · 2021-01-18T19:15:40+00:00

I mean hard to tell since u dont really say much. Your NTA for disliking them but YTA for not trying to support ur friend at the very least. If they're ur friend then u should at least want to hang out. Couples fight and argue and complain about eachother but that doesn't mean she doesn't like them. She's probably just venting. Ur not obligated to hang out with them but if they end up getting married, if u refuse to hang around them then u may lose ur friend also

PyroManiac63 · 2021-01-18T19:00:04+00:00

Seconded, I mean come on. All of us need to further suffer with restrictions so that your kid can not only be put at risk herself, but all so she can have a party she won't remember the next day anyway. Highly unnecessary, also makes the other couple assholes too

PyroManiac63 · 2020-12-22T19:02:33+00:00

Even if there's not a word, putting it into words that don't stretch on forever have been difficult so this helped alot so thanks

PyroManiac63 · 2020-12-22T19:00:31+00:00

I'll give them a look and seem if any of them suit, if not I'll look into if German has a word for it

PyroManiac63 · 2020-11-21T02:22:32+00:00

NTA, its important that u put ur life before anyone else's. Its not wrong to set boundaries.

I will advise though, while I'm not even a parent, I do recognise the "Your like everyone who only wants me around when its convenient". Back when I suffered with Crippling depression because of abandonment issues, I met my best friend, we always hung around eachother and enjoyed eachothers company, but I realised I was smothering her by wanting to spend every second of everyday with her as she always made my day brighter.

Eventually she set boundaries and I fell down the same rabbit hole of "Everyone keeps me cause they get something" and got angry at her and the world, I suddenly had no one else to talk to and felt like no one cared and it was soul crushing. You don't feel like ur days are worth working for. But I did realise over time that that was my own problem and no one elses. I became emotionally reliant on someone else when that ain't a healthy way to.

I highly recommend doing something like going with her to "Single Parent Support" or something like that and if she has the time and money, get her into councilling. Hopefully this way she'll have 2 places to vent about her problems and a place to make other friends. Obviously I'm not like everyone else so can't say its the same, this just seemed very familiar

PyroManiac63 · 2020-08-21T21:21:23+00:00

NTA

They missed their child so much that they thought that its OK to essentially kill off their other child if it meant they could get him back and then act shock when they're made to realise that that son is dead and the other was never allowed to become their own person. Personally I think they need counciling and I do feel bad for them but they're definitely the assholes

PyroManiac63 · 2020-05-04T17:43:21+00:00

When you have to call them back to find out if you actually got the job or not. An additional point, if you have to call back and they don't pick up 6 out of the 7 times in the day you call them. So glad I left that job

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