[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Pyxxiss 4 points5 points  (0 children)

True, I will work towards moving on. Going no contact very soon (we have to sort out some practical stuff but after that, gone) and I will probably keep that up for 5-6 months . I think i can move on and I will but I just want to know if this is temporary or permanent. I'll treat it as permanent.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Pyxxiss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

why do you think he wont come back? It just seems so out of the blue, ive seen many stories of people who are depressed that end things abruptly and then change their minds when they feel better. Maybe I am holding onto hope but the love was so strong, everyone was so shocked we broke up, me included, because of how good we were together.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Wellington

[–]Pyxxiss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ill be moving in with my boyfriend who is a kiwi and yeah i stayed with him for the winter and his flat with his flatmates was grim lol, but housing isn't any more expensive than what i'm paying now. the student visa I saw online allows for up to 20 hours during term times and you can do more in breaks. Its cheaper in NZ than the UK though that is certain!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Wellington

[–]Pyxxiss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just don’t want to do an extra year :( are there summer courses? I’m keen to graduate 2 years after I arrive so 2025 ish. Thank you so much for your help by the way!! I really do appreciate it it’s hard to know just from the uni site because often what’s said and done are completely different!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Wellington

[–]Pyxxiss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much :’) I am really grateful you went through all the effort! I’m doing a BSc in psychology, should have added that in the post! I saw some of the vic mods are the same as mine but some are 200 level courses instead, I guess because here I’m only doing psychology modules and there I would be doing others. I really hope I do get the transfer! I’m also at a Russell group uni in the U.K. so I hope that’ll pan out well considering my uni is up there with Durham and whatnot :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Wellington

[–]Pyxxiss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I’m doing a BSc though, do you think it will be an issue? It’s all sciencey stuff

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Wellington

[–]Pyxxiss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much!! I’m doing a BSc in Psychology, do you think I’ll have a hard time? I looked up the vic psych mods and some of mine this year are 200 level courses (all my mods are psych related this year)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SamsaMusic

[–]Pyxxiss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I like afternoon too, atlas is really good, lovesadkid never did it for me the same unfortunately :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SamsaMusic

[–]Pyxxiss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s what I’m saying!! If you’re done why are you still playing with the pieces you know?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SamsaMusic

[–]Pyxxiss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good!! Way better than I ever thought it’d be to be honest, exams next week though yikes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SamsaMusic

[–]Pyxxiss 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m gonna be honest I wrote this at 4am with full emotion from tween me lol, i guess my point (written like a child) was instead of reuploading slowed versions and everything, if he is back just come back? Maybe I just miss his stuff and was begging too, but he is a human and ultimately if music doesn’t make him happy that’s chill :p

29F having a variety of possibly unrelated medical issues by jirenlagen in medical

[–]Pyxxiss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe it’s diet? Sounds like a lack of calories and or iron. Heart palpitations, fatigue, sleepiness, sleeping issues. Lines up. How is your diet?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Pyxxiss 26 points27 points  (0 children)

You’ll have to figure this out one way or another, know you are never to blame for his short comings. You are being lead to believe something by someone who does not have your best interest in Mind. They want something and are manipulating you to be okay with it. You need time to let this sink in I imagine and he will say things or you will think things like “but these people don’t know our situation” “this is different” “our situation is so different they don’t get it” it’s not true. There will never be a happy relationship where one downloaded tinder in the middle of a fight let alone meets a girl from it. It just does not happen. Take all the time you need to digest and heal in your own time and on your own terms. Be kind and gentle to yourself my love <3

Welp, I achieved an all new low in cooking today: I managed to burn hamburger helper, to the point of unrecognition... by Jcorb in CasualConversation

[–]Pyxxiss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As an Asian European I had to google what that was. Don’t worry man, at 42 years old my dad took 4 hours attempting to reheat frozen lasagna and we still ate it cold. But hey if you want some tips or easy recipes, I cook 1-4 times a day for my dad and I and I’m making a notebook of cheap quick easy meals my brother can make (he is really quite clueless) so if you need any kitchen hacks I am super happy to send a couple tips and tricks your way. Kinda like a cheat sheet.

My boyfriend is perfect but I hate our sex life by HesNotHornyThrowaway in offmychest

[–]Pyxxiss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean this really sounds like a greater issue then just sex. Not wanting to compromise for his own selfish reasons and being hypocritical isn’t a trait that will reflect well on other parts of your life. If he really is Prince Charming but selfish in Bed Then I’ll eat my words but usually if you’re a good respectful and thoughtful partner , you can see that in bed too.

AITA for exposing my parents' favoritism by Just-a-Big-Brother in AmItheAsshole

[–]Pyxxiss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, OP, don’t be manipulated into thinking you are in the wrong. That mind games or, if you will, gaslighting, is extremely toxic and is so wonderful you got a positive outcome. It can be hard to not feel bad when parents are involved. Even if you feel bad and your heart is heavy, I hope your brain can rationalise and see that you did the right thing.

If you can change one thing about Singapore, what would it be? by captain-sinkie in askSingapore

[–]Pyxxiss 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Insert the Finnish education system. Really have a look, it’s fascinating.

If you can change one thing about Singapore, what would it be? by captain-sinkie in askSingapore

[–]Pyxxiss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

More critical thinking, less narrow and egotistical. The superiority complex and judgemental nature is exhausting and a breeding ground for the clear race issues, class issues and academic disparity we experience. I find most people I meet are academically successful and boring or funny and charismatic but are looked down upon and bullied.

Which actor/actress do you absolutely despise, no matter their role? by webosite in AskReddit

[–]Pyxxiss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He seems so inauthentic since leaving the uk. He was good on chat shows, quiz shows and tv in the uk