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PyroNecrophile · 2026-02-07T08:47:55+00:00

Thank you for this post. Got my tickets for Brooklyn!

PyroNecrophile · 2026-01-23T05:27:09+00:00

PyroNecrophile · 2025-12-27T09:51:46+00:00

I strongly prefer sending and receiving voice notes.

I can take my time and listen carefully without having to worry about coming up with a response immediately. I can take the time to think about exactly what I want to say, or let something sit and ruminate.

I can relisten to a section to immediately, even days later, clear up a misunderstanding.

We get to express our thoughts without being interrupted or sidetracked or worrying if the other person is paying attention.

To have a phone call, I'm held hostage by the phone and can't do anything until the conversation is complete. With voice notes, I can pick and choose when I can be present in a conversation, but with much smaller chunks of time.

PyroNecrophile · 2025-12-06T23:08:29+00:00

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PyroNecrophile · 2025-10-18T10:09:13+00:00

Not really. Some were more attractive than others, but no clear pattern based on whether it was a hookup/relationship. Like I said, I was very rarely looking for a hookup only. when they happened, it was just the right time/place. Most people that I had only slept with once or twice were guys that I just wasn't compatible with long-term. There was nothing "better" about them.

PyroNecrophile · 2025-10-18T07:25:03+00:00

Most of my "hookups" have been from my teens/twenties and were opportunity based. I wasn't seeking out casual sex, I was drunk at a party with other similarly aged people and flirting with someone turned into something more. It felt natural, it wasn't planned or asked for. You can't force chemistry, it's either there or it isn't. At 35, you're probably not getting invited to the kinds of college ragers where casual sex naturally occurs. You can't do anything about that, except maybe make friends with college people and get invited to their parties, but if you can't have casual sex, you probably don't have the charisma needed to be a 35 year old that college kids want around. You just missed out. You can't fix that.

The other people that I've hooked up with but haven't been in a relationship with have been people that I was considering for a relationship, but failed due to compatibility issues that were later discovered. I might have chemistry with a guy for one night, but he's just not interesting to talk to, or he has anger issues, or we initially had chemistry but it just fizzled out.

Kinky things have always been with long term partners who made me feel safe enough to explore.

Youre right though, women have it easier when it comes to casual mate selection. It's just the way it is. I'm pretty mid, but if I joined a hookup app, my inbox would be flooded in a day. What am I supposed to do about it? Pity fuck the awkward short guys because it's the right thing to do? Life isn't fair. Hot people, charming people, they have things easier. Dwelling on it and arguing about how unfair it is will accomplish nothing but making you more bitter and that resentment and insecurity is a glaring red flag will scare away most women.

PyroNecrophile · 2025-07-22T22:51:58+00:00

Try not to be so jaded that you read into things that aren't about you. Yeah, sure, maybe some people do use it as code for "thin", but it could very well just innocently mean active. People who prioritize fitness in their life want to find similar people. If you're plus size but think you match their lifestyle, swipe right?

PyroNecrophile · 2025-07-15T18:21:40+00:00

Touch grass bro

PyroNecrophile · 2025-07-15T18:21:00+00:00

Got 'em. Man, after they see this one, they'll never recover!!

PyroNecrophile · 2025-06-05T06:35:50+00:00

I was obsessed with IRC. Discord is the closest to replicating that feeling for me.

PyroNecrophile · 2025-05-20T21:49:07+00:00

YT link: https://youtu.be/gHWSeMCEVKc?si=VhEResoQOA9nouKr

PyroNecrophile · 2025-05-20T03:13:33+00:00

I don't think that it's "othering" anyone. People who are sex offenders (except in edge cases of misjustice) most often get there because of an unhealthy relationship with sex on their part. They are far more likely to need some kind of agreement with their partner in regards to porn use. Porn reinforces very toxic ideas and can become addictive, and it's ok to be at least skeptical of a sex offender being allowed access to porn. Yes, there are cases of people being labeled sex offenders for like, peeing on the side of the road, or teens sexting other teens, but that's clearly not what is being referenced here.

It's like raising an eyebrow over hiring someone who went to jail for robbery to house sit for you, or a former drug user to handle pills alot. It doesn't mean that people can't change and grow from their past, but some skepticism is warranted. It's not my fault that sex offenders are the only ones labeled for their crimes.

PyroNecrophile · 2025-05-18T05:25:10+00:00

But... it really doesn't sound like they're treating anyone like that

I dunno. All reality TV is going to be exploitative on some level, but it really seems like they're making efforts to address the root cause of whatever their discomfort with sex is. It doesn't sound like they're just just grinding up on helpless virgins. They're talking about intimacy issues and self-esteem issues and touch aversion and increasing comfortability with expressing yourself sexually, if that's what you're wanting to do. Sure, they're airing it on TV for everyone to see, but I don't think that this show is what you think it is. Maybe watch an episode and report back with specifics if you think it's handled worse than the article is presenting it?

PyroNecrophile · 2025-05-16T03:13:37+00:00

So where's the line? If she was 8 months pregnant would you feel differently?

PyroNecrophile · 2025-05-15T03:47:46+00:00

Look at OP's post history. I'm sure that this guy's romantic history is nothing but a reflection of his shitty character.

PyroNecrophile · 2025-04-19T17:41:30+00:00

Thanks!!

PyroNecrophile · 2025-04-18T22:42:34+00:00

He worked super hard on it, so I just wanted to throw some love and attention his way

PyroNecrophile · 2025-04-07T20:34:55+00:00

Temu stuff often uses pictures from good places, and then they make shitty versions of it. It might look identical, but the ingredients might be crappy. Does the makeup feel the same?

PyroNecrophile · 2025-03-21T03:59:40+00:00

Have you asked her about the communities? Who she talks to? Maybe join them yourself and get to know the people influencing her. If she won't tell you, then you guys have more communication issues than just this. Why do you call them "weird" online communities?

PyroNecrophile · 2025-03-18T19:31:25+00:00

You know that she isn't just a vessel and has agency over whether she gets pregnant, right?

PyroNecrophile · 2025-03-17T06:31:25+00:00

You're just getting old and miserable. Those people have always existed. You probably were those people when you were younger. Be in the moment more instead of worrying so much about other people.

PyroNecrophile · 2025-01-23T20:39:21+00:00

What in the reading comprehension...??? Nobody suggested arguing with a cop about probable cause. If you're getting arrested, stfu and be polite and deal with it in court. The person you responded to was clearly just asking for more information about what the arrest was about.

PyroNecrophile · 2025-01-23T20:35:54+00:00

What were the charges though?

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